The TMF Love Connection

[CapturedDoll]

I thought this would be a nice way of trying to give a recommendation of our friends here. A lot of the posts I see say things like "I don't know anyone well enough to go to NEST or on a date". Or "I'm too shy". "Too many men and too few women... and they are overwhelmed with mail/private message's.

So I thought this could be a way that single ladies and single men could see some of our members through other people's eyes. You might want to check with the person before you write here. Also you can't write about yourself. If you want your recommendation deleted or altered please mail the person so they can do that.

*** NOTE: These are suggestions and are to STILL be weighed with discretion and at your own risk. Whomever you email and meet up with should always be done first in public. And do not give out personal information with anyone until you feel you have a good understanding of who they are. And that could take months. So use common sense. This is still online dating. So proceed with caution.


So: I'll start.

The Internet

http://www.ticklingforum.com/member.php?165456-The-Internet


Living in NYC, The Internet is a Ler who... I find is one of the most compassionate and sincere people here. He will write letters that fully explain who he is. And yet, has a sweet mystery about him - his letters are filled with whimsical overtones and humor. His Ler side has a playful sunshiny glow that I find makes for a wonderful Tickler. He cares about people and animals- amd truly finds the good in everyone.

He loves music and movies from each Generation. And has a tickling collection that will blow your mind. His knowledge is vast on so many areas... including empathy and regard to the "human condition". I can't say that enough because if you want someone who will talk late into the night with you- and you'll have a great time doing it... he is that man.

 

[Goatboy]

This is a very nice idea. 🙂

 

[CapturedDoll]

This is a very nice idea. 🙂

Thank you Goatboy! 🙂

 

[shygirl5]

The Internet

http://www.ticklingforum.com/member.php?165456-The-Internet


Living in NYC, The Internet is a Ler who... I find is one of the most compassionate and sincere people here. He will write letters that fully explain who he is. And yet, has a sweet mystery about him - his letters are filled with whimsical overtones and humor. His Ler side has a playful sunshiny glow that I find makes for a wonderful Tickler. He cares about people and animals- amd truly finds the good in everyone.

He loves music and movies from each Generation. And has a tickling collection that will blow your mind. His knowledge is vast on so many areas... including empathy and regard to the "human condition". I can't say that enough because if you want someone who will talk late into the night with you- and you'll have a great time doing it... he is that man.

Beautifully written, Doll. I agree with you! *hugs to my friend, The Internet* ....this is a great idea! 🙂 I hope that lots of connections are made here!

 

[CapturedDoll]

Beautifully written, Doll. I agree with you! *hugs to my friend, The Internet* ....this is a great idea! 🙂 I hope that lots of connections are made here!

Thank you very much shygirl! He definetly deserves it-and someone who will appreciate how wonderful he really is.

And I hope so too! Wouldn't that be great?!! 🙂

 

[The Internet]

CD, what is this?!!! I am......speechless! Absolutely dumbstruck! Thank you so much!l I feel completely encouraged......even though that's not the aim! The aim is to point out single members. Trouble is for me, most everyone I know here on the board is married or taken!!

I would say Sensual Switch.....except he's doing just fine! He's not taken, but I wouldn't exactly call him single! But S.S. is a beautiful soul, to be sure. Geesh, my female friends here on the TMF.......they all have boyfriends and husbands! lol. I can't nominate them!

Hey, Bugman is single! He's a guy who radiates positive energy, warmth, respect, empathy, intelligence, good humor....zest for life. Even tempered, never rude, never says the wrong thing. Would love to see him live happily ever after! I couldn't imagine him being anything other than the perfect gentleman at all times and I can say that we've had lots of great correspondence, Buggy can discuss anything from ballet to shipyards, I'm serious.

Bethan83!!! That's who I want to shine a light on! By dear friend Bethan83, there's a real sweetheart, oh my gosh, another one with a big heart, and good humor, and very cool and great to talk with, trade notes........ currently in Texas (I know that's a big area, but that's all she's divulging to the board at the moment!), she's one of my fave people to correspond with!

So there's my "recommendations", one of each sex..... both Texans, interestingly enough! 🙂

CD, seriously, thanks. (Shy Girl, you too, thanks!) Personally, I always thought the requirement to date me was poor taste in men! lol. If you want to piss off your parents, I'm your man! lol. No, really, all kidding aside, I'm completely encouraged, I'm walking tall the whole day, believe me.

Gosh, this year has been Year of the Doll! You have been so innovative, and generous, and ubiquitous! Always original, always encouraging, this thread case in point. The video history of your fetish was one of the most moving things I've ever seen on the TMF, I would think every member would get something out of seeing that. I know for me it was time well spent, i got ALOT out of it. Highly recommended. And a thread like this.......it's just like you to create it, you have a big, giant heart and the board is so much better with you around.

What a beautiful kiss on the cheek this was, thanks, seriously. And I nominate Bugman, a real gentleman and stand-up guy! And Bethan83, a sweet, cool, adventurous, very easy-to-open-up-to girl. 🙂

 

[CapturedDoll]

See what I mean? The Internet really has a heart of gold.

Thank you Internet. Your words of me and others fills me with joy. 🙂

I'll smile all day now thanks to you. 🙂

 

[CapturedDoll]

Darkknight

http://www.ticklingforum.com/member.php?484-Darkknight


Located in Illinois, Darkknight is a Ler who is a VERY classy, gentleman. Anytime he has sent me a note or commented on a thread of mine... he does it with respect. Never vulgar. Always with a refined sense of kindness.

I know one of his favorite things is Batman. And he has been wondering where his Catwoman is to rule over Gotham City with. I'm wondering too...

One of the things I would be so sad to see... is him ending up with a vanilla. That wouldn't be the end of the world I guess. I don't think he will let that happen either. He has intergrity for his own needs. But... for a man who would use "Deep" as the word to describe himself. And as his occupation "Hero Wanna Be". He's actually NOT a hero wanna be- he IS ONE already. That heart of his is probably SO BIG... it would be an absolute HONOR to get to know him. As a friend I will. But he wants love... And if I were you "Catwoman"... wherever you are. After reading this... I'd send him a Bat signal ASAP. 🙂

 

[chicago]

DarkKnight is a stand up guy fasho and his car is badass

 

[Sandisk444]

I like the idea but I feel like it might reinforce how some people feel about the site being fairly "clique-y". I know from my personal experience when I joined up and came back after a long break I felt like I didn't really fit in and everyone had their own groups they stuck with. Hell, I've been trying to post around a lot and reach out to a bunch of users and I still only feel like I'd be recognizable to a handful of users and it would mostly be because of the cat in my sig.

It would be awesome it ended up as how you intended it with genuinely nice and interesting people being recognized as such but I can't help but feel it'll just be the people already established on the site being told how established they are. Like I said though, I do like the idea and I hope it'll catch on in a good way 🙂.

 

[CapturedDoll]

I like the idea but I feel like it might reinforce how some people feel about the site being fairly "clique-y". I know from my personal experience when I joined up and came back after a long break I felt like I didn't really fit in and everyone had their own groups they stuck with. Hell, I've been trying to post around a lot and reach out to a bunch of users and I still only feel like I'd be recognizable to a handful of users and it would mostly be because of the cat in my sig.

It would be awesome it ended up as how you intended it with genuinely nice and interesting people being recognized as such but I can't help but feel it'll just be the people already established on the site being told how established they are. Like I said though, I do like the idea and I hope it'll catch on in a good way 🙂.

I totally understand what you are saying. What I want you and everyone to realize is that I have only had a certain amount of interactions with people here. Internet: We may have written each other... 15-20x's? DarkKnight? 4-6? I AM in a relationship so I have had to keep everyone at arms length to a certain degree. Friendship is just now starting with some people. If anyone could start something like this... it could be me. So it is with the best of intentions that I started this. And I want women and men to start feeling like there are some of us they CAN trust for opinions and conversations with no alterior motives.

And... because there ARE creeps slithering around... I think it would be nice to highlight some of the genuine and good people here. Especially from the regulars. Who else has had such a bird's eye view? Know what I mean? 🙂.

 

[Sandisk444]

I totally understand what you are saying. What I want you and everyone to realize is that I have only had a certain amount of interactions with people here. Internet: We may have written each other... 15-20x's? DarkKnight? 4-6? I AM in a relationship so I have had to keep everyone at arms length to a certain degree. Friendship is just now starting with some people. If anyone could start something like this... it could be me. So it is with the best of intentions that I started this. And I want women and men to start feeling like there are some of us they CAN trust for opinions and conversations with no alterior motives.

Yeah! Don't get me wrong, I'm not questioning your intentions nor do I expect it to be one person's responsibility to keep the thread going. I hope to see things go well here!

 

[Park CollegeO]

Very nice idea!! what would also be cool, as an addition, is to perhaps mention people one would personally like to meet in real life, not necessarily to date or anything, but just someone who the poster would want to interact with in RL. Hope this thread doesn't die, it would be very interesting to see what qualities members see in each other on here.

 

[CapturedDoll]

Yeah! Don't get me wrong, I'm not questioning your intentions nor do I expect it to be one person's responsibility to keep the thread going. I hope to see things go well here!

Oh I know you weren't questioning the intentions. 🙂 I'm glad you brought this aspect up because I thought of it myself. So I was ready for that aspect to be brought up already. I'm just me, trying to be helpful. And I know other people want to be as well. 🙂 Nothing to gain, nothing to lose. I just believe that finding love can exist here. 🙂

 

[Wolf]

I totally understand what you are saying. What I want you and everyone to realize is that I have only had a certain amount of interactions with people here. Internet: We may have written each other... 15-20x's? DarkKnight? 4-6? I AM in a relationship so I have had to keep everyone at arms length to a certain degree. Friendship is just now starting with some people. If anyone could start something like this... it could be me. So it is with the best of intentions that I started this. And I want women and men to start feeling like there are some of us they CAN trust for opinions and conversations with no alterior motives.
And... because there ARE creeps slithering around... I think it would be nice to highlight some of the genuine and good people here. Especially from the regulars. Who else has had such a bird's eye view? Know what I mean? 🙂.

I'd never doubt your generous intentions, but I'd trust a real life contact much more than some PMs.
A guy can still have someone chained up his basement while he seems a total charmer in writing.
I'd never say that about The Internet, though. He's a fine fellow, and I know that wouldn't apply.
I don't think he has a basement.

 

[CapturedDoll]

Very nice idea!! what would also be cool, as an addition, is to perhaps mention people one would personally like to meet in real life, not necessarily to date or anything, but just someone who the poster would want to interact with in RL. Hope this thread doesn't die, it would be very interesting to see what qualities members see in each other on here.

Yes I will enjoy seeing people talk about each others qualities as well!! 🙂

To put perspective people in the light though... Idk... that could go south real quick.

Example: Me: "I would love to meet X"

X comes imto the thread: "Ummmm NO."

Me: 🙁

That gives way for feelings to be hurt publicly. Good idea though! I just can see how it might go wrong.

 

[CapturedDoll]

I'd never doubt your generous intentions, but I'd trust a real life contact much more than some PMs.
A guy can still have someone chained up his basement while he seems a total charmer in writing.
I'd never say that about The Internet, though. He's a fine fellow, and I know that wouldn't apply.
I don't think he has a basement.

Lol!!! 😉

Ok so obviously it should be said do not trust any opinion 100%. These are purely suggestions and do your homework before you meet up with ANYONE listed here. I went ahead and made a special caution note back within the first post.

 

[chicago]

I like the idea but I feel like it might reinforce how some people feel about the site being fairly "clique-y". I know from my personal experience when I joined up and came back after a long break I felt like I didn't really fit in and everyone had their own groups they stuck with. Hell, I've been trying to post around a lot and reach out to a bunch of users and I still only feel like I'd be recognizable to a handful of users and it would mostly be because of the cat in my sig.

It would be awesome it ended up as how you intended it with genuinely nice and interesting people being recognized as such but I can't help but feel it'll just be the people already established on the site being told how established they are. Like I said though, I do like the idea and I hope it'll catch on in a good way 🙂.

I used to hear that a lot more about a decade ago. But since then, most people being accused of being cliquey have left.

Imo, there is no clique. There are those who interact positively and those who dont.

 

[CapturedDoll]

I used to hear that a lot more about a decade ago. But since then, most people being accused of being cliquey have left.

Imo, there is no clique. There are those who interact positively and those who dont.

YES! So far as long as I have been posting and interacting this is my experience as well. And Chicago saying this is to me a FACT. She's been posting a very long time. And if anyone knows what's up- it's HER.

 

[Sensualswitch10]

To put perspective people in the light though... Idk... that could go south real quick.

Example: Me: "I would love to meet X"

X comes into the thread: "Ummmm NO."

Me: 🙁

Dolly, your little hypothetical rejection scenario really cracked me up!

And I hope it's not inappropriate, but I want to throw my "I think the Internet is a pretty awesome dude" out there as well, even though I haven't met him in real life. He has always been supportive, positive, kind and helpful any time I have PMed him. (Kind of like you) And neither he nor I are interested in each other romantically lol.

 

[chicago]

Just want to say, ive actually met DarkKnight many times so i know hes awesome.

Sensual is ok i guess lol jk, ive met him twice now and he rocks.

 

[CapturedDoll]

Dolly, your little hypothetical rejection scenario really cracked me up!

Yay!! I was hoping it would come off at least a little funny. 🙂

And I hope it's not inappropriate, but I want to throw my "I think the Internet is a pretty awesome dude" out there as well, even though I haven't met him in real life. He has always been supportive, positive, kind and helpful any time I have PMed him. (Kind of like you) And neither he nor I are interested in each other romantically lol.

No... thats not at all inappropriate. More people chiming in on someone that gets posted only helps showcase that person even more. For how good of a person they are. Whats the saying on rice? 10 Billion Chinese people can't be wrong? lol

 

[Sensualswitch10]

Just want to say, ive actually met DarkKnight many times so i know hes awesome.

Sensual is ok i guess lol jk, ive met him twice now and he rocks.

Awwww, thanks chicago! You know I've met your bf 3 times now! You guys both rock! I might have a slight man crush on the Rhino, so don't get jealous 😛

 

[Mrcool]

This is mighty cool doll

 

[CapturedDoll]

This is mighty cool doll

Thank you! 🙂