Resentment; a burden to bear or God's gift to man?

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

Well even though this thread was started by crusader, it has helped me worked through my own issues as well.

You're both quite correct in what you say though, as the only way to resolve problems is to simply move on with your life, as nothing else can be done of it, events only have as much emotional significance as you are willing to invest in them.

I am happy you are feeling better

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

Don't resent...

REPRESENT.

I like that one lol but how do you do the represent part?

 

[Tom Tickle]

Well, there is nothing that YOU can do, especially if you haven't done whatever it is you've been accused of. It makes your heart ache, it makes you sick, but it really isn't your problem.

they're the ones who have been duplicitous, unfaithful and shown mendacity. Don't let this consume you, but perhaps it will allow you to read people a little better, even if you are more guarded. There are some nasty pieces of work around.

 

[The_Crusader]

Sorry I haven't been to this thread in some time. You guys have all made excellent points. What I've come to understand; never forget, never forgive (edict of the black templars) but do not let rage consume you. Learn to deal with it. Get past it. Move on. Grow from it. Be untrusting until such time as the other person gives you REASON to trust them. That's what I've got to add.