Tortuga
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- May 14, 2007
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So yeah I don't do this but I'm giving it a whirl. Soon to be turning 33, she/her/they/them pronouns, I am genderfluid, lee, I ler primarily with femme gendered types, living in the capital district NY area. I also am married, so I'm not looking for a relationship though I am poly. I've lived here going on a year and a half. Connecting with suburban Mercedes driving soccer moms with there 11 kids isn't really my gig. I connect much better around those more kinky natured, I just honestly feel like I can be more myself. Totally not interested in the "omg that yoga class was intense types" more interested in " fuck yasss that boxing class was the shit let's get pizza, go to my place and watch a movie and oops why are those cuffs there? " I'm trying to figure out the kink community here which is slim pickings, you guys in NYC have it happening though but your hotel rooms are almost as much as my paycheck. But I've ventured to a few events here and there You're probably confused right now what I'm looking for. Just a friend. Wanna have coffee, a beer? Catch a nerdy movie? Go for a hike or a walk somewhere? Potential play, sure? If it happens it happens, I'm not mad at that. If it doesn't happen, also not mad at that. Be my rope bunny and let me practice? That would be awesome, practicing on myself isn't the easiest (unsure what that is? Take a look at any rope photos I have here). If interest has caught your eye hit me up on kik @ tortugarawr or my Instagram @cassiandraaa. Mmmmkaybye!
Edit 8/3/19 - Just because people seem to still get the wrong idea on what I'm looking for. YES, I am that Tortuga from those videos from over a decade ago. But I'm also a person and would like to be treated like one and not a fantasy pornstar from back in the day. I have no interest in answering the 20 tickle questions that I've been asked 1000 times either. I've been in this community for over a decade now and the same thing is tiring. You wanna get to know each other and shoot the shit over a beer? Then I am so game. I don't play with others that I don't potentially know or feel a connection with.
Edit 8/3/19 - Just because people seem to still get the wrong idea on what I'm looking for. YES, I am that Tortuga from those videos from over a decade ago. But I'm also a person and would like to be treated like one and not a fantasy pornstar from back in the day. I have no interest in answering the 20 tickle questions that I've been asked 1000 times either. I've been in this community for over a decade now and the same thing is tiring. You wanna get to know each other and shoot the shit over a beer? Then I am so game. I don't play with others that I don't potentially know or feel a connection with.
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