KittenToes
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I happened to be reading another thread (the one about ideas for hardcore tickling videos) and originally was going to respond to a comment in that thread, but realized that my reply might take the thread off topic, since I am neither a producer or a purchaser of hardcore tickling videos and do not intend to be, so I couldn't offer suggestions for videos.
The comment from that thread, which I'm replying to, is below.
Don't worry. There's someone out there for you. My first few boyfriends absolutely refused to tie me up! Honest.
Please don't base your conclusions about women's sexuality on porn clips- they absolutely do not reflect reality. Real orgasms (as opposed to the faked pornstar ones) might not always be distinguishable from all the other tickle-noise going on! Just because she doesn't stop what she's doing and shriek "OhGodOhGodOhGod. I'm coming! OO OO OO AAA" does not mean it hasn't happened.
I can't speak for other women, but I would say from personal experience that it is NOT hard to orgasm while being tickled.
Folks are always talking about tickling while having sex and the combination of ticklng and vibrators. How about an orgasm from the tickling alone? People always seem to forget that one. That's also entirely possible. I should know- it's even happened to me in front of people. At NEST, actually, during a "tickle demo" in 2006 and again at NEST 2007.
The time in 2006 was after about a 1/2 hour of continuous tickling. I was in my undies and securely strapped down to a table, so I couldn't protect any of my ticklish spots. I'd really been fighting off an orgasm for about 15 minutes, because I always get more ticklish afterwards- not a good thing when you are already hyper-ticklish and tied down, without a safeword, in full view of about 50 or so people. But after half an hour, I was too tired to fight it off, and it just happened. Right after, my ler, Libertine, noticed that I seemed to have have gotten overheated during the tickle session, though he didn't know just HOW "hot" I'd gotten, and he mischieviously shoved ice cubes down the front of my thong. That last bit was NOT fun!
The second time it happened at NEST was in similar circumstances, except I wasn't fighting against it as hard. That time, the "ticklegasm" was triggered when Libertine gave me a few seconds to speak, and instead of asking him to stop, as he'd expected me to do, I cheekily reminded him that he'd "forgotten my neck". I suppose I deserved punishment for being cheeky. I'm just glad he didn't have ice cubes to hand at that moment.
Obviously these things happen all the time- I've just limited my description to the 2 times when I had lots of witnesses. I can't possibly be the only one who has had these kinds of experiences.
So, any feedback would be greatly appreciated. The questions to address include: Does tickling prevent you from reaching orgasm, or not? Does it, in fact, help? Can you orgasm from tickling alone? Does the setting (i.e public or private) affect your response?
Let's discuss!
The comment from that thread, which I'm replying to, is below.
It think its very difficult for a woman to orgasm while simultaneously being tickled. I'm mainly basing that off of what I've seen in vibrator + tickle clips.
If I'm wrong, someone please correct me.
And yes, the tickle-fuck thing is my favorite of these three ideas. It's a fantasy I've had for quite a while, but unfortunately no girl I've ever dated would even be approachable with this kind of idea.
...I've actually never gotten to do anything "kinky" ever with any girl I've dated.
Don't worry. There's someone out there for you. My first few boyfriends absolutely refused to tie me up! Honest.
Please don't base your conclusions about women's sexuality on porn clips- they absolutely do not reflect reality. Real orgasms (as opposed to the faked pornstar ones) might not always be distinguishable from all the other tickle-noise going on! Just because she doesn't stop what she's doing and shriek "OhGodOhGodOhGod. I'm coming! OO OO OO AAA" does not mean it hasn't happened.
I can't speak for other women, but I would say from personal experience that it is NOT hard to orgasm while being tickled.
Folks are always talking about tickling while having sex and the combination of ticklng and vibrators. How about an orgasm from the tickling alone? People always seem to forget that one. That's also entirely possible. I should know- it's even happened to me in front of people. At NEST, actually, during a "tickle demo" in 2006 and again at NEST 2007.
The time in 2006 was after about a 1/2 hour of continuous tickling. I was in my undies and securely strapped down to a table, so I couldn't protect any of my ticklish spots. I'd really been fighting off an orgasm for about 15 minutes, because I always get more ticklish afterwards- not a good thing when you are already hyper-ticklish and tied down, without a safeword, in full view of about 50 or so people. But after half an hour, I was too tired to fight it off, and it just happened. Right after, my ler, Libertine, noticed that I seemed to have have gotten overheated during the tickle session, though he didn't know just HOW "hot" I'd gotten, and he mischieviously shoved ice cubes down the front of my thong. That last bit was NOT fun!
The second time it happened at NEST was in similar circumstances, except I wasn't fighting against it as hard. That time, the "ticklegasm" was triggered when Libertine gave me a few seconds to speak, and instead of asking him to stop, as he'd expected me to do, I cheekily reminded him that he'd "forgotten my neck". I suppose I deserved punishment for being cheeky. I'm just glad he didn't have ice cubes to hand at that moment.
Obviously these things happen all the time- I've just limited my description to the 2 times when I had lots of witnesses. I can't possibly be the only one who has had these kinds of experiences.
So, any feedback would be greatly appreciated. The questions to address include: Does tickling prevent you from reaching orgasm, or not? Does it, in fact, help? Can you orgasm from tickling alone? Does the setting (i.e public or private) affect your response?
Let's discuss!
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