Tickleshotel

[brianspencer66]

Hey Laurie, Im glad you came to your decision in a timely manner and bailed out when you did. I too had no idea you were engaged. Good luck to you and Im glad you were able to pick up where you left off back home.

 

[huskys]

Hi Laurie. Just saw this thread. Will send you a msg soon.
Sorry to hear the bad news. Chin up, love ya sweetheart

 

[the wiz]

Thank you BeachTickler, I appreciate you posting this as all my contacts have been erased from my cellphone, and I had no access to puter..

Just to update : I am back home safe and the past few weeks have been a waste and I have learned another lesson..

I have great respect for you; i only meet you a couple of years ago, but you have done more in your 40 years than most people will ever do in 80. your willingness to try something new and different; to go after your dreams has encourage me to start living some of mines.

Thank you Laurie, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

 

[Luv2Tickle69]

Your right, it wasn;t a waste because I did learn a valuable lesson and I am fortunate to have learned it before I had made a bigger mistake and then have it be too late..

On my Birthday I met a Guy who is a Air Force Pilot, we met and spent quite a bit of time together . Fast Forward: He invited me to come to Vegas with him as he was flying in a Air Show the following weekend .. I accepted and on the trip to Vegas he stated he was interested in being with me long term and he would buy a ring,ect.. Well, we shared a room together and within a short time, he started showing his true colors despite being awfully charming in the beginning.. I won;t go into too much detail but when I wasn;t interested in some things, he became possessive and said alot of hurtful words.. I told him all about my love for tickling and well he didn;t take it well at all, he told me if I was going to be with him then I would have to get all the tickling or in his words (kinky shit) out of my system and lead a normal life going out to dinner,movies,ect and I would be set for life as he makes alot of money and has traveled the world.. Of course, these signs awakened my eyes and my decision was "Despite the promise that I wouldn;t have to work again,and everything that goes along with that, I am *Not* willing to Give up my love,passion for tickling to someone who is Clearly against it and that would mean me changing and I can;t visualize tickling not being a part of my life ...so I left on the first bus out of Vegas and I am home now and though my folks think it is a bad decision giving up a good relationship with someone who can offer alot to me.. I am happy with my decision and I am back at work and my employer is happy I am back too..

Jeezum Crow, Laurie!! So glad you saw through all of that and stuck with the ever reliable adage--"..to thine own self be true...."

Glad you're after what makes YOU happy, and not what everyone ELSE thinks you should be happy with....HUGE difference.

Drop a line hun....any ol' time....(PM, that is...lol)

 

[tickleshotel]

Thank you to all I am happy that I made the right decision and got out when I did...I also just found out that the guy lied to me from the start, there is NO air force pilot by the name he gave me ,and so now his real identity is not clear.. He continues to call me despite me telling him IT is Over,I am not answering his phone calls,he is calling me asking me for MOney! If he continues, I know what my next step will be .. If he is smart,he will just stop calling me,and get on with his life and leave me alone

 

[Luv2Tickle69]

Thank you to all I am happy that I made the right decision and got out when I did...I also just found out that the guy lied to me from the start, there is NO air force pilot by the name he gave me ,and so now his real identity is not clear.. He continues to call me despite me telling him IT is Over,I am not answering his phone calls,he is calling me asking me for MOney! If he continues, I know what my next step will be .. If he is smart,he will just stop calling me,and get on with his life and leave me alone

😱 ...great...so not only did he turn out to be a rigid prick (no pun intended), he's a psychopath to boot.

....authorities Laurie....anymore shit from him....get a hold of the proper authorities...sounds like that's what ya meant tho' by having said "...I know what my next step will be..."

...keep us posted, eh?

 

[kis123]

Thank you to all I am happy that I made the right decision and got out when I did...I also just found out that the guy lied to me from the start, there is NO air force pilot by the name he gave me ,and so now his real identity is not clear.. He continues to call me despite me telling him IT is Over,I am not answering his phone calls,he is calling me asking me for MOney! If he continues, I know what my next step will be .. If he is smart,he will just stop calling me,and get on with his life and leave me alone

It's the oldest scam in the book TH, especially if you found him on a personals site. I've run into those clowns myself; they love to prey on BBW's, but nothing would stop them from messing with any woman they think they can get away with it.

The next thing I'm going to say to you is based on a couple of observations so please take this in the spirit it is intended because you've done a lot of things to improve your life and I'd like to see you always moving forward with your progress.

Please be careful about how much of your personal business you give away in the beginning of a relationship. I'm much more secretive of my personal information than you are; simply put, not everyone is as open and forthcoming as you. Get to know the guy a little better before you start discussing tickling with him; that way there's less chance of spooking him and you don't end up getting criticized and feeling like there's something wrong with you. These boneheads and scammers can be very manipulative and can twist your emotions around if they get enough information from you so be careful next time. I'm just glad he didn't stay around long enough to do any major damage.

You've come a long way baby!! You should be very proud of yourself!🙂

 

[Ivory Tickler]

All my best to you Laurie! I'm always surprised how easily I am to give up my love of tickling when meeting someone who doesn't understand it let alone is into it. Down the line, I realize that it's the same as someone telling you to give up spending time with family or certain friends or to give up your job. And although he did have much to offer in the financial and "freedom" aspect... it doesn't make up for you not being you... and you are an awesome person already!

And good for you for not keeping him out of your life after his continued attempts at getting you back. Many of us see it as a "no-brainer" when it comes to recognizing how obviously psycho someone is... but when you're involved in the relationship so closesly and strong emotions are involved, it's much harder to see someone for who they are -- and they wonder why they're so unhappy after so much time spent trying to make it work.

Stay strong, girl!

-- IT 🙂

 

[tickleshotel]

Thank you to ALL,

I have learned that I do need to be selective and take more time to get to know someone before letting them into my life. Just my nature to want to believe what the person is telling me is true, and I can see that I don;t rationalize,analyze maybe the person has Ulterior motives,bad intensions to take advantage of me when I have something they want they don;t have..

I can see why my trusting friendliness may stick out like a sore thumb to someone who is wanting to manipulate,deceive me or anyone else..

Good news is that he hasn't called my phone for days and I can relax a little more as this ordeal is over

 

[paracarl44]

Glad that you are Back, Laurie.

I sent you a Birthday Greeting by PM, but maybe you were in Vegas that day.Just one of the many people here at TMF that are glad that you are back.