Some Vanillas Get Positively Violent When Tickled

[Mitchell]

In the last week, on either Facebook or just randomly posted, I came across two videos where girls were tickled by people.

In both cases, they showed the faces of the girls being tickled, but not the tickler.

In the first case, the girl being tickled was on the phone. The female was barefoot on a bed, and on the phone.

A hand reached out and started tickling this female's bare feet.

The female's toes curled down , and she started screaming at the tickler. ""I'm on the phone! Stop It" She screamed it twice, and then whoever was tickling her stopped.

Second case, in the seat of a car , watched the video tonight.

A woman was sitting in the passenger seat of a car, with one of her arms stretched up, and her armpit exposed.

Again, an unseen hand reached out, and started intense tickling of said female, this time in the armpit area.

Once again, the female started screaming. " Stop!" almost violently at whoever was tickling her armpit, and the video clicked off.

Clearly, in both cases, said females were not pleased/clearly angry about being tickled in the said situation it happened.

Has anyone else come across random videos, and what were the thoughts of such?

Thanks

 

[Q_0]

Yes I've seen this kind of thing in the past. Everyone reacts differently to tickling, never know what you're gonna get. Risky business

 

[hefophre]

If you know them to dislike it, and or react with such anger and deliberate violence, that is a very good reason not to do it. It could be from genuine dislike, or maybe its situational such as they do not want that particular person doing it, or maybe at that moment. Either way, good reason not to. Ironically, this type of reaction is something a lot of people may actually like and are going for, knowing they will react in such ways, and so are actually trying to agitate and annoy them, feeling its funny. As someone who likes to enjoy it peaceably, experiencing actual opposition, especially in an aggressive manner, would be entirely off putting.

 

[U.N.Owen]

Even people who might enjoy being tickled in the right situation by the right person will often get angry if it's the wrong situation and/or the wrong person. I would.

Boundaries are important, and something meant playfully may not be taken that way without clear consent.

 

[Maneo]

You have to be able to read the room, so to speak. I've tickled or helped tickle my share of vanillas. Had many reactions, but never negative. Know it happens, but I had a relationship even if minimal with vanilla I tickled. I gauged when I could tickle and when not to tickle. So far lucky in my vanilla tickles. Always tricky deciding if, when, and how to tickle.

 

[torturoustickle]

I've always said tickling is a very polarising fetish. I've known people into extreme pain, water boarding, high level cbt, extreme mummification, and other fetishes that only a small amount of people indulge in. A lot of these people have tickling as a hard limit.
The Vanilla world is no different.
I've had girlfriends who don't mind an unexpected smack on the arse, even enjoy it, but poke them unexpectedly in the ribs and they'll turn around and deck you. Lol
Yes it's all about limits, boundaries and respect. But there is an undeniable "love it or hate it" thing around tickling, that is shared between Vanilla's and Kinksters alike.

 

[torturoustickle]

Yes I've seen this kind of thing in the past. Everyone reacts differently to tickling, never know what you're gonna get. Risky business

Couldn't agree more!
I just don't tickle people, even playfully, unless I know them well, really well. And that includes knowing how they feel about tickling.

 

[U.N.Owen]

When I was in high school, there were many girls I liked and I very much wanted to tickle and be tickled. But when an obnoxious bitch tried to tickle me in gym class in order to mock me, I was pissed as hell and loudly told her off.

I have always believed from experience and observation that most people can learn to enjoy tickling if it's approached respectfully and appropriately. But even someone massively into the kink will have "not here, not now, not this person" reactions.

 

[FFT32]

This can be risky activity for sure. I randomly tickled a vanilla once back in high school. Thankfully it had a positive result.

 

[Doriansenigma]

Tickling a vanilla girl I was interested in was a way for me to gauge whether or not we would ultimatly be compatible. So if they hated it or had a really negative reaction I knew that it wouldn’t work out. I totally get why people often hate it so much; it usually comes down to someone abusively tickling them when they are young, which happens more often then we would like to believe. Being so out of control of your body and in some cases just being humiliated by it. One of my good friends actually broke up with a girl because she would keep tickling him when he told her he hated it. There were other reasons as well, but she never took him seriously about how humiliated he felt when she did that.

 

[natscott6282]

this is why the person being tickled needs to be completely immobilized