There's Only One 'First Impression'

[proud2tickle]

Women like men want one main thing. The idea of value. Everyone wants to be accepted and listened too. Everyone wants a person that they can count on and will always be able to turn to. tickling cant make a relationship its just something that can go with it. try to find out who a person is before u attempt what u can do to them

 

[proud2tickle]

oh and u can make a another first impression you just need a delorean and a flux compastor or those pen lights in men in black

 

[fantastic8]

Can I say one thing for the people that don't post often? We aren't all really creepy. I mean I have hardly posted in the 4 or 5 years I have been here. Normally I don't post in a topic (like this) unless I feel I have something to say that hasn't been said by someone else. However, in personals and just threads like this, I constantly see the guys/gals with a coupld hundred/thousand posts telling any new member to stick with the people who post a lot and I gotta say its quite annoying. I shouldn't have to make 300 one word posts just to be considered legit by the other people on here.

Anyway that was kinda off topic, basically they are people first, friends second, and potential tickle partners third. If you just treat a girl like she is only there for your sexual gratification, it's going to end up just like it would anywhere outside of this forum. Most (if not all) of the people I have talked to on here I will never meet for one reason or another so just focus on being friends and if it happens, it happens.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Can I say one thing for the people that don't post often? We aren't all really creepy. I mean I have hardly posted in the 4 or 5 years I have been here. Normally I don't post in a topic (like this) unless I feel I have something to say that hasn't been said by someone else. However, in personals and just threads like this, I constantly see the guys/gals with a coupld hundred/thousand posts telling any new member to stick with the people who post a lot and I gotta say its quite annoying. I shouldn't have to make 300 one word posts just to be considered legit by the other people on here.

I hear what you're saying, but it sounds as though you may be misunderstanding what people mean when they encourage others to post - at least what I mean when I say that.

If I get a random PM from someone I don't know, one of the first things I do is look at their profile and posting history. If they don't have one, I don't assume they're creepy or weird. It's just inconvenient for me. I look at posting history to try and get a sense of the person's personality. It doesn't make up my mind for me, but I do use it as a tool to help me get to know someone. I think that's all people are saying. Also, if I notice a post that someone makes that sparks my interest, I'll look at their posting history then, too, to get a sense of who they are. Depending on what kind of feel I get for them, I might initiate a conversation with them. So it really isn't to legitimize anyone. It's just something that has worked for some of us. Getting your name out there helps people get to know you - that's all. But you're right, some of the nicest people hardly post at all. 🙂

 

[NonConTickler]

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What I want is for people to have the attitude "if he isn't interested in a woman beyond tickling her, and he can find a way to just get what he wants & leave, then more power to him". What people's attitudes are instead, is that a guy who pays a hooker to let him tickle her is a "loser", or "creepy". The prevailing attitude here and in society in general, is that if a guy just wants to keep his social interactions as brief as possible, long enough to get what he wants from others, is that there's something "wrong" with him. You asked what I wanted so I'm telling you: I want the double standard here to stop that says that some guys can pay for tickling sessions at dungeons or whatever they're called and don't get called names. But I go to hookers to tickle them and I get called names. We both are paying for a service, that's all. If I'm a loser for paying to tickle women, then everyone here who pays to tickle women has to be called a loser. No more double standards.

 

[rhiannon]

What people's attitudes are instead, is that a guy who pays a hooker to let him tickle her is a "loser", or "creepy".

The reason that people think you are creepy is certainly not that you pay hookers to let you tickle them, pal! I have never ever seen anybody call anybody else creepy for going to dungeons, not once!!