Tickleshotel

[beachtickler]

Laurie "Tickleshotel" asked me to convey a message to her TMF friends. Her engagement plans fell through. Her contact phone numbers have been inadvertendly erased from her cell phone so she would like to reestablish contact with her friends from TMF via phone or PMs. Sounds like she could use some messages of support.

 

[maniactickler]

I didnt even know she was engaged. 😱

 

[Illtcklu]

Laurie "Tickleshotel" asked me to convey a message to her TMF friends. Her engagement plans fell through. Her contact phone numbers have been inadvertendly erased from her cell phone so she would like to reestablish contact with her friends from TMF via phone or PMs. Sounds like she could use some messages of support.

Engaged?! Man! I have been gone awhile! Will do though......

 

[Bugman]

I didnt even know she was engaged. 😱

This is news to me also. I love ya Laurie,will be in touch asap.

 

[tickleshotel]

Thank you BeachTickler, I appreciate you posting this as all my contacts have been erased from my cellphone, and I had no access to puter..

Just to update : I am back home safe and the past few weeks have been a waste and I have learned another lesson..

 

[Helena]

Thank you BeachTickler, I appreciate you posting this as all my contacts have been erased from my cellphone, and I had no access to puter..

Just to update : I am back home safe and the past few weeks have been a waste and I have learned another lesson..

Hi Laurie,
I'm glad that you are home safely. I'm sorry that you had a bad experience.

 

[Bel]

Hi Laurie i'm glad your back home and safe and i'm sorry about the bad experience you had. 🙁

 

[Illtcklu]

If you learned a lesson then it wasn't a total waiste.




Hopefully that makes you feel a little better.

 

[milagros317]

I'm glad that you're home safe, Tickleshotel.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

laurie, my heart goes out to ya, love. i'll try to get in contact with ya soon.

 

[unit5610]

I'm gone for a few weeks and look what happens! I'm sorry for your bad experience and glad that you're back home and back with us.

 

[tickleshotel]

Your right, it wasn;t a waste because I did learn a valuable lesson and I am fortunate to have learned it before I had made a bigger mistake and then have it be too late..

On my Birthday I met a Guy who is a Air Force Pilot, we met and spent quite a bit of time together . Fast Forward: He invited me to come to Vegas with him as he was flying in a Air Show the following weekend .. I accepted and on the trip to Vegas he stated he was interested in being with me long term and he would buy a ring,ect.. Well, we shared a room together and within a short time, he started showing his true colors despite being awfully charming in the beginning.. I won;t go into too much detail but when I wasn;t interested in some things, he became possessive and said alot of hurtful words.. I told him all about my love for tickling and well he didn;t take it well at all, he told me if I was going to be with him then I would have to get all the tickling or in his words (kinky shit) out of my system and lead a normal life going out to dinner,movies,ect and I would be set for life as he makes alot of money and has traveled the world.. Of course, these signs awakened my eyes and my decision was "Despite the promise that I wouldn;t have to work again,and everything that goes along with that, I am *Not* willing to Give up my love,passion for tickling to someone who is Clearly against it and that would mean me changing and I can;t visualize tickling not being a part of my life ...so I left on the first bus out of Vegas and I am home now and though my folks think it is a bad decision giving up a good relationship with someone who can offer alot to me.. I am happy with my decision and I am back at work and my employer is happy I am back too..

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Big hugs, Laurie. My inbox is always open for you...

You made a very, very wise decision 🙂

 

[jaba]

Wow Laurie, I'm so sorry to hear your sad story....

But we are glad that you have made the choice to stay with us....at least a little longer. 🙂

 

[unit5610]

What Knox said, excellent decision to return to home and job.
It sounded like the guy wanted to possess you.
I'm so happy you didn't let go of who you are for this guy.

 

[ticklishscribe]

I'm glad you didn't stay with him. While he may have been a top gun in the military, he was a loose cannon in his personal life. And you don't need a posessive idiot in yours.

You know how I feel. ​

 

[ticklesmurph]

aww!

i support you tickleshotel...keep in contact..

 

[Leo tickles]

I don't know you very well, or at all actually, but my fiance plans (as many in chat have been hearing about) have also fallen through.

My PM or messengers are ready if you want to talk.

If not, I wish you the best, and you can and will move on, just have to get the first few rough weeks out of the way.

 

[minerva]

Hey Laurie 🙂 Glad to hear you're back home and safe.
Take care

 

[aurora5150]

what a horrible thing to go through. but you were so strong and you stood up for yourself. i can't imagine how hard that was. but i applaud you for your strength and courage.

 

[Morpheus72]

and though my folks think it is a bad decision giving up a good relationship with someone who can offer alot to me.. I am happy with my decision and I am back at work and my employer is happy I am back too..

Respectfully, I think your folks are dead wrong! If this man was going to try to exert extreme control by making you suppress one of your passions in life, then there's no way it would stop there. He would have been controlling in every sense of the word as long as you were together. That sort of thing doesn't end with just one act.

You acted correctly, in my view.

Morph

 

[Mistress Aura]

Morph is absolutely correct. When someone starts exhibiting controlling behaviours like that, it almost always starts small and builds up--one of my ex-boyfriends started by refusing to allow me to wear certain shirts in public. By the time we broke up, he was all the way to telling me how to spit the water when I was done brushing my teeth ("Don't spit, you pig! Open your mouth and let the water fall out!") and refusing to allow me to watch any programs on television that were filmed in black and white because he thought they were all boring... 🙄 Eventually, he became physically abusive as well.

You managed to break free from something that might have become even more dangerous one day, Laurie. Well done...keep your chin up, there are guys who will see you for the treasure you already are without trying to change one iota of you.

Mistress Aura

 

[tickleshotel]

Thank you to ALL who have given their support here! I have no Doubt that I did make the right decision as I can only visualize the life I would have led if I had stayed and I would have been completely dependent on him which would have been a living H*ll . I learned that while I do still live with my Folks and living in their household doesn;t make me completely happy as there are sacrifices I make there , leaving one situation to another that is destructive is insane..
Nobody knows what the future holds but I know what I like,and I know what I don;t like and certain things,characterisics of another person are Deal Breakers when considering a relationship . I understand totally now that when getting involved in a relationship, the other person should want to enjoy each others hobbies,loves and passions together , *not* try to take it away !

This really isn;t easy to talk about as I feel I am naked and bearing my soul ,but if it helps someone else to avoid the same situation or being taken advantage of, maybe my experience might help

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Thank you BeachTickler, I appreciate you posting this as all my contacts have been erased from my cellphone, and I had no access to puter..

Just to update : I am back home safe and the past few weeks have been a waste and I have learned another lesson..

I didn't even know you were engaged. Well, I hope you're okay and at least you found out what the problem was before you got married to this guy. I know how you feel, I was engaged once and I had to break it (it was a very difficult decision but one that had to be made). However, I did learn in my case, several lessons from that experience.

 

[tickmankyle1]

hello

hello tickleshotel i met you at the last michigan party and my thoughts and prayers are with you. i totally understand. me and women never seem to happen i would love to have a gf someday but that will never happen. i think you made the right dision. it might be a hard one but a good one. my PM box is always open if you want to talk just try like me to enjoy life and all it has to offer. later tickmankyle1