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Sadistic experience
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Sunriseticklee
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It isn't abuse if the lee and the ler negotiate this type of session and there is consent.
Therefore... The lee IS having fun.
However, respect... This isn't for everyone. No one is making anyone tickle or be tickled or it would be abuse. This is not that.
Happy Tickling.
Therefore... The lee IS having fun.
However, respect... This isn't for everyone. No one is making anyone tickle or be tickled or it would be abuse. This is not that.
Happy Tickling.
torturoustickle
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Define abuse?
I also attend bdsm parties. Is someone getting their arse reddened on a spanking bench abuse? What about a good flogging on a Saint Andrews Cross. How about needling and electro play or mummification.
Horses for courses my friend. ✌️
torturoustickle
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You're correct, you never forget your first, especially when he was as good as yours was. They are big shoes to fill, Lol.
I'm sure you'll find your perfect tickle match one day and you should never give up looking. There just might be a crazy, sadistic, caring, ruthless, tickler just around the corner waiting to tickle you off your feet. 😉😊
I'm sure you'll find your perfect tickle match one day and you should never give up looking. There just might be a crazy, sadistic, caring, ruthless, tickler just around the corner waiting to tickle you off your feet. 😉😊
Sunriseticklee
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I found a pretty good one through TMF years ago and married him.
We're no longer together, but such is life.
I'm not looking for anyone to sweep me off my feet. I had love for a very long time, and I am grateful. Now, I just want to play, have a good time, and enjoy tickling with friendships, not a relationship or romance.
Looking for my fantasies to come true now.... lol
We're no longer together, but such is life.
I'm not looking for anyone to sweep me off my feet. I had love for a very long time, and I am grateful. Now, I just want to play, have a good time, and enjoy tickling with friendships, not a relationship or romance.
Looking for my fantasies to come true now.... lol
Just a huge shout out to Sunriseticklee for her wonderful sharing! The descriptions you give and the emotions you express so greatly are why others involved in the community love to hear and read them (including me). Even if one is interested in having the Lee role, to find the right Lee that fills your innermost desires is a supreme gift! I mean those desires we sometimes don't even know we have or how much we will enjoy (even though its a form of 'torture' to endure, the adrenaline /endorphin floods are worth it ).
The giving of oneself as a Lee for someone else to use, then for the Ler to push the boundaries to the max, to seek out your 'worst/best' spots (because they really are one and the same😊😈❤️)....well, thats why some plays partners keep returning for more!
Thanks so much for sharing!
The giving of oneself as a Lee for someone else to use, then for the Ler to push the boundaries to the max, to seek out your 'worst/best' spots (because they really are one and the same😊😈❤️)....well, thats why some plays partners keep returning for more!
Thanks so much for sharing!
As mentioned, there is an interplay between Ler and Lee that is negotiated ahead of time so the session goes the way both of them want. The needs and wants for each set of play partners is variable and not the same for everyone. But there can be a safe level of very intense tickling between two play partners....and that is what is it...A PLAY session meant to benefit each participant.
Sunriseticklee
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Appreciated, @aberdeen however, I have enjoyed reading everyone's descriptions. As this is my favorite type of play, I'm interested in hearing about so many different experiences... Lers and lees... Soaring out of control.. Or falling down the rabbit hole. That's what I call it
Everyone-
I used to (as a ticklee) purposely get into my lers' heads and do whatever I could to make them want to punish me until I learned that consent works both ways. It's a lot more rewarding when the tickler and ticklee have the same goals.
Again, I play on all levels... I want my session partner to be comfortable and to have fun. And, well... I love all of it... playful, intense, sadistic, the bondage, or tickle fights, or casual play.... 💕 I feel I have to say this because when I describe my favorite type of session, people make assumptions. (Immediately)
"Oh! I could never do that!"
"I want my ticklee to have fun."
"... insert abuse comment"
"... insert tears making dicks soft comment..." 🤷🏾♀️😂
It appeared even here. So... If you do enjoy the intensity, the blurred lines between the pleasure and the torture, losing control, pushed boundaries, the sweet, panicked giggles, tearful begging... My goodness! I live for that moment when I finally say, "I can't take it anymore!" and I mean it. And nothing else exists but that maddening ticklish sensation, my tickler's voice, and the sound of my own hopeless laughter....
"Please stop! Please stop!"
Once I start rapidly repeating myself, you've got me. Doesn't matter though. You might not ever stop! Ever.... 😭💖 Sigh! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
.
Ticklers (some of you lol) .. Don't you ever enjoy that tight-rope walk ...that dance along thoroughly tickled and bested and broken? You want to edge them along, but you don't want to tickle them to pieces just yet.... Closer and closer to that limit.... Fingers fluttering away.... Closer... Building and building like the instruments in a symphony.... Trying yourself not to lose control.... Holding back.... High on the laughter, the power... C'mon! I'm a ler-leaning switch. It's everything. 😈😁✌🏾
Come find me. 🤣
Everyone-
I used to (as a ticklee) purposely get into my lers' heads and do whatever I could to make them want to punish me until I learned that consent works both ways. It's a lot more rewarding when the tickler and ticklee have the same goals.
Again, I play on all levels... I want my session partner to be comfortable and to have fun. And, well... I love all of it... playful, intense, sadistic, the bondage, or tickle fights, or casual play.... 💕 I feel I have to say this because when I describe my favorite type of session, people make assumptions. (Immediately)
"Oh! I could never do that!"
"I want my ticklee to have fun."
"... insert abuse comment"
"... insert tears making dicks soft comment..." 🤷🏾♀️😂
It appeared even here. So... If you do enjoy the intensity, the blurred lines between the pleasure and the torture, losing control, pushed boundaries, the sweet, panicked giggles, tearful begging... My goodness! I live for that moment when I finally say, "I can't take it anymore!" and I mean it. And nothing else exists but that maddening ticklish sensation, my tickler's voice, and the sound of my own hopeless laughter....
"Please stop! Please stop!"
Once I start rapidly repeating myself, you've got me. Doesn't matter though. You might not ever stop! Ever.... 😭💖 Sigh! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
.
Ticklers (some of you lol) .. Don't you ever enjoy that tight-rope walk ...that dance along thoroughly tickled and bested and broken? You want to edge them along, but you don't want to tickle them to pieces just yet.... Closer and closer to that limit.... Fingers fluttering away.... Closer... Building and building like the instruments in a symphony.... Trying yourself not to lose control.... Holding back.... High on the laughter, the power... C'mon! I'm a ler-leaning switch. It's everything. 😈😁✌🏾
Come find me. 🤣
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torturoustickle
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Everyone-
I used to (as a ticklee) purposely get into my lers' heads and do whatever I could to make them want to punish me until I learned that consent works both ways. It's a lot more rewarding when the tickler and ticklee have the same goals.
Again, I play on all levels... I want my session partner to be comfortable and to have fun. And, well... I love all of it .. playful, intense, sadistic, the bondage, or tickle fights, or casual play.... 💕 I feel I have to say this because when I describe my favorite type of session, people make assumptions. (Immediately)
"Oh! I could never do that!"
"I want my ticklee to have fun."
"... insert abuse comment"
"... insert tears making dicks soft comment..." 🤷🏾♀️😂
It appeared even here. So... If you do enjoy the intensity, the blurred lines between the pleasure and the torture, losing control, pushed boundaries, the sweet, panicked giggles, tearful begging... My goodness! I live for that moment when i finally say, "I can't take it anymore!" and I mean it. And nothing else exists but that maddening ticklish sensation, my tickler's voice, and the sound of my own hopeless laughter....
"Please stop! Please stop!"
Once I start rapidly repeating myself, you've got me. Doesn't matter though. You might not ever stop! Ever.... 😭💖 Sigh! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
.
Ticklers (some of you lol) .. Don't you ever enjoy that tight-rope walk ...that dance along thoroughly tickled and bested and broken? You want to edge them along, but you don't want to tickle them to pieces just yet.... Closer and closer to that limit.... Fingers fluttering away.... Closer... Building and building like the instruments in a symphony.... Trying yourself not to lose control.... Holding back.... High on the laughter, the power... C'mon! I'm a ler-leaning switch. It's everything. 😈😁✌🏾
Come find me. 🤣
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I must say, you're not just talking my language, you're sky writing it. Lol
I too am a Ler leaning switch who likes to play at an intense level.
Throughout my long tickling journey I've tried to indulge in as many different types of experiences as I can. The playful, the semi-intense, and the OMG I think I'm gonna die.
I joined my local bdsm community, and learned about strict but safe bondage, many other forms of delicious torture 😋 and the art of after-care.
At the end of it all, you eventually discover who you are, and are (hopefully) happy in your own skin.
That's where I am now. I still enjoy pretty much all things tickling, but my heart lies with with that level that I can best describe as a total power exchange.
A Lee that is on the precipice. Too ticklish to endure but to stubborn to admit defeat. They have tried everything. The denial, the resistance, the compromise, and the puppy eyed begging. I'll offer false hope like: "get at least one arm free and I'll stop". Just to watch them double their futile struggling efforts. 😈
I'm drunk on the power, feeding off their energy. Meanwhile, they don't understand why I haven't stopped. Have they not begged hard enough? Or do they?
My Lee is my Princess. My beautiful, smart, stubborn, adorkable Princess. But I want to hear her laugh, sweet and hysterical. I want to hear her beg, heartfelt and earnestly. And I want to see her writhe and struggle. Till she's red faced, flushed and sweating.
Only then do I know she's mine, breathless, broken, and beautiful. And when I know she has nothing more to give, when her tears are free flowing, and her soul has finally fallen over that precipice. Then I will be there to catch her in my arms, and bring her back to earth.
Now I know that's not for everybody, maybe not even for the majority. But that's me. And somewhere out there is my equally crazy partner in crime. Sorry, not sorry to all that disagree, but different folks for different strokes. And may you all find what you are looking for.
Cheers to you all.
Torturous 🪶
I used to (as a ticklee) purposely get into my lers' heads and do whatever I could to make them want to punish me until I learned that consent works both ways. It's a lot more rewarding when the tickler and ticklee have the same goals.
Again, I play on all levels... I want my session partner to be comfortable and to have fun. And, well... I love all of it .. playful, intense, sadistic, the bondage, or tickle fights, or casual play.... 💕 I feel I have to say this because when I describe my favorite type of session, people make assumptions. (Immediately)
"Oh! I could never do that!"
"I want my ticklee to have fun."
"... insert abuse comment"
"... insert tears making dicks soft comment..." 🤷🏾♀️😂
It appeared even here. So... If you do enjoy the intensity, the blurred lines between the pleasure and the torture, losing control, pushed boundaries, the sweet, panicked giggles, tearful begging... My goodness! I live for that moment when i finally say, "I can't take it anymore!" and I mean it. And nothing else exists but that maddening ticklish sensation, my tickler's voice, and the sound of my own hopeless laughter....
"Please stop! Please stop!"
Once I start rapidly repeating myself, you've got me. Doesn't matter though. You might not ever stop! Ever.... 😭💖 Sigh! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
.
Ticklers (some of you lol) .. Don't you ever enjoy that tight-rope walk ...that dance along thoroughly tickled and bested and broken? You want to edge them along, but you don't want to tickle them to pieces just yet.... Closer and closer to that limit.... Fingers fluttering away.... Closer... Building and building like the instruments in a symphony.... Trying yourself not to lose control.... Holding back.... High on the laughter, the power... C'mon! I'm a ler-leaning switch. It's everything. 😈😁✌🏾
Come find me. 🤣
[/QUOTE]
I must say, you're not just talking my language, you're sky writing it. Lol
I too am a Ler leaning switch who likes to play at an intense level.
Throughout my long tickling journey I've tried to indulge in as many different types of experiences as I can. The playful, the semi-intense, and the OMG I think I'm gonna die.
I joined my local bdsm community, and learned about strict but safe bondage, many other forms of delicious torture 😋 and the art of after-care.
At the end of it all, you eventually discover who you are, and are (hopefully) happy in your own skin.
That's where I am now. I still enjoy pretty much all things tickling, but my heart lies with with that level that I can best describe as a total power exchange.
A Lee that is on the precipice. Too ticklish to endure but to stubborn to admit defeat. They have tried everything. The denial, the resistance, the compromise, and the puppy eyed begging. I'll offer false hope like: "get at least one arm free and I'll stop". Just to watch them double their futile struggling efforts. 😈
I'm drunk on the power, feeding off their energy. Meanwhile, they don't understand why I haven't stopped. Have they not begged hard enough? Or do they?
My Lee is my Princess. My beautiful, smart, stubborn, adorkable Princess. But I want to hear her laugh, sweet and hysterical. I want to hear her beg, heartfelt and earnestly. And I want to see her writhe and struggle. Till she's red faced, flushed and sweating.
Only then do I know she's mine, breathless, broken, and beautiful. And when I know she has nothing more to give, when her tears are free flowing, and her soul has finally fallen over that precipice. Then I will be there to catch her in my arms, and bring her back to earth.
Now I know that's not for everybody, maybe not even for the majority. But that's me. And somewhere out there is my equally crazy partner in crime. Sorry, not sorry to all that disagree, but different folks for different strokes. And may you all find what you are looking for.
Cheers to you all.
Torturous 🪶
Those last two commentaries by Sunrise and Torturous really describe the 'power exchange' ( that many Lers and Lees are looking for ) so well !
I believe part of the problem is that most people assume that there is some level of "meanness' involved in pushing a Lee to their ultimate limits...or maybe a little past (?).... ( We do use the term 'tickle torture' after all...mostly to signify the INTENSITY of the EXPERIENCE).
I don't believe that thorough and profound ticklers are necessarily 'mean' as we think of it ! We do enjoy creating the sensations that tickling evokes and using the sensations to overwhelm the Lee until they are a frantic and frenzied mess! Yes, seeing their transformation into a helpless mass of overstimulated flesh is quite enjoyable for some of us....as well as putting ourselves into that role sometimes as well ! We can't ignore the willing Lee's that LOVE and LIVE for the ticklish insanity brought by their Ler's hands....and psyche! Lets not forget that true and good tickling is a mind game as well between the Ler and Lee...how you talk and tease and taunt the poor thing is as much a part of tickling as the actual physical actions themselves. Words can add so much! It all adds to the entire experience of tickling and being tickled!
As it was said...there are many levels and variations and intensities of the tickling fixaton. Everyone is not alike, and some will enjoy the extremes only , some only the gentle side of tickling, and some of us enjoy the entire gamut of intensities and scenarios!
I believe part of the problem is that most people assume that there is some level of "meanness' involved in pushing a Lee to their ultimate limits...or maybe a little past (?).... ( We do use the term 'tickle torture' after all...mostly to signify the INTENSITY of the EXPERIENCE).
I don't believe that thorough and profound ticklers are necessarily 'mean' as we think of it ! We do enjoy creating the sensations that tickling evokes and using the sensations to overwhelm the Lee until they are a frantic and frenzied mess! Yes, seeing their transformation into a helpless mass of overstimulated flesh is quite enjoyable for some of us....as well as putting ourselves into that role sometimes as well ! We can't ignore the willing Lee's that LOVE and LIVE for the ticklish insanity brought by their Ler's hands....and psyche! Lets not forget that true and good tickling is a mind game as well between the Ler and Lee...how you talk and tease and taunt the poor thing is as much a part of tickling as the actual physical actions themselves. Words can add so much! It all adds to the entire experience of tickling and being tickled!
As it was said...there are many levels and variations and intensities of the tickling fixaton. Everyone is not alike, and some will enjoy the extremes only , some only the gentle side of tickling, and some of us enjoy the entire gamut of intensities and scenarios!
Sunriseticklee
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Reminder...
Sadistic tickling does not mean that the tickling is rough. Sadistic tickling can be gentle... And gentle tickling can be just as ruthless and unrelenting, and can feel just as devastating and amazing. One doesn't have to be rough to be effective or intense.
Sadistic tickling does not mean that the tickling is rough. Sadistic tickling can be gentle... And gentle tickling can be just as ruthless and unrelenting, and can feel just as devastating and amazing. One doesn't have to be rough to be effective or intense.
torturoustickle
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Reminder...
Sadistic tickling does not mean that the tickling is rough. Sadistic tickling can be gentle... And gentle tickling can be just as ruthless and unrelenting, and can feel just as devastating and amazing. One doesn't have to be rough to be effective or intense.
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Doriansenigma
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My wife can take it forever even though shes really ticklish, so I don’t know if sadistic is the right word. Although I have had fantasies about it Ive never had it in me to truly be sadistic.
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I have a friend who can be very intense in his tickling. It's playful and we both know it's in good fun but he can be even more ruthless than my partner. He knows a spot where I am I would almost say painfully ticklish. The laugh spasms and the urge to pull away are overwhelming. When he has me pinned down or tied up he will sometimes just linger there. He gives me another room to breathe but that is about it. The sensitivity of the area (lower belly, beneath the bellybutton) and the fact that it makes me laugh hysterically in a way I can't hold in just very quickly takes me to the point where I want it to stop.
