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The Longest You Went Without Sex Or Sexual Interaction

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Im very curious here, what is the longest amount of time you went without sex or sexual interaction (meaning getting off with someone without actual intercorse through tickle fetish, oral, or whatever).

And if your a very sexual person like myself, and it was a long time, did it get tougher or easier to deal with?

The longest I ever went without anything but my hand was 3 months short of 2 years..and looks like im probably gonna max that record this year as I havent been seeing anyone since August of 2007. And I dont see myself meeting anyone anytime soon to be interested in or that id click with to start seeing as I live in a pretty remote area.

The reason im asking is because this time around, it seems to be alot easier for me and honestly, I could care less as long as I have a right hand to use daily lol So is this normal? Or have I just lost all sex drive and kink cause its been so long? The thoughts ponder, so wanted to gather some opinions from total strangers who share my sexual fetish..why not right? :cool
 
Seven months...and I'm NOT a virgin so it's different, Duke....lol

~K
 
never really had full-on sex in my life yet...but the last time I just messed around was nearly a year ago >_>;

it's kinda hard to keep it under control sometimes since I'm in my early 20s, male, and freakin' horny >.<
 
With out any sexual play? After I became sexually active my longest dry spell was... about 2 years, I'd say. Though that whole period's kinda fuzzy in my memory, mighta been different.
 
Aside from the 19 years I went without having it before I actually did it for the first time, I'd say it's never been longer than two months.

And I never noticed it being hard to deal with.
 
It's been twenty five years since she passed away so....twenty five years.
 
Bella Donna said:
With out any sexual play? After I became sexually active my longest dry spell was... about 2 years, I'd say. Though that whole period's kinda fuzzy in my memory, mighta been different.
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horray! someone thats up there with my record. since the whole period is fuzzy..i guess you wouldnt remember if it was rough or if you became less giving a crap about it?
 
Excluding the 18 years I grew up without sex, about a year.
 
After I was involved in a serious relationship for 3 years+, I was celibate for 7 years. I found it easy actually. Sexual tension aside, I was in vet school for more than 3 of those years and my mind was focused on learning rather that outside distractions. Since then, I've explored my sexuality more and find that I enjoy being involved with someone on my own terms who shares similar tastes and beliefs and with whom I have more in common than just being turned on. Empty meaningless sex does nothing for me and generally makes me feel worse. So... I guess I'd say waiting for the right time, the right person, and the right circumstances is worth it to me.

Congratulations to those who of you have abstained! I lost my virginity at age 19 and while I don't regret it, I'd say I threw it away to soon. Choose wisely my friends 🙂
 
still waiting for that right person after marriage, which maybe closer than i think. i believe you can do other sexual activites before marriage, but the real deal can wait for that perfect, most awesome woman in my life.



ticklebug101 said:
What Duke said
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ditto here :rolleyes
 
SorcererLance said:
it's kinda hard to keep it under control sometimes since I'm in my early 20s, male, and freakin' horny >.<
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It's not that much easier when you're in your fifties! Actually, what I miss more than sex per se is the physical contact, the cuddles, tickles and such.

Red-blooded American male that I am, I'm not sure if I'm wired up for hook-ups. I had one a few months ago, which mercifully broke a 3-year dry spell, but silly me, as with the few others I've had in my life, I seem to have trouble loosening up enough to have fun under those circumstances. Dang it, is the only person I can get it on with going to be myself until my next relationship? Gosh, I sure hope not!

What scares me are things like when I overheard this friend of mine who apparently hasn't had sex with his wife in a long time say to someone else that he doesn't miss it.
 
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kopfhorer said:
What scares me are things like when I overheard this friend of mine who apparently hasn't had sex with his wife in a long time say to someone else that he doesn't miss it.
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see thats my concern exactly. i mean pretty much being without anything in almost 2 yrs, ive got used to my hand while looking at a tickle vid/clip once a day and thats it..then im through, could care less, back to my normal business.
 
Well, Norm gets a standing ovation for his post. And to the other virgins... I don't know if it's by circumstance or by choice, but follow that advice and wait for the right one. Personally, I also say wait for marriage. It's the right thing to do and you can always look back and be proud of that decision and strength in your decision making. I know it's hypocritical for me to say it since I didn't do it, but now I wish I had. My first time was at 17 and it was so awkward, uninformed, and juvenile that it put me off of even wanting to try it again for a couple years. I banged like a screen door in a hurricane at college, but that was with one partner that was an eventual 8 year relationship.

You never forget your first time. That's very true. If you're telling yourself you can't wait... you can. No one has ever died from not having sex. They've only wanted to.

My 16 year old niece just told me the other day that she's been having sex since she was 14. She was wearing a Pikachu tanktop and big fat pink shoelaces that matched the streaks in her hair. She doesn't have the knowledge to make a box of macaroni and cheese, but is sure she can handle an adult issue like sex. As strange as it may sound, there's more to it than inserting a penis into a vagina. The emotions and connections that go along with it are not for kids... or even teenagers.

But to finally answer the question, maybe about a month once I started having it. I always had easy breakups and was great friends with my partners before I even chose to date them, so we always found ourselves hooking up just for fun as long as we weren't cheating.
 
dskodj said:
see thats my concern exactly. i mean pretty much being without anything in almost 2 yrs, ive got used to my hand while looking at a tickle vid/clip once a day and thats it..then im through, could care less, back to my normal business.
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I'm no sex therapist, but I think that as long as you're OK with your sex life in its present state, there is no problem. The only red flag might be if you really wanted partner sex but were afraid, consciously or not, of having it, of dating, etc. (I hope my mention of subconscious stuff hasn't made you even more paranoid about your situation!)

Perhaps your libido has gone into "screen-saver mode". Or you're just happy being with yourself. Nothing's wrong with that. And either might change if and when the right person comes along and/or when something clicks in your mind. In other words, I don't think there's anything to worry about. Just my two cents' worth. My friend OTOH seems to be in denial about his situation, but again, since I haven't asked him about it (I have no plans to do so) that's only my somewhat educated guess.

Duke Diablo said:
My whole life! 🙂 Beat that, y'all!
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Um, beat what, Duke? 😉

Mr. Kered, you have my condolences. I have only a rough idea of what it must be like to love someone so much that when she passes, no one else can ever take her place.

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