Safeword plus TEN...too good not to share.

[gig1965]

hi All, i rarely post but i think i'd like to share this....i play a lot...with many different tickle friends.
quite a few want to be pushed to the limit...or past it.....a dicey area once you are in that territory.

i have always used a safe word...but one of the more interesting things i have done with the girls who really request to be pushed is what i call safeword plus 10/20 30 etc.

basically when the safe word is given, i keep tickling for 10/20/ 30 seconds...whatever the lee requests before we begin.

the interesting thing about this is that the lee can be brought to her limit, utter the safe word, and be pushed past her limit for small am ount of time , all the while knowing that it will end in a bit....so there is no panic/fear .

what i have found is he lee genrally chooses 10 seconds and usually on subsequent sessions will choose a longer time once she is comfortable with the concept...most often they end up at 30 seconds which can seem like an eternity once you are at your safe word point...

try it, your lees will almost certainly say "lets try 20 seconds next time"

start with 10

 

[milagros317]

A very interesting idea. I will talk about with Goddess Shelly. 😀

 

[gig1965]

It only truly works i f you hold out on the safeword till you are at your limit, that is the only way it pushes you PAST your limit for a short amount of time.

 

[Shytickler109]

That's awesome I never would have thought of that myself, good luck and continue to have fun!!

 

[marcusb]

Yes. It's a fun way to play. Depending on the lee, I throw in a variable "overtime" so they don't know how long it will be but within their agreed upon "overtime". Keeps them guessing.

 

[kwildoctr]

Yes. It's a fun way to play. Depending on the lee, I throw in a variable "overtime" so they don't know how long it will be but within their agreed upon "overtime". Keeps them guessing.

Yep. What he said...

R

 

[ticklesndimes]

Well if I ever safeword I'd try it, it sounds like a fun idea! I agree with marcusb on the "overtime" , it would really keep the Lee on their toes.

 

[deadlywiffeathr]

Thats a really interesting concept. I usually frown upon tickling beyond a safeword, but this is a really nifty idea that allows both parties to explore a little further beyond the norm. The best workouts I've ever had at the gym were the result of a partner pushing me beyond what my own brain thought I could handle, I guess the same could apply to tickling as well 😀

 

[t12]

What a great idea! I'll be using this one next time

 

[BigJim]

If I ever find a new tickle friend, I'll have to suggest that one. Sounds like the invention of an evil genius. 😉

 

[ticklishgreg]

this is a great idea!! I can't wait to let Miss Seven tickle me past my limits 🙂

 

[C.A.B.]

What if there really is an emergency and the safeword is the only thing they can choke out?

Safewords are for more than just play limits, They are a FULL STOP, regardless of reason.

The kind of limit pushing you are describing is best done with the Green, Yellow, Red, method.

Reserve the safeword (or 3 Safegrunts in the case of gagged play) for emergencies.

 

[SiogChatouilles]

While it does sound like a really fun idea and one I would definitely consider I think C.A.B is absolutely right. The safeword is in place for a reason, and should be respected at all times. For this kind of play you would need another safeword as back up as an absolute STOP. The safety of everyone involved should always take priority.

If that's in place, it does sound like a really fun idea 🙂

~Sióg

 

[TKLVR18]

The way I see it, if you know your partner well enough, you've played with them for a long time and you know the subtleties of when the safeword is just a "please just ignore me to make me feel helpless" or "No I'm serious", then and only then does this sound like a fun game. You don't want to make your 'lee afraid that they're truly unsafe. Now I'm one who enjoys a feeling of safe helplessness when I lee, all the way. But that can be taken too far.

All that being said, a fully consenting adult who knows wants it and knows what they're getting into is different. Plenty of lees will enjoy being pushed past their limits like that. It's all a matter of whether the lee really wants what they're getting into.

~K

 

[WriterOfSin]

I'd go with what C.A.B said to be honest. Have them use 'red' for when they're at their wit's end and do this 'variable overtime' then, but make certain you have a clear and definite safeword that ends the situation immediately. That way you can have a bit of fun while providing a good safety net.

 

[TKLVR18]

I'd go with what C.A.B said to be honest. Have them use 'red' for when they're at their wit's end and do this 'variable overtime' then, but make certain you have a clear and definite safeword that ends the situation immediately. That way you can have a bit of fun while providing a good safety net.

Multiple tiers of safeword is a good call--the less serious"I need a break", or even the one that the lee -enjoys- being ignored every now and then--and the serious 'all stop' after which not even an agreed upon plus whatever would happen.

~K

 

[giggleBrat]

I use a safe word for a full stop.

 

[BigApple3am]

I think safeword should always be full stop, but safeword + 10/20/30 sounds ok. you have to be careful during that extra time and pay close attention to breathing and other things, but if they just want to be pushed past their limits, I would imagine it being rather safe