I've thrown out fair-sized chunks of my "Secret Stash" twice so far, both of them pre-internet access, but neither time had anything to do with guilt as much as with practicality. My stash had gotten too big, and it was time to thin out the herd, keeping the good stuff and getting rid of the rest. I took a good look at it and said "Y'know, a lot of this stuff's really just not that good. (Mostly Leg Show, Leg Show imitators, HOM and Lyndon Foot-fetish mags and a crappy Cal-Star video that gave my VCR a social disease) Am I ever going to bother looking at it again, let alone finding the time to wank to it? It's just a waste of storage space at this point." A lot of it just stopped being interesting now that it was no longer the only material on the subject I had ever seen.
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The Purge
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Strelnikov
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That's EXACTLY why I moved it up.
Strelnikov
That's EXACTLY why I moved it up.
Strelnikov
Jerry67911
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I'm glad to know I'm not the only one. I've read several posts that I can relate to. I've had a good many Cal Star and Harmony videos that I've regretfully tossed, Tied and Tickled magazines, anyone remember Ticklish? That was one of my favorites even though they only released one. Penthouse Variations had some good stories I used to own. I'm still worried someone might find a video in the closet or a footprint on the computer and I'm 34 years old. It'd be nice to have a woman in my life that shared my fetish so I wouldn't feel like I had to hide it.
Capt. Spalding
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One man's trash...
<p>
(Someone kindly explain this icon to me. Does this mean I'm
soliciting a dominatrix??)<p>
<p>(ahem!)
Thanks, Strel, for bumping up this really thoughtful thread.
I can't help but think that, after a person has disposed of his
Hefty bag full of tickle matter and tip-toed away, someone else
comes along and feels that his heretofore closeted tickle thoughts
have been vindicated. Thus, one person denies himself (however
briefly) while another welcomes the chance to explore a part of
himself heretofore undeveloped.<p>
<p>No one has to maintain the same level of interest or energy in
something all the time. We all engage in "spring cleaning" every so
often, if only to be able to see the floors of our dwellings and reclaim our closets. It's balky thinking, though, to believe that tossing out the
material side of an interest will end the emotion and imagination
one has invested in a subject, especially one linked to one's erotic
side. That just seems like self-delusion.<p>
<p> Now, if you'll excuse me, I was just about to purge this closet.
(sound of door opening followed by a tremendous avalanche)
<p> Wow! "Tickling Certified Public Accountants"! I haven't seen that one in years...<p> 😀
<p>
(Someone kindly explain this icon to me. Does this mean I'msoliciting a dominatrix??)<p>
<p>(ahem!)
Thanks, Strel, for bumping up this really thoughtful thread.
I can't help but think that, after a person has disposed of his
Hefty bag full of tickle matter and tip-toed away, someone else
comes along and feels that his heretofore closeted tickle thoughts
have been vindicated. Thus, one person denies himself (however
briefly) while another welcomes the chance to explore a part of
himself heretofore undeveloped.<p>
<p>No one has to maintain the same level of interest or energy in
something all the time. We all engage in "spring cleaning" every so
often, if only to be able to see the floors of our dwellings and reclaim our closets. It's balky thinking, though, to believe that tossing out the
material side of an interest will end the emotion and imagination
one has invested in a subject, especially one linked to one's erotic
side. That just seems like self-delusion.<p>
<p> Now, if you'll excuse me, I was just about to purge this closet.
(sound of door opening followed by a tremendous avalanche)
<p> Wow! "Tickling Certified Public Accountants"! I haven't seen that one in years...<p> 😀
Strelnikov
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Welcome Back, Captain!
Hadn't seen you around here lately. Were you taking a sabbatical? Or...maybe...dare we hope...writing "Hannah 3"? If so, don't let us disturb your muse.
Anxiously awaiting,
Strelnikov
Hadn't seen you around here lately. Were you taking a sabbatical? Or...maybe...dare we hope...writing "Hannah 3"? If so, don't let us disturb your muse.
Anxiously awaiting,
Strelnikov
Tickler2001
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Here's a little different twist to this thread
A purge as defined here will never be a factor in my life. I have no religious beliefs or anything of that nature that would cause me to feel guilty about tickling. I also have never been one to care about what people thought of me, so if a few people thought I was weird or evil for having a tickling fetish, I could care less.
My girlfriend (common law wife) obviously knows I have an above normal interest in tickling. I have tied and tickled her several times and tickle her almost everyday. However I have never brought it up as the topic of serious conversation. Not because of fear, but because I'm not sure if it would benefit my current situation at all. I get a lot of tickling action from her, so why fix it if it isn't broke right?
Here's the dilema (sort of). My second favorite tickle target is my gf's sister, I've had a big brother type of relationship with her from day one, we've always done the teasing, wrestling, tickling thing. Usually playful, but has been extended on occassion (she seems to have as much fun as I do). I also sneak a tickle in on my gf's friends, my female friends...etc when the opportunity arises.
The dilema is this: Things are pretty good the way they are, alot better then alot of people have it. letting my gf in on my fantasy's could have one of two effects.
1) She could get into it, leading to some really good tickling experiences with the above mentioned females. Having her involved or instigating the tickling would definately be a BIG plus.
2) She might think this is too sexual for me and all of a sudden feel threatened by the above mentioned tickling. Making it a problem to continue tickling anyone but her. Thus ruining a good thing.
So the question is, gamble on creating the ultimate tickling situation while risking cutting it back? Or leave a pretty good thing alone?
I also would find it a big turn on to see other people tickle my gf. Either male (trusted friends) or female. I'm thinking if I ever decide to push the issue it would be wise to push this angle first and then work it over to tickling other people.
Any thoughts?
A purge as defined here will never be a factor in my life. I have no religious beliefs or anything of that nature that would cause me to feel guilty about tickling. I also have never been one to care about what people thought of me, so if a few people thought I was weird or evil for having a tickling fetish, I could care less.
My girlfriend (common law wife) obviously knows I have an above normal interest in tickling. I have tied and tickled her several times and tickle her almost everyday. However I have never brought it up as the topic of serious conversation. Not because of fear, but because I'm not sure if it would benefit my current situation at all. I get a lot of tickling action from her, so why fix it if it isn't broke right?
Here's the dilema (sort of). My second favorite tickle target is my gf's sister, I've had a big brother type of relationship with her from day one, we've always done the teasing, wrestling, tickling thing. Usually playful, but has been extended on occassion (she seems to have as much fun as I do). I also sneak a tickle in on my gf's friends, my female friends...etc when the opportunity arises.
The dilema is this: Things are pretty good the way they are, alot better then alot of people have it. letting my gf in on my fantasy's could have one of two effects.
1) She could get into it, leading to some really good tickling experiences with the above mentioned females. Having her involved or instigating the tickling would definately be a BIG plus.
2) She might think this is too sexual for me and all of a sudden feel threatened by the above mentioned tickling. Making it a problem to continue tickling anyone but her. Thus ruining a good thing.
So the question is, gamble on creating the ultimate tickling situation while risking cutting it back? Or leave a pretty good thing alone?
I also would find it a big turn on to see other people tickle my gf. Either male (trusted friends) or female. I'm thinking if I ever decide to push the issue it would be wise to push this angle first and then work it over to tickling other people.
Any thoughts?
Just saw this thread for the first time:
I have definitely gone through a few purges and gotten rid of material-always to regret it later!!!!
As far as Tickler2001, I completely understand and sympathise with your urges, as far as tickling your gf's sister and even more for wanting to see your girlfriend tickled by someone else. (that was a major thing for me, and in a way I had it fufilled, but at great cost. You can email me at [email protected] and I'll get into it.)
I've always been very honest about my tickling partiality to all my girlfriends, maybe too honest, and I think in the future I won't....at least, not going into the extent that it really is. Your situation sounds ideal, and I think you are right in not wanting to spill all the beans! I think that your girlfriend is aware of it, but doesn't really comprehend to full depth of it. And I think the good news is that if she doesn't know how big it is for you, she might be less self concious about inadvertently being tickled by somebody else right in front of you, or take umbrage with you giving a quick, playful poke to her sister's ribs in a seemingly appropriate moment, or any of the other stuff that could happen....I know that whenever I'm watching a movie with my girlfriend and some tickling all of a sudden breaks out on the screen, I get a pinch or a nudge.....and I wish I didn't!!! I wish it was still secret!!! I don't want to be THAT revealed! So I think you should keep it your current situation: I mean, it sounds like you're getting plenty of tickling action! Why rock the boat?
I have definitely gone through a few purges and gotten rid of material-always to regret it later!!!!
As far as Tickler2001, I completely understand and sympathise with your urges, as far as tickling your gf's sister and even more for wanting to see your girlfriend tickled by someone else. (that was a major thing for me, and in a way I had it fufilled, but at great cost. You can email me at [email protected] and I'll get into it.)
I've always been very honest about my tickling partiality to all my girlfriends, maybe too honest, and I think in the future I won't....at least, not going into the extent that it really is. Your situation sounds ideal, and I think you are right in not wanting to spill all the beans! I think that your girlfriend is aware of it, but doesn't really comprehend to full depth of it. And I think the good news is that if she doesn't know how big it is for you, she might be less self concious about inadvertently being tickled by somebody else right in front of you, or take umbrage with you giving a quick, playful poke to her sister's ribs in a seemingly appropriate moment, or any of the other stuff that could happen....I know that whenever I'm watching a movie with my girlfriend and some tickling all of a sudden breaks out on the screen, I get a pinch or a nudge.....and I wish I didn't!!! I wish it was still secret!!! I don't want to be THAT revealed! So I think you should keep it your current situation: I mean, it sounds like you're getting plenty of tickling action! Why rock the boat?
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harvey
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Like nontkl, I just noticed this thread recently. Many members have posted lots of good thoughts here.
I have only gone through one purge of the moral/guilt variety which many others have admitted to, and mine was many years ago. As others have said, I later regretted doing it.
The problem for me these days is the need to purge (i.e. weed out) for logistic reasons. I am simply out of space to store material without making it painfully obvious to friends, relatives, etc. I guess I keep hoping one of you heavyweights will establish a "tickling museum" to which I might donate some of my older and rarely used material. I have even been known to give away an older video now and then just to make room for a new one. (Seemed better to share with someone who would appreciate it than to just heave it into a dumpster.)
If anyone has any amoral thoughts on the purely physical aspects of getting rid of tickling material, I would like to hear them. My e-mail is in the members' section. Unfortunately, I just don't have the inclination to make a list of all my stuff, but if you have a specific want, I can check. However, right now and in the near future, I don't plan to be mailing any packages...to many suspicious postal employees running around with rubber gloves and package-phobia.
I have only gone through one purge of the moral/guilt variety which many others have admitted to, and mine was many years ago. As others have said, I later regretted doing it.
The problem for me these days is the need to purge (i.e. weed out) for logistic reasons. I am simply out of space to store material without making it painfully obvious to friends, relatives, etc. I guess I keep hoping one of you heavyweights will establish a "tickling museum" to which I might donate some of my older and rarely used material. I have even been known to give away an older video now and then just to make room for a new one. (Seemed better to share with someone who would appreciate it than to just heave it into a dumpster.)
If anyone has any amoral thoughts on the purely physical aspects of getting rid of tickling material, I would like to hear them. My e-mail is in the members' section. Unfortunately, I just don't have the inclination to make a list of all my stuff, but if you have a specific want, I can check. However, right now and in the near future, I don't plan to be mailing any packages...to many suspicious postal employees running around with rubber gloves and package-phobia.
