Does anyone else see two stick figures? One stick figure is being tickled by the other? Anyways I have a goth friend that I used to go to school with, and she never acted all depressed, and punked out on rock (or whatever the hell you kids call it now adays.) She never wore fishnet stockings either. In fact when it was warm she usually wore flipflops. Anyways your guy's thoughts on goths and their attitudes is way off bassis.