njjen3953
4th Level Orange Feather
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- Apr 18, 2001
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The following is a composite profile of an Online Predator. This
profile was
> compiled by a number of submissive women for the use of submissive
women. It
> is written from the perspective of a submissive female whose nature
requires
> her to respond to a dominant male.
>
> The Online Predator
> 1) Definition:
> The Online Predator is one who uses the mechanisms of cyber space
to hunt
> human beings with the intent to exploit, rob, plunder and pillage
their
> body,mind, heart and soul.
>
> 2) Characteristics of a Predator:
> 1. Liar: ( Self explanatory )
> 2. Deceiver: His self situation is presented as other than what it
is.
> 3. Betrayer: He is likely to break trust.
> 4. Insecure: He is worried that others will be faithless.
> 5. Inconsistent: He will say one thing while doing another.
> 6. Lacking Honor: Usually while protesting that he has honor.
> 7. Lack of Respect: He will tend to denigrate others.
> 8. Transient: He is unlikely to have many long term friends.
> 9. Manipulator: He calculates and contrives for his own benefit to
the
> detriment of his partner.
> 10. Secretive: He will tend to cloak himself and his activities.
> 11. Charming: If he could not steal your breath away, he would not
be a
> successful hunter.
> 12. Selective: He will pick victims carefully, looking for
weaknesses and
> filling those voids completely.
> 13. Chameleon: He will appear to fit any need perfectly and adapt
to fill any
> desire.
> 14. Lacking in Self Control: Although at times, he may have
extraordinary
> self control and discipline.
>
> A predator probably exhibits these characteristics in all aspects
of his
> life. It may be that the only place the predator seems to have
honor and
> value Truth is in the Relationship he is developing with his
victim. When
> developing a new relationship, a submissive should make a conscious
effort to
> observe her partnerâs interaction with others, not just how he
interacts with
> her. The predator may well reveal his true self through his
interactions.
> But, the submissive may only see this revelation if she is
committed to
> taking every precaution for her own safety.
>
> 3) Predator Warning Signals:
> While any of these phrases or actions may be acceptable in a given
context,
> pay close attention when seeing or hearing them. Phrases:
> 1. Do not tell .
> 2. ( ) is crazy ! ( or psycho, sick, a liar, or out to
get me )
> 3. It would be best if you no longer spoke to .
> 4. I do not need to defend myself against lies.
> 5. They are just jealous ( of me, of us, of what we have, that you
have me ).
>
> Actions:
> 1. May seldom be in the D/s and tickling chat rooms. Operates from other areas
or private
> rooms.
> 2. Has personal information which is incomplete or not verifiable.
> 3. Becomes defensive or angry when questioned.
> 4. Questions the sincerity of the submissive when questioned.
> 5. He will usually discourage or forbid the practice of reference
checks.
> 6. He will usually discourage or forbid the use of Safe Calls.
>
> 4) The Submissive's Personal Warning Signals:
> These are items that a submissive should pay attention to if she is
saying
> them to herself or hearing them from others.
> 1. I feel he is just too good to be true.
> 2. You are hearing consistent warnings from more that one person.
> 3. Your instincts are whispering something is not right about this
person.
>
> 5) Summary:
> The final best defense any submissive has against an Online
Predator is her
> own common sense and judgment. The submissive should always
remember that
> desires, needs, and the heat of the moment can combine to drown
that
> judgment. Always take a moment to step back, take a deep breath and
look at a
> potential partner with common sense and not with passion.
profile was
> compiled by a number of submissive women for the use of submissive
women. It
> is written from the perspective of a submissive female whose nature
requires
> her to respond to a dominant male.
>
> The Online Predator
> 1) Definition:
> The Online Predator is one who uses the mechanisms of cyber space
to hunt
> human beings with the intent to exploit, rob, plunder and pillage
their
> body,mind, heart and soul.
>
> 2) Characteristics of a Predator:
> 1. Liar: ( Self explanatory )
> 2. Deceiver: His self situation is presented as other than what it
is.
> 3. Betrayer: He is likely to break trust.
> 4. Insecure: He is worried that others will be faithless.
> 5. Inconsistent: He will say one thing while doing another.
> 6. Lacking Honor: Usually while protesting that he has honor.
> 7. Lack of Respect: He will tend to denigrate others.
> 8. Transient: He is unlikely to have many long term friends.
> 9. Manipulator: He calculates and contrives for his own benefit to
the
> detriment of his partner.
> 10. Secretive: He will tend to cloak himself and his activities.
> 11. Charming: If he could not steal your breath away, he would not
be a
> successful hunter.
> 12. Selective: He will pick victims carefully, looking for
weaknesses and
> filling those voids completely.
> 13. Chameleon: He will appear to fit any need perfectly and adapt
to fill any
> desire.
> 14. Lacking in Self Control: Although at times, he may have
extraordinary
> self control and discipline.
>
> A predator probably exhibits these characteristics in all aspects
of his
> life. It may be that the only place the predator seems to have
honor and
> value Truth is in the Relationship he is developing with his
victim. When
> developing a new relationship, a submissive should make a conscious
effort to
> observe her partnerâs interaction with others, not just how he
interacts with
> her. The predator may well reveal his true self through his
interactions.
> But, the submissive may only see this revelation if she is
committed to
> taking every precaution for her own safety.
>
> 3) Predator Warning Signals:
> While any of these phrases or actions may be acceptable in a given
context,
> pay close attention when seeing or hearing them. Phrases:
> 1. Do not tell .
> 2. ( ) is crazy ! ( or psycho, sick, a liar, or out to
get me )
> 3. It would be best if you no longer spoke to .
> 4. I do not need to defend myself against lies.
> 5. They are just jealous ( of me, of us, of what we have, that you
have me ).
>
> Actions:
> 1. May seldom be in the D/s and tickling chat rooms. Operates from other areas
or private
> rooms.
> 2. Has personal information which is incomplete or not verifiable.
> 3. Becomes defensive or angry when questioned.
> 4. Questions the sincerity of the submissive when questioned.
> 5. He will usually discourage or forbid the practice of reference
checks.
> 6. He will usually discourage or forbid the use of Safe Calls.
>
> 4) The Submissive's Personal Warning Signals:
> These are items that a submissive should pay attention to if she is
saying
> them to herself or hearing them from others.
> 1. I feel he is just too good to be true.
> 2. You are hearing consistent warnings from more that one person.
> 3. Your instincts are whispering something is not right about this
person.
>
> 5) Summary:
> The final best defense any submissive has against an Online
Predator is her
> own common sense and judgment. The submissive should always
remember that
> desires, needs, and the heat of the moment can combine to drown
that
> judgment. Always take a moment to step back, take a deep breath and
look at a
> potential partner with common sense and not with passion.
