This YouTube user is pissed off & freaked out

[CarolinaTickler]

I can understand her reaction to all this but I think that she shouldn't be so niave. Anytime you make a video or take pictures and post them on a public venue like youtube or webshots or flikr or a numerous other number of social networking places you have to be ready for that kind of thing. Maybe it isn't even "fetish people" maybe it is just rude people attacking the way you look or that your video/picture is stupid. If you are going to make your videos and pictures public be ready for criticism. Better yet there is a function on youtube that allows you to turn off the comments on your videos so that people can't comment on them. To me this comes across as bitching about something that you set yourself up for whenever you post your own pictures, videos or even written work on the internet.

Criticism is just a part of life may it be some guy telling you that he thinks you suck or that he'd like to tickle you cause you're hot. Believe me I can understand that it is creepy to someone who isn't a member of this forum and doesn't understand fetishes, but you open yourself up to that kind of thing when you post a video of yourself being tickled on a public site for the entire world to see. If she doesn't want to read the comments she needs to either make the videos private so that only her friends on youtube can see them, or change the settings on youtube so that no one can leave comments on the videos. I don't like having my band's music critiqued by people who can't play an instrument, but we open ourselves up to it by going up on stage and playing in bars and clubs. If you can't handle criticism and the comments that people make then simply don't put your videos and pictures and creative expressions out in public for everyone to see because when you do they are going to make comments about them.

Like I said earlier, because I don't want to come across as an unsympathetic asshole, I understand that it must weird her out to read these comments about wanting to tie her up and tickle her. I can imagine it freaked her out and it disgusted her a bit that people would leave these comments on a video that she and her friend made for fun. And to be honest people should realize she like 18 and obviously niave and to make comments like that is going to freak her out. I still say she brings this on herself because when you post a video like that on an open forum people are going to write comments about it and critique it. If you don't want to be critiqued, judged and commented on then don't make your videos, pictures, writing and other artistic expressions public. Be uncreative and normal like the rest of the world and we will all ignore you. But, if you want to be different and creative and choose to express yourself in some way you have to be willing to accept criticism and take the comments that people are going to make no matter how weird they may be at times.

 

[Iggy pop]

Probably. Shame its a few who ruin it for everybody else.

The comments that annoy me the most are the ones where somebody will say (to a non-fetish person who is *probably* unaware people are touching themselves while watching it)

"Hehe that was SOO FUNNY!! You know what else would be FUNNY? AND LOTS OF FUN? HAVE SOMEBODY TICKLE YOUR FEET FOR 10MINUTES NON STOP. I bet you cant take it. It would be so funny though! hahahhehehe 😀 😀 😀 xxx"

You know I wish people would not leave comments like this. I hate it that some of these guys even try to pretend to be women, but it is so obvious they are guys. But I also know there is nothing I can do to stop it. It is like the same thing with the PM messages to many of the women here. The anonymity of the internet allows people to do this. And lets face it fetishes attract a lot of sexually repressed people.

 

[badreligion]

well if she didnt want comments from people who like tickling the bitch shouldnt have made tickling videos ... just another person who fears what they dont understand

 

[Sunjob]

She obviously didn't expect the reaction she got. She probably didn't know there was a tickling fetish before the whole thing.

All she asked is that people stop leaving comments. She didn't even remove the original video. I think that's a fair enough request. It even said "I'm Sorry" at the end. That's more respectful than I'd expect considering the comments.

 

[badreligion]

She obviously didn't expect the reaction she got. She probably didn't know there was a tickling fetish before the whole thing.

All she asked is that people stop leaving comments. She didn't even remove the original video. I think that's a fair enough request. It even said "I'm Sorry" at the end. That's more respectful than I'd expect considering the comments.

yea she said sorry but also said " its weird" so shes a bitch

 

[Oddjob0226]

She didn't make a tickling video. She made a video with tickling in it.

Compare her work with that of MPT or Yaqi or Cal Star even.

And she said it's weird because, well it is.

But so what. Of all the terrible things that can befall one in lifetime an anonymous person saying to the other anonymous millions out there that they like something wierd ranks as, like, 0 on the terrible-ness scale. It's like people becoming tremendously outraged when someone says "That's retarded".

Civil rights folks got bloodied and killed by their own countrymen and nowdays people can't keep their panties dry over one and two syllable words used as casual slangy communication. That's weird, retarded and gay.

 

[iostream]

yea she said sorry but also said " its weird" so shes a bitch

Girl you are talking about (5 days ago)
I respect people who love tickling...thats fine. It's your life...but, i'm saying the comments are weird...like people telling me and my friends to tie each other up and crap! haha

Yes, she's totally a ----- for thinking it's weird that some guys ask her and her friends for material they can indulge themselves over.

Are you serious? Because it's a lot more than 'weird' to me.

 

[tku]

drama alert

 

[CarolinaTickler]

I could buy into the whole, "she didn't know about tickling fetishes," and the, "she is just a niave 18 year old," argument if you had never seen the video she posted before all that. If you take the time to watch the video she and her friend made entitled "Summer Nights" you would see that she and her friend show off their socked feet and talk about how if you tickle each other and show your feet on youtube you get a lot of views and comments from fetishist.

Plain and simple, they knew what they were doing and I honestly don't have much remorse for someone like that. It isn't like she didn't know that there are people out there on youtube who leave comments like this out on youtube. She is just freaked out because now it happened to her and she even sort of provoked it by putting the words "ticklings" and "feet" in the tagline of her video when you search. You can't tell me she didn't know what she was setting herself up for.

 

[vsa7a]

I can understand her reaction to all this but I think that she shouldn't be so niave. Anytime you make a video or take pictures and post them on a public venue like youtube or webshots or flikr or a numerous other number of social networking places you have to be ready for that kind of thing. Maybe it isn't even "fetish people" maybe it is just rude people attacking the way you look or that your video/picture is stupid. If you are going to make your videos and pictures public be ready for criticism. Better yet there is a function on youtube that allows you to turn off the comments on your videos so that people can't comment on them. To me this comes across as bitching about something that you set yourself up for whenever you post your own pictures, videos or even written work on the internet.

Criticism is just a part of life may it be some guy telling you that he thinks you suck or that he'd like to tickle you cause you're hot. Believe me I can understand that it is creepy to someone who isn't a member of this forum and doesn't understand fetishes, but you open yourself up to that kind of thing when you post a video of yourself being tickled on a public site for the entire world to see. If she doesn't want to read the comments she needs to either make the videos private so that only her friends on youtube can see them, or change the settings on youtube so that no one can leave comments on the videos. I don't like having my band's music critiqued by people who can't play an instrument, but we open ourselves up to it by going up on stage and playing in bars and clubs. If you can't handle criticism and the comments that people make then simply don't put your videos and pictures and creative expressions out in public for everyone to see because when you do they are going to make comments about them.

Like I said earlier, because I don't want to come across as an unsympathetic asshole, I understand that it must weird her out to read these comments about wanting to tie her up and tickle her. I can imagine it freaked her out and it disgusted her a bit that people would leave these comments on a video that she and her friend made for fun. And to be honest people should realize she like 18 and obviously niave and to make comments like that is going to freak her out. I still say she brings this on herself because when you post a video like that on an open forum people are going to write comments about it and critique it. If you don't want to be critiqued, judged and commented on then don't make your videos, pictures, writing and other artistic expressions public. Be uncreative and normal like the rest of the world and we will all ignore you. But, if you want to be different and creative and choose to express yourself in some way you have to be willing to accept criticism and take the comments that people are going to make no matter how weird they may be at times.

good job carolinatickler!

the only thing is that these guys are not likely from TMF and the ones who not criticize or simply comment but instead make rude and uncalled for remarks (and in fact in a porn porno bullshit kind of way) and likely harass the girl on youtube through her email most likely (if you have seen her pissed off video i think she said about emails) and even so she turns comments off likely they would pull up her profile even if protected and solicit her email associated with that account

FRANKLY these fuckers and ill say again FUCKERS are not likely from TMF so they have NO self-control whatsoever..apparently their mom either didnt spank them good enough or spank them in a position with their nads exposed.

 

[chicago]

good job carolinatickler!

the only thing is that these guys are not likely from TMF and the ones who not criticize or simply comment but instead make rude and uncalled for remarks (and in fact in a porn porno bullshit kind of way) and likely harass the girl on youtube through her email most likely (if you have seen her pissed off video i think she said about emails) and even so she turns comments off likely they would pull up her profile even if protected and solicit her email associated with that account

FRANKLY these fuckers and ill say again FUCKERS are not likely from TMF so they have NO self-control whatsoever..apparently their mom either didnt spank them good enough or spank them in a position with their nads exposed.

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I think it's pretty likely that these guys are members of the TMF, considering the TMF is the largest website devoted to tickling and gets more traffic than the Howard Stern website, but that's not really the point.

 

[ticklesfeetintx]

I could buy into the whole, "she didn't know about tickling fetishes," and the, "she is just a niave 18 year old," argument if you had never seen the video she posted before all that. If you take the time to watch the video she and her friend made entitled "Summer Nights" you would see that she and her friend show off their socked feet and talk about how if you tickle each other and show your feet on youtube you get a lot of views and comments from fetishist.

Plain and simple, they knew what they were doing and I honestly don't have much remorse for someone like that. It isn't like she didn't know that there are people out there on youtube who leave comments like this out on youtube. She is just freaked out because now it happened to her and she even sort of provoked it by putting the words "ticklings" and "feet" in the tagline of her video when you search. You can't tell me she didn't know what she was setting herself up for.

But that video was commentary on the comments they got from the first video, which featured the actual tickling. They got some comments after the first video, joked about it in this video with the sock showing and all that, and by then, yes, they realized the tickle fetish community... but then, some people took it too far and that's where the request for the weird comments to stop came from.

So by the time this video came up, yes, she was aware of the community. But again, if she just learned about it, to send strange messages like she must have gotten is still too much.

And I've seen some people mention "Well, I read the comments, they weren't that bad." But we don't know what she may have deleted, not to mention private emails sent through You Tube.

Hey, we're the same way here in the forum. Let's say someone is new to the TMF and posts up a message that says "Hey, I just joined and I want to see what all this is about..." If that person was bombarded with "DO A VIDEO IN NYLONS!" "TAKE PICTURES OF YOUR FEET AND PUT IT ONLINE!" "I WANT TO MASTURBATE TO YOU BEING TICKLED!" etc. etc. etc., and that person leaves, to say "Well, she/he should've known what she/he was getting into" is not a good excuse. I don't think that would be cool even for someone fully aware of the fetish.

I'm not going to make an excuse for rude behavior.

So, IMO (like it matters), at the end of the day, it doesn't matter if someone knows tickling fetishism or not, common courtesy is common courtesy. Without going into details, I personally had an experience where someone who discovered my feelings on tickling, did something incredibly creepy, one of the most creepiest things to ever happen in my entire life. It almost turned me off to the the whole thing... and you're talking to someone who loves it! I can't tell you how freaked out I was. What made it worse was that this creep's actions were done in such a way that it "outed" me to my family. Not a fun conversation to have.

So that's probably why I'm a little soapboxy on this topic. I know how people feel, but I'm sorry, no one "deserves" to be attacked with creepy comments. That goes for newbies, non-TMF members, Viviana 🙂, whoever!

And if you didn't make the creepy comments, you have nothing to be ashamed of. But if you know someone who does, tell them to just calm it down a bit. Whether someone is into tickling, just learned, or have no idea, people still need to be treated with respect. That's all I care about. And at the end of the day, I think you can still make certain requests to further the possible tickling from "non-TMFers" and still be respectful and "vanilla," not desperate-sounding or creepy.

Besides, if you need a certain kind of tickling the way you want it right away, there's plenty of tickling video companies who can supply.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

Don't we have females come here and get freaked out by the bombardment of attention they get from overzealous individuals? They bring that on themselves I take it? After all, they knew damn well what goes here, they totally bring it on themselves...

C'mon people, calm down. Forget the fact that she "insulted the community" for a second and at least try to rationalize that someone who thought they were putting up a funny video for people to laugh at probably, for whatever crazy, irrational reason, didn't think people would be beating of to it and demanding more wank material.

 

[CarolinaTickler]

I'm not upset at all about her insulting the community. I can understand that she was freaked out by these comments but if you put pictures and videos of yourself on a public forum like youtube or flickr you have to realize you are going recieve criticism no regardless if it is "you suck", "hey I think you're really hot and it turns me on", or even "wow you have cute feet I want to tickle you". If you don't want people to make comments about your artistic expressions then don't post them on a public forum. I can understand that the comments she recieved probably freaked her out, but you shouldn't post your e-mail address in your profile if you don't want recieve those kinds of comments. My simple point is that whenever you post your work on a public forum like that you have to be ready for criticism and in this case it came in the form of unpleasant comments on her video and through her e-mail.

Looking back the summer nights video is a later video so you are right ticklesfeetintx. But she has apparently removed that video where she is complaining about people leaving comments so I think the issue is kind of over.