TMF dating vs. Convential dating

[sasaxrah]

If you put all of your energy finding someone only on the TMF, I'm afraid that statistically you will be disappointed. Not only do you have to find someone who you find attractive, intelligent, and funny, but in most cases, they have to be in your geographic area. (I know a few couples who make it work long-distance, but I don't think it'd work for me.) I don't like those numbers, especially if you are a guy.

There are the happy couples (I'm 1/2 of one of them) that find each other despite the odds. But statistically speaking, you may want to broaden your horizons.

 

[Rook's Media]

If you put all of your energy finding someone only on the TMF, I'm afraid that statistically you will be disappointed. Not only do you have to find someone who you find attractive, intelligent, and funny, but in most cases, they have to be in your geographic area. (I know a few couples who make it work long-distance, but I don't think it'd work for me.) I don't like those numbers, especially if you are a guy.

There are the happy couples (I'm 1/2 of one of them) that find each other despite the odds. But statistically speaking, you may want to broaden your horizons.

Agreed 100%...

Always nice to stay positive, but the realistic outcome is rare...

The brodening of horizons is a must...at least for me....



Ryan @ Rook's Media

 

[P[a]pi]

I'd say try to get a regular vanillia chick and try to convert them.

Or respond to that rare personals thread made by a female lee looking for a male ler.

Making your own personals thread doesn't hurt, but it's chances are lower.

I guess I'd do all of the above.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

Since I have done both... Dated and shared that I was into tickling, and later dated and married someone from TMF.... It is just so much cooler being with someone who knows about and loves tickling just like I do. Not that my other boyfriends had a problem with me being into tickling. Most of them were fine until they found out how MUCH and how LONG I wanted to be tickled. "What do you mean, you want more!?" LOL

The coolest thing about my relationship now is we have SOOO much in common. We can talk about anything and everything! We have so much fun together aside from tickling. I just love it. I love that we can make each other laugh til tears are coming down our cheeks, and we aren't even tickling each other. I love that we find romance in the smallest little things like slow dancing in the rain even when there is no music.

He is just so wonderful. That he loves tickling? OH... Icing on the CAKE!

Sunny

 

[Artoo]

There are the happy couples (I'm 1/2 of one of them) that find each other despite the odds.

You are one half of a git. 😛

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I think the best thing to do is to let a relationship develop naturally without actively seeking one or the other.

Personally, I'd prefer to meet someone already into. I successfully converted someone already, but I don't feel like doing it again LOL

 

[Radiohead 7140]

I think the best thing to do is to let a relationship develop naturally without actively seeking one or the other.

Personally, I'd prefer to meet someone already into. I successfully converted someone already, but I don't feel like doing it again LOL

so lazy skip. i'm gonna renounce it and make you reconvert me.

 

[Radiohead 7140]

It would be cool to date someone who is legitimately into it, as I've never experienced that before. PM me for my number. Kidding (kinda).

But in the long run it wouldn't make much of a difference for me - Although it would be awesome, I don't need for my girlfriend to be "into" it per se, as long as she is open-minded about it, has no problem with me being into it, etc.

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

so lazy skip. i'm gonna renounce it and make you reconvert me.

LOL Deal!

 

[sasaxrah]

You are one half of a git. 😛

I wish I knew what the heck that is... 🙂

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Honestly having someone who is into it is great, but I'm not going out of my way to find that.

I'd rather find happiness in general with someone that has similar values and I'm happy with, first and foremost over anything else.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Alternately, you can broaden your horizons by looking within
the kink community as a whole, don't limit it to only people who
are into tickling. There are plenty of kinksters out there who are
happy to indulge in other fetishes, even if it isn't their passion.

 

[vladtickleman22]

Dude, you fuckin serious? No really are you? Internet dating is for queers. Get a real chick!

 

[texastickler]

My feeling is thus: If you meet someone on this site and want to have a date, I think that is cool. Treat it like a real date Though. Tickling is an important ingredient but it is not the whole recipe. Meet somwhere first an learn about one anothers likes and dislikes. Do not just talk about your fetish. If you have nothi more in common than tickling it would most likely be a disaster in dating. You could just have a tickling date but nothing more.

 

[texastickler]

I think the best thing to do is to let a relationship develop naturally without actively seeking one or the other.

Personally, I'd prefer to meet someone already into. I successfully converted someone already, but I don't feel like doing it again LOL

Excellent Point!