tickling girls on a date?

[Phineas]

there are people here who will tell you that it's "creepy" for you to tickle a girl who doesn't know about your fetish.

It's not creepy to tickle a girl who doesn't know about your fetish. What is creepy is deliberately lying, tricking people, or engineering situations to tickle people who would otherwise refuse if they knew what they were actually getting into.

Tickling your date without telling her you have a fetish? Knock yourself out. Dressing up as a travelling podiatrist and offering free Babinski tests that you're videotaping for "research" and posting the results on YouTube? Creepy.

 

[robmic]

I believe that whenever the opportunity presents itself, throwing a quick tickle in there here and there is okay. Just don't overdo it. It's a good way to tell how they feel about it. One of my favorite things to do when it gets to the point that things are getting to the time when intimacy might pop up(like my pun here?), is to trap them while laying next to them. To do this, I put one of their arms under my head, and one of my legs under both of theirs with my other one over the top and cross my ankles. Then hold their free wrist with my arm closest to whatever we're lying on. I then pull their arm up until it's stretched tightly over their head. They are usually a little confused at this point. But I quickly satisfy their curiosity by lightly running my fingers from my free hand up their side into the armpits. Once they realize that they are totally helpless, the fun begins. How you handle it from here is crucial. Don't take it too far. But, if you are lighthearted and joke around with her and tease her while you throw in a little tickling in here and there, you could be starting a cool relationship! But, if you don't get a good response, don't continue! I assure you, it won't end well!

 

[scorpionldr]

It's not creepy to tickle a girl who doesn't know about your fetish. What is creepy is deliberately lying, tricking people, or engineering situations to tickle people who would otherwise refuse if they knew what they were actually getting into.

Tickling your date without telling her you have a fetish? Knock yourself out. Dressing up as a travelling podiatrist and offering free Babinski tests that you're videotaping for "research" and posting the results on YouTube? Creepy.

Yea but A: that brings the "why did he do this?" deal, and B:...........I really enjoy it.

 

[scorpionldr]

Dude, if the guy who dates me DOESN'T get turned on during the first date, I'm wondering what the hell is wrong with either him or me!

American culture is all about watching out for the bogey man, witch hunts, and trying to out everyone that takes an interest in you as a sexist asshole. Thats the gift feminism has given us 😀.

In short, boner=no more boners from that particular person.

 

[TickVix]

Does she already know or have an idea about your interest in tickling since you met online? If not i wouldn't suggest poking her sides on date two. It really depends on if there is a chemistry between you both from the first date. If so, I thin you will be able to gauge for when the right opportunity presents itself. Some people don't like being touched in certain ways too soon, so keep that in mind. Hope it goes well.

 

[scorpionldr]

I think after a while to hell with it. I remember I took a girl out without ever saying a word about me liking tickling. I waited a long time, and then when she didn't expect it, tickled her. A little tussle around the sides. A finger in there and a wiggle. She laughed. Hard. "do you want to see about going out again sometime?" "sure, provided you never tickle me again".

You know where it went.

 

[Jerseyguy]

Heres the deal. I think you can do it on the first date, but it has to feel "right" and cant be over done. Tickling can be very flirtacious so she will likely not think anything of it if you try..................just dont hogtie, gag her and tickle her feet senseless, that might just scare her away!!! 😉

 

[rhiannon]

American culture is all about watching out for the bogey man, witch hunts, and trying to out everyone that takes an interest in you as a sexist asshole. Thats the gift feminism has given us .

In short, boner=no more boners from that particular person.

Seriously? I mean, if a guy asks me out on a date, I assume he pretty much has a boner right there already! What's wrong with you people? 🙂

 

[toyou444]

so i have a casual date next week with a girl i met online. we are probably meeting for dinner for the first date. i was wondering how long ppl waited to see if their gf was ticklish? i was planning to wait till maybe date #2 and poking her sides? or should tickling wait for a matter of months? ive never tickled previous gfs by the way.

Usually I knew if they were ticklish even before we dated. Either way they got a tickle on the first date. Every time.

Its just part of who I am! LOL!

~ toyou

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

A woman I once dated ( Marie ) and worked with at the same time i had asked if I could tickle her feet while on a date she didnt say yes right away but after a few more dates she said ok. She put her barefeet in my lap i started gliding my finger up and down the bottom of her feet and didnt get a reaction at all so while she had her feet in my lap i massaged them instead

 

[ninefive]

Does she already know or have an idea about your interest in tickling since you met online? If not i wouldn't suggest poking her sides on date two. It really depends on if there is a chemistry between you both from the first date. If so, I thin you will be able to gauge for when the right opportunity presents itself. Some people don't like being touched in certain ways too soon, so keep that in mind. Hope it goes well.

No. I havent met her. Only texted her, friends with her on facebook and talked on okcupid. Obviously I dont intend to do it on the first date. Maybe the third date?

 

[cutenticklishnc]

I always hope I get tickled on the first date hehe

 

[RdmNm]

I always hope I get tickled on the first date hehe

OK, that's my new dating policy.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

No. I havent met her. Only texted her, friends with her on facebook and talked on okcupid. Obviously I dont intend to do it on the first date. Maybe the third date?

I think you may be overthinking it. No offense but its almost like hoping to get some on a first date in high school. You are going to spend most time with this girl hoping a opportunity present itself that you aren't even enjoying the time with her. Be careful not to let the fetish rule your life to the point where nothing else exists when it comes to women you want to be around. On that note, if she is willing to let you rub her leg--more then likely she won't object to being tickled unless she hates it. I just think in the back of your mind you will spend most of the time thinking about tickling her rather then just getting to know her or maybe her getting to know you first and getting comfortable.

 

[WheresThe Clip?]

Just settle for having sex with her on the first date. Then when you get to know her a bit better and feel a lot more comfortable as a couple, you can try a gentle prod..........

RHHHHIIIIIIIIAAAAAAAANNNNNNNON

 

[Phineas]

American culture is all about watching out for the bogey man, witch hunts, and trying to out everyone that takes an interest in you as a sexist asshole. Thats the gift feminism has given us 😀.

In short, boner=no more boners from that particular person.

ProTip: Stop reading Jezebel and Shakesville. It'll do wonders for your mental health.

 

[scorpionldr]

ProTip: Stop reading Jezebel and Shakesville. It'll do wonders for your mental health.

I actually just watch fuckloads of youtube videos, some about the hypocrisy of feminism, some about difficulties of guys, and some about the history of the Winstons' Amen Break. http://youtu.be/5SaFTm2bcac 😀

Quite honestly tho, idk........lately I just have never found a time where I determined I was more single.

 

[curious]

Third date atleast, but act natural about it.

 

[Jagermeistered]

Seriously? I mean, if a guy asks me out on a date, I assume he pretty much has a boner right there already! What's wrong with you people? 🙂

Stop hanging out at the lingerie store. 😛

 

[Cave In]

I've always done it within the first couple of dates, Nothing crazy just a little tickle to find out if they were ticklish. Getting the girl to make some sort of smartass comment is usually the best excuse to tickle. As long as you don't make a big deal about it, or do it for too long, then the girl thinks of it as nothing more than flirting

 

[rhiannon]

Just settle for having sex with her on the first date. Then when you get to know her a bit better and feel a lot more comfortable as a couple, you can try a gentle prod..........

RHHHHIIIIIIIIAAAAAAAANNNNNNNON

Interesting how wrong you interpret what I am saying.

Stop hanging out at the lingerie store

I don't have to be in lingerie to cause boners. 😉

 

[Jagermeistered]

I don't have to be in lingerie to cause boners. 😉

You sure do not... 🙂

And, do not put on any clothes on either! 😀

 

[CuteJill143]

I've been tickled a lot by guys during early dates. If the time is right and shes comfortable with you touching her just go for it but don't overdo it. Good luck!

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Dude, if the guy who dates me DOESN'T get turned on during the first date, I'm wondering what the hell is wrong with either him or me!

Seriously? I mean, if a guy asks me out on a date, I assume he pretty much has a boner right there already! What's wrong with you people? 🙂

I just had to say I agree 100% with both of these statements.
I normally get tickled every date, but then again I am kind of cheating because I only date people off of here or FetLife.

 

[scorpionldr]

I just had to say I agree 100% with both of these statements.
I normally get tickled every date, but then again I am kind of cheating because I only date people off of here or FetLife.

................how do you do it? I mean....fetlife? Here? I've never pulled off either. Nor do I really know anyone from here other than a screen name.