The Dress Code of A 'Ler

[The Internet]

You know what I've noticed? Maybe I'm wrong.....but alot of 'lees I've either conversed with, or simply seen make comments seem to prefer a well-dressed 'ler! Button down shirt is preferable to a Grateful Dead Europe '72 t-shirt! A suit might be even better.

Do we 'lers need to smarten up our wardrobe???!!!

I'm trying to see the psychology here. Well first.....no one wants to be tickled by a scrub, right? Dressed not like a slob means clean hands. Also......is there a connotation of, say, power of a (male) 'ler in a suit?

And what of female 'lers? I don't think that's as much of an issue somehow!!!!

 

[Glovelover]

With a Female Ler - For me it is the seduction before the Tickling that draws/intrigues me a lot. Thus (going with the assumptions of my username) a formal event is perhaps a most preferred setting (Formal Gowns, Gloves, and Stilettos). A Business Type look (Skirt emphasizing her legs) and a top hinting of some cleavage with a shorter pair of leather gloves could initiate the seduction. Then after I am securely in her trap, she could continue in those wardrobes or better yet strip down to the everyday lingerie.

 

[Tenebrae]

I always dress well before a session unless it is improvised. I want to be at my most handsome for her.

I got two outfits. One is a very classy tailor-made suit that she finds irresistible. The other one is an all-black set which looks like the ones used by the folks at hogtied.com. Complete with black surgical gloves, and a baseball cap to hide my eyes to maximize her fear. Depending on the mood, whether we play a more tender kind of game or a more violent one, I alternate between the two.

Since we switch often, it is interesting to note that she prefers to wear very little as a ler. Most of the time, she is naked or just wears her favorite night gown. I wouldn't mind if she put on her best cocktail dress or something, but she prefers it this way.

Either way, in our games the ticklee is always naked.