Hello,
I am new to this forum and am glad to be able to chat with people who share my interest in tickling, I do however come to you seeking advice about a somewhat stressful situation. Someone very dear to me is missing, she is the first person I shared my ticlking fetish with and someone whom I have become very close to in many other ways is missing. We first met over Instant Messenger awhile back and by chance we were both into tickling, since then our relationhip has evolved greatly and we have been talking about meeting each other. I live in Chicago and she lives in Los Angeles, we are both students and are working so it is hard to find the time and money to meet each other.
The last time I spoke to her was shortly before Christmas and she did say that she would be away at family reunions for the holidays, however it is now Valentine's day and I still have not heard from her. I would be more distressed than I am now if it wasnt for the fact that this happened once before. She was also gone for about two months over the summer and I was worried about her then. I tried contacting her at her e-mail address but there was never an answer. I didnt know what to think of it, my worst fears told me that she didnt want anything to do with me anymore or she was hiding something from me. My fears were put to rest however when one day she came online again and was as happy as ever to see me. She apologized for being gone so long and when I asked her what she was up to she said that she was very busy travelling with her work and that she needed some time alone as well. The next few months our relationship was exactly the same as it was before this incident, we talked about tickling and everything else we usually chatted about. She is often the one who initiated the contact, so it was clear that she wanted to talk to me.
This time around I was patiently awaiting her return from Christmas break till about mid-January when I began to wonder what was going on again. I decided to contact her uncle via e-mail (Her uncle was in Chicago one day so I decided to meet him in order to ensure her that I was for real and so she could get a second opinion about me from someone she trusted, he even tickled me , but that is another story) Anyways her uncle is the only member of her family I have contact info for so I contacted him. I explained my situation to him and his response was that first of all because he now lives overseas he hadnt heard from her in awhile but he did say that she is often a very busy person and can be quite "flighty" at times. It seemed that he was impliying that I shouldnt take this personally this is just the way she is to everybody even those she cares about. The e-mail was reassuring in this regard but this is still a somewhat frustrating situation, she might contact me any day now but who knows. When I found this site today I found out that she is a registered but inactive member on this forum, I will not tell you who since I respect her privacy too much. She did tell me one time the place where she works, I am considering looking up the phone number to this place and asking them if they know of her whereabouts however I fear that she might view that as an invasion of her privacy. I really care about her deeply and it is almost impossible to describe our relationship in such a condensed fashion. I know that some of you might be judgemental about the fact that ours is an online relationship and that she could be a fraud, etc, thats why I presented the mitigating evidence to you above. I would be glad to elaborate about our relationship more provided it dosent get too personal or anything if that will help you determine what I should do. I sent her a sweet Valentine's day e-card to her e-mail account today in case she reads her e-mail in the near future.
What I really do need however is advice on what you think I should do about this. I would really appreciate it, thank you.
I am new to this forum and am glad to be able to chat with people who share my interest in tickling, I do however come to you seeking advice about a somewhat stressful situation. Someone very dear to me is missing, she is the first person I shared my ticlking fetish with and someone whom I have become very close to in many other ways is missing. We first met over Instant Messenger awhile back and by chance we were both into tickling, since then our relationhip has evolved greatly and we have been talking about meeting each other. I live in Chicago and she lives in Los Angeles, we are both students and are working so it is hard to find the time and money to meet each other.
The last time I spoke to her was shortly before Christmas and she did say that she would be away at family reunions for the holidays, however it is now Valentine's day and I still have not heard from her. I would be more distressed than I am now if it wasnt for the fact that this happened once before. She was also gone for about two months over the summer and I was worried about her then. I tried contacting her at her e-mail address but there was never an answer. I didnt know what to think of it, my worst fears told me that she didnt want anything to do with me anymore or she was hiding something from me. My fears were put to rest however when one day she came online again and was as happy as ever to see me. She apologized for being gone so long and when I asked her what she was up to she said that she was very busy travelling with her work and that she needed some time alone as well. The next few months our relationship was exactly the same as it was before this incident, we talked about tickling and everything else we usually chatted about. She is often the one who initiated the contact, so it was clear that she wanted to talk to me.
This time around I was patiently awaiting her return from Christmas break till about mid-January when I began to wonder what was going on again. I decided to contact her uncle via e-mail (Her uncle was in Chicago one day so I decided to meet him in order to ensure her that I was for real and so she could get a second opinion about me from someone she trusted, he even tickled me , but that is another story) Anyways her uncle is the only member of her family I have contact info for so I contacted him. I explained my situation to him and his response was that first of all because he now lives overseas he hadnt heard from her in awhile but he did say that she is often a very busy person and can be quite "flighty" at times. It seemed that he was impliying that I shouldnt take this personally this is just the way she is to everybody even those she cares about. The e-mail was reassuring in this regard but this is still a somewhat frustrating situation, she might contact me any day now but who knows. When I found this site today I found out that she is a registered but inactive member on this forum, I will not tell you who since I respect her privacy too much. She did tell me one time the place where she works, I am considering looking up the phone number to this place and asking them if they know of her whereabouts however I fear that she might view that as an invasion of her privacy. I really care about her deeply and it is almost impossible to describe our relationship in such a condensed fashion. I know that some of you might be judgemental about the fact that ours is an online relationship and that she could be a fraud, etc, thats why I presented the mitigating evidence to you above. I would be glad to elaborate about our relationship more provided it dosent get too personal or anything if that will help you determine what I should do. I sent her a sweet Valentine's day e-card to her e-mail account today in case she reads her e-mail in the near future.
What I really do need however is advice on what you think I should do about this. I would really appreciate it, thank you.
