Tickle Foreplay

[-Hari-]

ok so when I started having sessions and stuffs I like many others went in clueless and just got stuck in, which luckliy went pretty well most of the time, When ever I had ler`d someone they have been so dyam ticklish that it wouldnt have mattered how skillfull I was, they still would have gone crazy.

As for sessions as a lee, I had a few where I felt very little, I had put it down to nerves but then my friend, a fetish model I know who has a vauge interest in tickling offered me a session to cheer me up on a bad day.. bless er, anyway, she tied me down to her bed and began with a large soft feather for a good 5 mins..I was still just as nervous as in previous sessions and on top of that I found myself initialy dissapointed..

Now I was confused at this point, it didnt tickle at all really, was very pleasant but didnt tickle. Just ran it up and down my body gently. I was gagged so I couldnt question this method, then after the 5 mins or so were up she began the serious stuff and I have NEVER in my life felt such an intense tickling sensation, it was total madness!!

And so I learned the advantage of arousing the nerves gently and waking the body up before getting into it... something which I now consider almost a must in any session I involve myself in

I understand some peeps probably wanna just get straight to it, we are all different after all.

Who else enjoys this method?

Who else finds a massive difference between doing things like this before hand and not?

How do you carry out your tickle foreplay?

 

[Artoo]

Yep, I gotta say that warming the nerves up before the real tickling begins is extremely effective. Extremely.

 

[DJ Tickler]

We don't all have fetish models to do that for us 😛 LOL

But seriously, I find going slowly but firmly is the best way to go. Have them screaming and squirming but making sure you aren't going all out is the best.

I usually continue the tickling while having sex and the sensation for both parties I find is great, but because you have done the initial foreplay they find it erotic rather then distracting.

Well that is what I have found at least...each to their own 🙂

DJ Tickler

 

[huskys]

Just the words "Tickle Foreplay" is enough to get me excited!!!

 

[Snail Shell]

It's like anything else. A good warm up will prep the body for the activities to come. (Wow, that sounded dirty... >.>)

I find that some parts of my body become ticklish only after I'm already laughing. Warmup is always useful.

Snail Shell

 

[-Hari-]

I find that some parts of my body become ticklish only after I'm already laughing. Warmup is always useful.

Snail Shell

Yeah I find that too, My feet are completely useless until Ive have warmed up and got going.

 

[aurora5150]

i find a gentle stroking/caressing of the fingertips all over my body does the trick to warm me up for a good tickling. and like the others have said my feet need a bit of foreplay before they are ready to really get down to business.

 

[ticklebunny 2]

I love tickle foreplay. I think tickle foreplay rocks!! I love being slowly and playfully tickled sensually-while massage being playfully incorporated, love being tickled slowly w a feather, or fingertips, like being tickled by chop sticks slowly or just playfully tickled it is great. I love when my neck shoulders and back are massaged and touched and lightly tickled by feather, chop stick, soft material, fingertips or pulsar toothbrush that tickles big time-me and my hubby bear definitely use feather and his fingertips when he tickles me in our foreplay-we enjoy it, very enjoyable and great.

I think foreplay without light sensual playful tickling would be a shame and a tragedy and a crime in fullest sense of the word... tickling adds a special element to foreplay and special romantic moments and with intimacy. That is just my view on it.

 

[DownUnder]

What if tickling IS the foreplay?

 

[-Hari-]

What if tickling IS the foreplay?

thats a different brand of cereal my friend, and a tasty one at that 😀

But I meant tickle foreplay as the set up for a tickle session before ya go all out....but You could have both, sexual foreplay consisting of tickle foreplay....full on tickle session then into the main dish of sexehtiem 😀

 

[Capnmad]

I'm a proponent of lots of "foreplay"... 😀

Texting/IMing is foreplay to phonecalls which are foreplay to meeting for dinner and chatting in person which is foreplay to an occasional touch here and there which is foreplay to cuddling which is foreplay to tickling which is foreplay to...

The point is to be comfortable and make other folks feel comfortable... Everything else flows from that.

Hari's girl used the feather to put him at ease and at the same time, off-guard... He was "initially disappointed". He'd probably stopped anticipating a serious experience, and so relaxed a bit... Stress often constricts blood vessels and makes people less ticklish sometimes. The strokes of the feather after a while probably helped alleviate some of the nervousness he was feeling (which allowed for what was in fact a more intense sensation), and also provided a point of contrast for the more intense experiences to follow, and so it also probably seemed more intense simply by virtue of having a point of contrast...

Make sure your playmate/prey 😉 feels at home, comfortable, relaxed, open... I like to start slow and gentle -- cuddling just comes naturally to me, as does tickling and such... Lose the nervousness but keep the anticipation, and things tend to work out well. 🙂

 

[DownUnder]

thats a different brand of cereal my friend, and a tasty one at that 😀

But I meant tickle foreplay as the set up for a tickle session before ya go all out....but You could have both, sexual foreplay consisting of tickle foreplay....full on tickle session then into the main dish of sexehtiem 😀

Understood, so there's tickling foreplay --> tickling --> real game 🙂

I can identify times that can be classified as "tickling foreplay" under your definition. But sometimes they get so exciting in and of themselves that we forego the tickling and proceed straight to the Main Event 😀 hard to draw the boundaries, then, between "tickling foreplay" and "foreplay".

 

[-Hari-]

Understood, so there's tickling foreplay --> tickling --> real game 🙂

I can identify times that can be classified as "tickling foreplay" under your definition. But sometimes they get so exciting in and of themselves that we forego the tickling and proceed straight to the Main Event 😀 hard to draw the boundaries, then, between "tickling foreplay" and "foreplay".

Exciting isnt it 😀

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Mmmmm Yes I have to agree tickle foreplay ROCKS!!! There is nothing quite like it, it is incredible and amazing and beyond description and beyond words....awesome incredible feeling and a incredible unforgettable experience!
I absolutely LOVE Tickle Foreplay it really makes you feel like you are soaring and floating on a cloud big time, feels like you will never come down...especially when kisses and hugs and ear nibbling and neck nibbling and caresses are thrown in the batch along with playful bold tickles....mmmmmm those always make my blood sizzle and make me get RED HOT and hubby knows this very well!! Guaranteed to make this bunny happy and makes this bunny SMILE big time......mmmmm no feeling as joyous and as incredible as that .....mmm sweet!!!

 

[JPie1]

I'm a proponent of lots of "foreplay"... 😀

Texting/IMing is foreplay to phonecalls which are foreplay to meeting for dinner and chatting in person which is foreplay to an occasional touch here and there which is foreplay to cuddling which is foreplay to tickling which is foreplay to...

The point is to be comfortable and make other folks feel comfortable... Everything else flows from that.

Hari's girl used the feather to put him at ease and at the same time, off-guard... He was "initially disappointed". He'd probably stopped anticipating a serious experience, and so relaxed a bit... Stress often constricts blood vessels and makes people less ticklish sometimes. The strokes of the feather after a while probably helped alleviate some of the nervousness he was feeling (which allowed for what was in fact a more intense sensation), and also provided a point of contrast for the more intense experiences to follow, and so it also probably seemed more intense simply by virtue of having a point of contrast...

Make sure your playmate/prey 😉 feels at home, comfortable, relaxed, open... I like to start slow and gentle -- cuddling just comes naturally to me, as does tickling and such... Lose the nervousness but keep the anticipation, and things tend to work out well. 🙂

that was the best analysis of tickling foreplay I have ever seen!

I agree that starting out slow and going from there definitely works best with me...but I am really into light touch tickle to begin with, for me I almost always start out quiet with the foreplay and just squirm, then a little giggle comes as it goes on, and then the giggling will spill forth like Niagara Falls when the tickling does not stop! But again getting to know your ler and feeling comfortable with them definitely warms up the situation a lot quicker!

 

[4Pawz]

Omg Haribish, I completely agree 🙂

If my ler touches my skin softly, very gently, that is enough to get me started on the giggling. But then he will really start in on me and I am a laughing mess.

As far as the "foreplay" being tickling, that is wonderful as well He will tickle me in the middle of it and that will send both of us soaring!

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Mmmm yes I have to agree with you also wholeheartedly capnmad and 4pawz-there is something incredible and sweet and amazing about foreplay that has tickling interspersed big time with it-starts slow and gradually-takes it time-savors the pleasure and joy of the moment-does not rush and race ahead to the destination but when both can fully enjoy, embrace, and savor the journey, not just be focused on the destination. Yes soft gentle light touches and gentle soft playful tickles with fingertips and lightly and gently w nails feels wonderful great-soft touches that are playful and gentle -always feel the best.

There is just something about that surge of anticipation...just makes the encounter that much sweeter!