Haha, you are a funny ****, aren't ya?
And you're a rather foul-mouthed one, aren't you? Did all that pot use lead to that? In which case, maybe you've proven your point after all.
😉
I've never allowed my marijuana use get in the way of what I am trying to achieve in my life. If you or Mephistopheles are assuming that I'm trying to blame weed for my own issues, or "scapegoating" as you put it, I wouldn't say that's the case at all.
I've never allowed marijuana to get in the way of what I'm trying to achieve in life. My goals and ambition are not tainted or changed as a result of smoking dope. I wake up, I go to work and I study.
In other words, I control it, it doesn't control me.
I've seen friends and family destroy their lives on dope. It was the first drug my sister tried, and ultimately it was a gateway drug. From there, she moved onto harder stuff, until eventually it got the better of her.
Now, I'm not saying that it's a "gateway drug" for everybody, but I can't stress enough that saying that it "is not a gateway drug" is misleading.
To the contrary, I think calling it a "gateway" drug is
very misleading. What this "proves" isn't that marijuana is a "gateway drug". In fact, it only proves that some people who use marijuana go on to use other substances. As has been said for "eons" now, ever since this fallacious claim first started being made, some people fed on "mother's milk" also went on to "harder stuff". There's simply no evidence that anything inherent in marijuana causes anyone to use other substances or to "'abuse" marijuana or other substances. The very fact, as you've just admitted yourself, that not everyone (or even a majority) of those who use marijuana "graduate" to more harmful substances should be adequate evidence that it is a matter of what people
choose to do with their lives -- NOT anything inherent in marijuana "leading" to use of other substances.
It is also misleading to put the harm of Marijuana in the same category as red meat or cheeseburgers or even milk.
I didn't "put" marijuana in any category. But the comparison is valid in the sense that virtually nothing has no potential for harm. Different substances or activities, when engaged in in a reckless manner, can cause different
kinds of harm, and yes, in that sense they can't be compared. But I don't think anyone here has argued that marijuana can't be used in what might be called a reckless fashion, as can anything else. On the other hand, it hasn't earned the reputation for the great danger that it has been charged with by some. As Redmage explained (and provided sources which I was less prepared to do), it's
relatively harmless, when compared to
many other widely-used substances, including many legal ones.
It's my opinion that if you are saying marijuana is safe by 'default', then not only are you dismissing these websites that list the potential harm it can do, but you're also seeking comfort in the information you would like or prefer to hear.
I'm not "seeking comfort". Although I have rather extensive past experience with marijuana (even selling it for a few years to support my own use of it, as I think the statute of limitations has long run out enough to now freely admit), I've used it only on extremely rare occasions in recent years by personal choice. Not because of any great concern about any "dangers", but simply because it doesn't hold that much interest to me in relation to the cost and other factors.
So it has nothing to do with what I'd prefer not to hear, but more to do with the fact that I've been hearing the same boring scare stories for years, often from people with much less experience with it than I've had in my life. And I've seen it's "harmful" effects on friends, as I mentioned in fact recently in another thread. But I don't blame marijuana for the fact that
they have chosen to use it a little too frequently and/or constantly for
my preferences. And even that I've seen as having caused no particularly great harm to themselves as much as it has made them a PITA for others sometimes -- such as the brief anecdote I offered in another thread recently referring to an ex-girlfriend and her grown daughter with whom I tried to live for a couple months a few years ago. But even with them getting high, when possible on a daily basis, the problems that led to were extremely minor as compared with what may have been likely had they been alcoholics -- and my father was a somewhat severe one of those during a fair portion of the time I was growing up, so I've had the chance to make the comparison.
Like this website:
http://www.drugpolicy.org/marijuana/factsmyths/
It's exactly what I'd
prefer to hear, the myths and realities that pretty much conclude that there's very little wrong with smoking dope, even heavily. But unfortunately, it's just not as clear cut as that.
-Xionking
"Wrong" is ultimately a moral proclamation, and inevitably subjective. Like anything else, "heavy" use has more potential for leading to problems than "light" use. But, yes, my own experience is that even heavy use of marijuana is typically less problematic than heavy use of many other substances. And again, there's no credible evidence that marijuana use inherently leads to use of more harmful substances. The "gateway drug" theory is and always has been little but anti-drug hysteria/propaganda. People use marijuana by choice, and if they
choose to use more potentially harmful substances, likewise it's only by their own choice. Blame your sister and your friends for their
own behavior. Allowing them to use marijuana as a scapegoat, or using it as one yourself on their behalf, is just a copout as far as I'm concerned, just seeking to pin the blame for people's behavior on someone or something other than themselves. And
that, in my opinion, is "wrong".