The 2 things that would make this site perfect...

[clm13]

A way to search posts by f/f, f/m etc. Lots of posts have this in the title yet the search function wont pick it up

A notification of a reply on the message boards, instead of having to go back and check or just forgetting about the thread and not seeing a reply until a year later when you remember

If either of these are already a possibility let me know! Although I might not see it right away since there are no notifications 😛

 

[chicago]

Go to your general settings, under messaging and notifications to fix the thread subscription setting.

As far as the search goes, there is a search box in the upper right corner and you can use it to search the whole forum and all posts, just thread titles, or just certain forum subsections.