Some advice needed.

[Amber10]

i agree if you tell her then it gets everything out in the open cuz if she is the right girl she will accept your fetish cuz the right girl would not mind and get so used to having a man with a foot fetish that she would find herself getting more and more intrested in what turns you on 😀

 

[mosteya4]

she called me this morning that she needed to talk to me about something...she got drunk for the first time last night and went and slept with some random person. You guys were right all along...she really is just a black widow. Needless to say, an argument ensued with basically me making her feel like complete crap about it, me telling her how i really felt about her and how it hurt me for her to act like this, and that i told her i basically didnt want anything to do with her anymore...Ive deleted her from my phone, and internet. Its going to be very difficult. It just seemed like it was something special with this girl because the emotions came so fast. Thank you all for your great advice. I can go back to being the confident 22 year old guy that i was before. 🙂

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

she called me this morning that she needed to talk to me about something...she got drunk for the first time last night and went and slept with some random person. You guys were right all along...she really is just a black widow. Needless to say, an argument ensued with basically me making her feel like complete crap about it, me telling her how i really felt about her and how it hurt me for her to act like this, and that i told her i basically didnt want anything to do with her anymore...Ive deleted her from my phone, and internet. Its going to be very difficult. It just seemed like it was something special with this girl because the emotions came so fast. Thank you all for your great advice. I can go back to being the confident 22 year old guy that i was before. 🙂

This may be one of the few instances where I've been glad that a relationship DIDN'T work out. Good for you. I'm glad, and I hope you can put this behind you. 🙂

Be wary still though, as this is the stage where black widows try to kiss and make up in order to ensnare their prey again (the thought of losing the guy as an option prompts them to action). Don't fall for it, even if you want to. Women know what buttons to push when a man is desperate and you're actually more susceptable to her wiles now that you were before. Be very careful and don't second guess your decision, no matter what she says, does, or promises. Pretend she doesn't exist until you're completely able to control yourself and your emotions properly.

Things will fall into place on their own, my friend. You needn't rush into a relationship. Things have a way of working out, even when you least expect them.

I believe you'll be ok, and I'm hoping for that. You're welcome, and God bless you. 🙂

 

[mosteya4]

such kind words from someone i dont even know...yet somehow it is a bit of an inspiration. Here i am, drunk again and really upset...but i havent spoken with her...i just am still hurt. Wishing those things didnt happen, wishing she was someone different so we could be together...but i refuse to surrender to these feelings of hopelessness and despair. She is, after all...just a girl. An angel and a devil at the same time...but still a girl.

The unspeakable constant of the ages boggles my mind...we long for what we cannot have....possibly missing out on the things that should be.

I will go on.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

Time is on your side. Remember that. You have your entire life ahead of you as I have mine. Take solice and hope in that. This isn't a race and its not about quantity, its about quality of life. Its not about how much you can accomplish, its about how much you enjoy doing it.

Things don't work out sometimes because they are often done and sought in haste. This situation unraveled the way it did because of that. Its fleeting and unsatisfactory.

Be patient and things will work out for you.

 

[Cbarton]

I'm glad she showed her true colors to you...you deserve and WILL FIND much better...

 

[P[a]pi]

I was gonna say that you should let her know your emotions and know how much you care about her and then just wait for her to embrace you or reject you, but I guess that already happened. However, it's much better to know one way or the other, than dwelling on it for ever. Either, both of you will change and get back together or at least you will change and get the right girl eventually. I wouldn't try to get back with her though, let her come to you and if she doesn't, or if she does, but she is the same then say no thanks.

Well, the main topic at the beginning was the whole staying hard thing and climaxing thing, so I'm gonna try to help with that because I'm sure you will meet another girl sometime. When you are making out or having sex with a girl and she is on top you can reach her feet. Just lightly caress her feet with your fingertips or lightly scratch them depending on how much she can take. It might not tickle her because she is in the moment, or she might like it. It may turn her on more. If she asks you afterwards about it, just say, "I like your feet." That sounds better than, "I like all feet cause I have a foot fetish."