tickling videos and women that watch them. TIB question for you too in here...

[Wilson]

Re: let's be honest

please some one explain to me what the logic is in calling f/m tickling homosexual? it's not been said in this thread, but has been said in others, and on the amt site extensivly. this attitude astounds me. with tickling being a sexual activity, and a man and woman engaging in it together, how can this be viewed as any thing near homosexuality?

steve

The hypocracy theory won't float and I'll tell you why. m/m and f/f can not be held in the same contexts when we're talking about heterosexual viewers. (Also, I prefer to use the term 'heterosexual' rather than 'straight'. 'Straight' implies crookedness or wrongfulness in homosexuals). First, for hetero male viewers, the idea of femininity is highly arousing. When you double this femininity, the intensity may grow for many. I know that is the case for myself. I find femininity attractive.
On the flipside (and ladies, correct me if I'm wrong), hetero women enjoy masculinity in regards to power in tickling, however....the masculine/feminine relationship needs to be interacted in that aspect for it to be arousing or interesting. For those women (and most men), m/m tickling is like a train wreck. No feminine appeal or relationship involved. How could a hetero woman envision herself in the place of a male ticklee? f/f for some of the ladies still offers up some form of dominance over a female and helplessness to resist tickling. Some women enjoy this and some don't (as evidenced by many replies here). Again, this is all just theory and I make no claim to be correct. Feel free to punch holes in this thing but that's my understanding of it.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

mr's wilson, and iggy pop

sirs thank you for trying to explain this duality (or as i prefer to call it hypocracy). your replies were well done, and respectfull of my views, and for that i say thank you.
unfortunately i'm not convinced, it sounded more like you were trying to justify your like of f/f. you don't have to. it's your choice to enjoy what ever you want.
anyone else care to try and explain, or give their thoughts?
steve

 

[JPie1]

I think that's a GREAT idea! You could call it "Shy & Pie Tickle a Guy!"

Oh Drew darling, who would be our volunteer??


JPie

 

[JPie1]

wow, I can't believe this thread started sexuality issues. I don't think one has to be of any preferences to enjoy a good tickling video. If you have a good tickler in it and a very ticklish ticklee, the tickling is right. Myself, I do prefer the interaction of the m/f videos as I find them if done right "stimulating". But I also can enjoy the f/f if the chemistry is right. Somehow I think many more heterosexual women fantasize about f/f interaction then a heterosexual man fantasizing about m/m. I myself think I could enjoy some f/f tickle play and I am hetersexual, married woman. But I am also both a tickler and a ticklee and can enjoy both sides of that play as well.

But my biggest feeling in life is to enjoy people for who they are regardless of their preferences. I have many many homosexual, bi, and heterosexual friends...all I see is friends.

JPie

 

[Deleted member 2452]

j pie i think you missunderstand...

this wasn't about sexual preferences, or the rightness or wrongness of any sexuality. my question was about the obvious double standard that is previlent towards tickling videos. i.e.; f/f is good, m/m very bad, f/m bad, m/f ok.
my point is that f/f is the same as m/m, if one is bad then both are, if one is good, then both should be. also the idea that f/m is somehow homosexual, or "not normal" is another idea that i think is thick headed, and down right the reverse of it's true nature.
so anyone else care to chime in?
steve

 

[Wilson]

no one was trying to convince you of anything. But there is no double standard.
You can ask all the women who've bought m/m videos to find that out. When did anyone say m/m was "bad"? If people here prefer to see other things instead, so be it! No biggie. If it's a turn off for most people here, that's just the way it is. if f/f is fine by most people here, then oh well!

 

[Deleted member 2452]

no one was trying to convince you of anything. But there is no double standard.
You can ask all the women who've bought m/m videos to find that out. When did anyone say m/m was "bad"? If people here prefer to see other things instead, so be it! No biggie. If it's a turn off for most people here, that's just the way it is. if f/f is fine by most people here, then oh well!

oh please! of course there is a double standard when it comes to same sex tickling. f/f is excepted by a large % of the comunity, and m/m is disliked by an even larger% of the tickling comunity. maybe cause i don't like either i see it, or cause you like f/f you don't see it. either way, it's ok to like any form of tickling material, i am just asking for peoples ideas of why this is the way it is.
steve

 

[dodger]

Areenactor dude! You say the same shit over and over. We get it already! You don't like F/F or M/M. You can have your opinion but please stop rehashing. And you asked whey F/M is considered kind of gay to some? Heres why. Some people only are ticklers so when they watch a video they are only watching the person being tickled to see the reaction. Tickling is sexual to most people so if they see a guy half nude and tickled it disgusts them becuase they are straight and the thought of tickling a guy disgusts them, even though a woman is doing it on the screen, they don't want to see a guy tickled. So some guys including myself think you might have to be a bit gay to want to watch a naked man being tickled, no matter if its a guy, girl or monkey doing the tickling. Get it? Got it? Good!

 

[Deleted member 2452]

Areenactor dude! You say the same shit over and over. We get it already! You don't like F/F or M/M. You can have your opinion but please stop rehashing. And you asked whey F/M is considered kind of gay to some? Heres why. Some people only are ticklers so when they watch a video they are only watching the person being tickled to see the reaction. Tickling is sexual to most people so if they see a guy half nude and tickled it disgusts them becuase they are straight and the thought of tickling a guy disgusts them, even though a woman is doing it on the screen, they don't want to see a guy tickled. So some guys including myself think you might have to be a bit gay to want to watch a naked man being tickled, no matter if its a guy, girl or monkey doing the tickling. Get it? Got it? Good!

ok dodger ,so tyou admit you are one of "those" type of folks that views f/m as "gay". your reasoning is because tickling is so sexual, and seeing a guy tickled makes it gay.ok, fine. now then, but you don't think that two naked women tickling eachother is also gay?!?!
dude that is warped.
steve

 

[Iggy pop]

oh please! of course there is a double standard when it comes to same sex tickling. f/f is excepted by a large % of the comunity, and m/m is disliked by an even larger% of the tickling comunity. maybe cause i don't like either i see it, or cause you like f/f you don't see it. either way, it's ok to like any form of tickling material, i am just asking for peoples ideas of why this is the way it is.
steve

I think you view this f/f diffrently than most men. From your responses, what I gather what you see a screen is a homosexual act. Most men do not view it that way. It seems to me that you do have a prejuduice against homosexuality and your mind can't get past that. So to you f/f and m/m are the same because to you they are both homosexual acts. I think what most men see is a gorgeous tickler and gorgeous ticklee, and in our minds we can fantasize about both. That's what videos are an outlet of fantasy.

Now let me ask you two questions. You have admitted that large % of completely of hetrosexual men enjoy f/f. Why do think this is? The second question I have is that there are some gay men that like f/m material. Why do you think that is?

 

[Iggy pop]

Some people only are ticklers so when they watch a video they are only watching the person being tickled to see the reaction. Tickling is sexual to most people so if they see a guy half nude and tickled it disgusts them becuase they are straight and the thought of tickling a guy disgusts them, even though a woman is doing it on the screen, they don't want to see a guy tickled. So some guys including myself think you might have to be a bit gay to want to watch a naked man being tickled, no matter if its a guy, girl or monkey doing the tickling. Get it? Got it? Good!

If you are only a tickler this makes perfect sense. However, if you are ticklee then you can be totally straight and watch f/m. Yes, there are male ticklees on this forum.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

I think you view this f/f diffrently than most men. From your responses, what I gather what you see a screen is a homosexual act. Most men do not view it that way. It seems to me that you do have a prejuduice against homosexuality and your mind can't get past that. So to you f/f and m/m are the same because to you they are both homosexual acts. I think what most men see is a gorgeous tickler and gorgeous ticklee, and in our minds we can fantasize about both. That's what videos are an outlet of fantasy.

Now let me ask you two questions. You have admitted that large % of completely of hetrosexual men enjoy f/f. Why do think this is? The second question I have is that there are some gay men that like f/m material. Why do you think that is?

you are right, i do view f/f differently than most other men. so i always shake my head and ask my self "what's wrong with the other men!?" this isn't just in tickling, it's in other porno as well. most men find f/f a turn on, while i go between bordom, and neausea. i'll never understand how you guys can enjoy watching two women "play" with eachother?
yes i am against homosexuality, but then, i earned my right the hard way.

to answer your questions; #1) because men are pigs. many men will also get excited by watching farm animals mating. but to put a different light on it. my wife's psychologist told me (i asked him about this subject) that a study had been done, and men who find f/f arousing, would also be more likely to engage in m/m sex them selves.
#2) they enjoy seeing a man getting tickled? i don't know, why not ask a homosexual guy? ok, you said in another response that guys that are ticklees like to see f/m and are not homo.. that's right! we put ourselves into the role of the guy in the video, with a good looking woman ticking us! that's about a hetero. as you can get! so where do you as a hetero guy put your self in viewing f/f action???
steve

 

[TickleSlaveinTn]

Re: I'm one of those ten!

Hey Jpie , why don't we make our own female-female-male video, I think I could find at least one male volunteer!!mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm????????????????????

Count me in! I'm EXTREMELY ticklish all over and would looooove to volunteer to get tickled by a female tickler who truly loves tickling. 🙂

 

[kenny]

f/m tickling

hey jpie i would love to be tickled by you and another women i am a super ticklish male, who loves wathing f/f and f/m tickling videos for some good f/m go to mib by fm concepts i have seen a few clips where women like mackensie montgomry and 2 other women are tickling a tied up male and they seem pretty unmerciful. e-mail me at [email protected] so we can talk some more about tickling