Tickling Ethics

[06Alphaman]

Ok, here's what I've learned. If you ask if a girl is ticklish, an answer means nothing. If you ask if they are ok with tickling, the answer means nothing. If you act on it, it will be out of place.

The only time it is ok is if the girl or guy encourages you to discuss/act.

Then again, I've pissed off prospects into it too just by being myself.

Hope it helps.

Thanks.

In my experience, it is usually okay. You are right, the answer often means nothing. I've had a lot of fun with that, especially when I was younger. I had a friend of a friend who was so hella ticklish...she would literally freeze in place, but scream with laughter. OMG. She didn't really like it. So I only tickled her about three times after I discovered her reaction. But she was never pissed. In fact, after a while, she would recognize the look in my eye and say "oh no, you are gonna tickle me now.." LOL. Whooo. That was sexy. I wish I could share a picture.

In my life, I have only had one woman who was offended by my tickling. And I think that's because I take a long time...become friends or a couple before I ever even try...for the most part. And tickling is not really an offensive thing in the mainstream. It is just part of life. People don't trip...until it is sexualized.

 

[06Alphaman]

Honestly, I think the questions raised just indicate the larger, uncomfortable, thrilling "dance" than men and women have been doing around one another, and within ourselves as moral individuals, for centuries.

LOL. I agree. Thinking about just "when" you go for the first kiss or the first move...is essentially the same thing. Shoot. You don't always even wait to ask permission to take a lady to the bedroom. You make your move when it seems the time is right. There is no script.

 

[duderino84]

Thanks.

In my experience, it is usually okay. You are right, the answer often means nothing. I've had a lot of fun with that, especially when I was younger. I had a friend of a friend who was so hella ticklish...she would literally freeze in place, but scream with laughter. OMG. She didn't really like it. So I only tickled her about three times after I discovered her reaction. But she was never pissed. In fact, after a while, she would recognize the look in my eye and say "oh no, you are gonna tickle me now.." LOL. Whooo. That was sexy. I wish I could share a picture.

In my life, I have only had one woman who was offended by my tickling. And I think that's because I take a long time...become friends or a couple before I ever even try...for the most part. And tickling is not really an offensive thing in the mainstream. It is just part of life. People don't trip...until it is sexualized.

Lol you lucky dog! Girls get angry that they're sensitive with me; I'm like "and who's fault is that?".

I still think about this one gospel preacher girl I met (literally, she told me she wanted to be like the next Joel Osteen). She was one of the first black girls I dated, with big natural hair she liked in a fro-hawk. I met her online and she described her body like "one giant tickle button". I was hooked from that point on till we met for our one date. I could barely touch her and she'd explode laughing. The very last tickle I gave of the night I was circling her belly button for a few minutes; She kept laughing after I stopped so I jokingly ask "what's wrong?" "My belly button is on fire!" Lol.

She ended up getting pissy at the fact that since she told me she was planning on getting a car I asked if she'd come visit me.