Tickling and...

[LD_Tickler]

So I know that many of us here have multiple kinks JESUS CHRIST A CLUMP OF FUCKING SNOW JUST HIT MY WINDOW AND SCARED THE PISS OUT OF ME

So I know that many of us here multiple kinks, and engage in other forms of BDSM or kinky play. The recent sex map thread really emphasized this. I have two questions:

1) do you have a favourite non-tickling kink that you like to mix in to tickling sessions? Not just other fetishes you like to indulge in, but rather, kinks you find especially enjoyable to do alongside tickling.

2) I know we've got some learned and experienced players out here, any of y'all play with hot wax? It's something I've always wanted to try, and I feel like it might go especially well with tickling. But it also seems pretty high maintenance - chemistry and attention to temperature. Anyone have experience with this?

 

[Eyeshine]

Just a little word on wax...

While my play with it is limited, it was fun, and even felt pretty good. The best piece of advice to give about it is after you have the pool, let it cool a bit, and then whoever is doing the pouring, dip your finger in it yourself. You will see pretty quickly if it is to hot to pour onto your partner.

 

[c7_assassin]

Hair-pulling. Just like peanut butter and chocolate. 😀

 

[LD_Tickler]

Hair-pulling. Just like peanut butter and chocolate. 😀

Good call, I agree.

 

[Libertine]

2) I know we've got some learned and experienced players out here, any of y'all play with hot wax? It's something I've always wanted to try, and I feel like it might go especially well with tickling. But it also seems pretty high maintenance - chemistry and attention to temperature. Anyone have experience with this?

Hot wax is safe- best thing to use are specially formulated 'waxplay' candles which are made of special wax that melts at a lower temperature than usual. Beeswax candles can be far too hot.

However, the temperature of any melted candlewax can be regulated by the distance from candle to body- obviously the further away it is from your playmate's skin, the more time the wax droplet has to cool before it hits.

http://waxplay.tripod.com/id8.html is a site with various tips,

Amazon has a book specifically about Waxplay http://www.amazon.com/Toybag-Guide-Hot-Temperature-Play/dp/1890159573

and you can buy candles which melt at low temperature at http://eroticsensations.us/store/shop.php/yellow-wax-play-candle/p_142.html

Parenthetically, here in England all the posher girls' private boarding schools have a strict rule of 'Lights out at ten, Candles out at eleven.

(For all you literal Americans, remember that 'out' does not always mean 'extinguish')

 

[TropicThunder]

Hair-pulling. Just like peanut butter and chocolate. 😀

This.

and sex. does that count?

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

So I know that many of us here have multiple kinks JESUS CHRIST A CLUMP OF FUCKING SNOW JUST HIT MY WINDOW AND SCARED THE PISS OUT OF ME

i don't know why...but i can't stop laughing at this.
i just wasn't expecting it hahaha
no really...i can't stop laughing!

1) do you have a favourite non-tickling kink that you like to mix in to tickling sessions? Not just other fetishes you like to indulge in, but rather, kinks you find especially enjoyable to do alongside tickling.

alongside tickling? hmm..
spanking!!! definitely spanking.
and hairpulling...and...choking...and...slapping!

2) I know we've got some learned and experienced players out here, any of y'all play with hot wax? It's something I've always wanted to try, and I feel like it might go especially well with tickling. But it also seems pretty high maintenance - chemistry and attention to temperature. Anyone have experience with this?

my ex did it to me a couple of times.
it's quite enjoyable...really hot at first but feels REALLY good after that!
are you looking to try it on someone or have it done to you?

like someone else said, light the candle..wait until it gets all waxy, then blow it out, wait a few seconds..then pour. but i mean, just don't dump it all one spot. drizzle it all over the back (or whereever you chose)

 

[Cavum]

Besides tickling I also love to live out the sadist side of me over a long periode of times. Day sessions are awesome. To have the sub as your personal toy for the whole day and totaly break her. Endurance bondage (being tied over long periodes of times), hard torture with spanking, clamps, playrape, forced blowjobs, forced orgasm again and again, domination, endurance tests ( for example having the sub stand barefoot on spiked mats for as long as she can take it), force her to do things with herself (play with herself, licking her own feet etc) and much much more!
Painsluts ftw

 

[LD_Tickler]

However, the temperature of any melted candlewax can be regulated by the distance from candle to body- obviously the further away it is from your playmate's skin, the more time the wax droplet has to cool before it hits.

It cools that fast?

Actually I guess that makes sense. Can't wait an hour for a stamped blob of wax to seal a letter, I guess.

are you looking to try it on someone or have it done to you?

Try it on someone. What, are you crazy? I don't want hot goo splashed all over me. 😎

 

[darkscar]

I dumped candle wax on me before by accident, it was a bit hot but it didn't produce a new kink for me.

Wile in a Tickling Session if the lee of mine wants to try anything, i don't mind trying things once as long as its not to to crazy.

 

[ticklechambers]

hmmmm, playing with ice in intimate places is fun 😉 cold tickling.
And bondage goes well with tickling 😀
Role playing is awesome too........
Light spanking, gestural choking (i don't like pain 😛) anything that IMPLIES danger or pain mixed with pleasure.
Tickling in public???

 

[LD_Tickler]

What's gestural choking? Hand around throat but with no actual pressure?

 

[Bohemianne]

I know we've got some learned and experienced players out here, any of y'all play with hot wax?

I have experienced it. One drop at a time on my back thighs and arms. At first, it is overwhelming but you'll appreciate the sensation in a different manner.

 

[TickVix]

I'm a simple girl.....bondage and maybe some of the other things liste previously. 🙂

 

[BMoreTklr]

Role playing is definitely fun to do in conjunction with tickling. I guess I wouldn't consider it a kink per say, but it definitely adds another level of excitement to the awesomeness that is tickling.

 

[Vae]

So I know that many of us here have multiple kinks JESUS CHRIST A CLUMP OF FUCKING SNOW JUST HIT MY WINDOW AND SCARED THE PISS OUT OF ME

So I know that many of us here multiple kinks, and engage in other forms of BDSM or kinky play. The recent sex map thread really emphasized this. I have two questions:

1) do you have a favourite non-tickling kink that you like to mix in to tickling sessions? Not just other fetishes you like to indulge in, but rather, kinks you find especially enjoyable to do alongside tickling.

2) I know we've got some learned and experienced players out here, any of y'all play with hot wax? It's something I've always wanted to try, and I feel like it might go especially well with tickling. But it also seems pretty high maintenance - chemistry and attention to temperature. Anyone have experience with this?

1. Does bondage and sensory play count? Dawes and I figured out that cloth headbands are good for wrists in a bind (bazinga!) and I prefer to not see what my 'ler is about to do. 🙂 So I almost have to be blindfolded or at least on my stomach and him behind me.

2. I'm a wimp. I think I'd spend more time whining about it being too hot, despite playing with wax as a kid (it was so cool to pull off after it dried).

 

[Tiger.Lily]

1) Nipple torture. Hair pulling. Ice. Choking. Foot worship. Other dirty things.

2) I love hot wax ... but I don't see it mixing well with tickling. I do, however, suggest ice play with tickling. Ice can be so fucking unbearably ticklish.

 

[BellybTickler]

I'm into bondage, D/S, Pain, and Belly worshiping ... but as far as wax goes .. I have not yet tried it. Perhaps something I can bring up next time 😉.