To the point of crying?

[method11236]

My lee and I are interested in ticking her so intensely that she actually tears and cries. I always kind of teased her, "Im going to make you cry this time." And to my surprise, she was game for it.

Thus my question: Has anyone been tickled to the point of crying? How did it happen? What did it feel like?


Cheers!

Meth

 

[drew70]

I couldn't do that to a woman, myself. Not intentionally at any rate. I did see some crying in a vintage RealTickling clip. Priscilla James was the tickler, and the victim was a blonde girl as I recall. At the end, Priscilla hugged her and consoled her.

 

[Mimi]

Well, there's good crying and bad crying. I've been tickled to the point of crying on 3 occassions that were GOOD. I was thoroughly enjoying the session and the tears came as a result of laughing very hard and losing control a bit (same thing happens when I laugh too hard at something and I'm NOT being tickled...I think we've all been there and done that at some point). 🙂

But then there is crying due to being frightened or traumatized...when the tickling goes too far and the lee is NOT having fun in any way. Those types of tears are never cool.

If your lee is all for it though, and there's a good measure of trust between the two of you, then give it a shot...it just may be a lot of fun for you both!

 

[InsnlyTklshF]

I couldn't have said it better myself Mimi !!!

 

[Helena]

😛 I don't think that "crying during a tickling session" can be planned. I've never just been able to produce tears on cue, and if I knew that I had a ler that wanted me to cry, it probably wouldn't happen. 😛
I have spontaneously burst into tears during a very intense tickling experience. It really surprised me.
When the incident happened, I was physically and mentally drained from being tickled.
My ler untied me and I cried in his arms for a few minutes. I think it was because I had a very intense orgasm.

 

[aurora5150]

mimi hit it right on the head. laughing till you cry is a good cry. it shows just how much someone is enjoying something. now if they're screaming and saying no then you're in a bad spot.

 

[wendynpeter]

Crying is almost always associated with a scene gone wrong. Not necessarily. Some bottoms, submissives, etc. will cry during a really intense scene as a release. It's cathartic. There's nothing wrong with that at all, in fact, it's very healthy. Some tops, dominants, etc. can't take crying, and that's OK too. It isn't a weakness of character, it's just what it is.

It helps the top if the bottom says up front that crying is a possibility, but the bottom doesn't always know. There's a first for everything.

I take it as a real sign of trust and intimacy.

 

[kis123]

The first time I was tickled by real lers, I was told a tear came from my eye and was asked permission to continue. I, at that moment, was in an altered state and let them continue. I ended up with the leg cramp from hell, but with that pain came a floodgate of sensations and emotional release. One of my lers went pale as a ghost when the leg cramp hit, but I assured him I was okay. It was just an awesome thing-I think lees remember their first time.

But prior to this, I was strictly ler; all of this was very new to me. I was 1200 miles away from home in a hotel room with two men I only knew for two days-basically, I thought I had lost my mind!

During the tickling session, my mind kept telling me that I must be crazy to allow this to happen, but I loved every minute of it-it was absolutely awesome!! It's allowed me to explore my lee side with my SO-I don't think I could have done it otherwise.

Then again, I've cried after an intense sexual experience too. I guess I break down with emotional extremes. What can I say....

 

[steph]

No. God no, what is wrong with people?
XOXO

 

[classy]

Well I have to say I was tickled once so intense that I cried not from fun but fear. I agree there is a difference in tears, happy and hell no. You two will have to determine the difference. Good luck.

 

[kengibson2001]

I mentioned in my first post, I have been tickled to the point of crying. I guess it's because you have exauhsted all other reactions. And after an hour or two you are desperate and will do anything to get it to stop.

 

[BellaRisa]

No. God no, what is wrong with people?
XOXO

Keep in mind, that's what many vanillas say when they hear that we like being tickled at all . There's nothing wrong with us, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to be tickled to tears.

My 'ler has indeed tickled me to the point of tears, not often but on occasion, and it's always an amazing experience for me. He's over a foot taller and 100 + lbs stronger than I am, *very* strong, and from time to time I like to challenge him to a sort of tickle/wrestling match where he's trying to pin me and tickle me and I'm trying to, well, prevent that, as hard as I can 😎 . It's no holds barred, nearly anything's allowed. It's incredibly freeing to be able to fight as hard as I like and still know there's no way in hell I can win...a secure feeling that I can't quite describe but I imagine other 'lees and submissives here can understand. I get caught up in the moment, and the tears are borne out of a cathartic, endorphin-esque mix of frustration and release-I feel absolutely incredible after, more relaxed than I've felt for days; what DVNC calls my "blissin' out."
It's a good thing, believe me, and I love my 'ler for taking me there

Bella

 

[Knox The Hatter]

The Miz had some very bad experiences being ganged up on by cousins when she was a child. Because of this, it's been difficult for me to break through.

Shortly after New Years, she wanted to give leeing a try. I made very, very easy ground rules. I asked her to just give me five minutes...five very relaxed minutes, soft, simple minutes. We never got to the end of the five minutes. She was crying, scared to death. I had despaired of ever being able to do this with her.

By some miracle, though... we managed to work this out. We both found a way for the both of us to enjoy it, by the both of us working towards that end. My wife and I now have sessions, no artificial time limits of any kind. Just us, no toys, no control issues. We switch.

I'm very happy the way things have worked out! But, those tears, man...they tore me apart...

 

[Fantastklr]

I would only tickle someone to the point of crying if I was sure that they were tears of joy.

 

[Luv2Tickle69]

Tears of MIRTH mixed with some exertion, YES......tears from strain, frustration, panic, fear, or annoyance?? NEVER!!!!

The whole point of me tickling any woman is to make her laugh and enjoy what it is I'm doing and where I'm doing it. This has been my track record from girl ONE, and I like it like that. Even some of those I've tickled that weren't so sure they'd be able to take it or come away liking it were very appreciative of my approach and my respect for their boundaries and limits....it's because of this that some of my female friends who told me, "Oh God....I don't know if I could take having my feet tickled...it's like...torture!!!" ended up being the same ones who would GIVE me their feet with a playful smile/giggle, or outright ask me to tickle and massage them.

I guess it depends on what's consensually agreed to....but I myself could never tickle a woman to tears of a negative variety......(see first sentence).

 

[steph]

LOL~fair enough bella!
Allow me to elaborate~I cry enough in the course of my everyday life, just doing my patient rounds (both sad tears and happy tears!) But I come to THIS as means of escaping all that. I don't want those lines blurred at all. Does that makes sense?

XOXO

Keep in mind, that's what many vanillas say when they hear that we like being tickled at all . There's nothing wrong with us, and there's nothing wrong with wanting to be tickled to tears.

My 'ler has indeed tickled me to the point of tears, not often but on occasion, and it's always an amazing experience for me. He's over a foot taller and 100 + lbs stronger than I am, *very* strong, and from time to time I like to challenge him to a sort of tickle/wrestling match where he's trying to pin me and tickle me and I'm trying to, well, prevent that, as hard as I can 😎 . It's no holds barred, nearly anything's allowed. It's incredibly freeing to be able to fight as hard as I like and still know there's no way in hell I can win...a secure feeling that I can't quite describe but I imagine other 'lees and submissives here can understand. I get caught up in the moment, and the tears are borne out of a cathartic, endorphin-esque mix of frustration and release-I feel absolutely incredible after, more relaxed than I've felt for days; what DVNC calls my "blissin' out."
It's a good thing, believe me, and I love my 'ler for taking me there

Bella

 

[elfriend]

yes it happens often and its not bad it's just usually I need a breather by that point so I don't pass out.

 

[Vae]

Mimi honest to god said it best.

I've had some sessions, especially my early ones, when I cried. I never cried because of too much tickling. I cried because one time I was just laughing so hard (I had the giggles that day to boot) that tears just streamed down my face. My ler however could tell by the look on my face that I wasn't in agony. I was just having a good time.

The other times I've cried is from stress release. I sometimes ask for tickling sessions because I'm so wound up from stress that tickling is like a stress deflation button. It doesn't take too much, but once I get a few good laughs in there, the stress is gone. Then I start bawling like a baby. Again, not due to tickling torment, but because enough endorphins were created that I could finally cry.

But that's just me. I'm not into torture. I'm into playful tickling. I have never honestly felt out of control in any of my tickling sessions. If I did, I wouldn't do it. However, if the other person really wants to experience that, then they do. I would just be VERY careful in that situation. It has the great possibility to go bad and if someone requested that of me, I would talk for a while about it. I would also go in steps, seeing when is too much. His or her breaking point may be much sooner than they themselves thought before.

 

[BellaRisa]

LOL~fair enough bella!
Allow me to elaborate~I cry enough in the course of my everyday life, just doing my patient rounds (both sad tears and happy tears!) But I come to THIS as means of escaping all that. I don't want those lines blurred at all. Does that makes sense?

That makes more sense to me than you'd think I teach preschool and do infant care, and I really, really need to not be in charge at the end of a loud, screaming and diaper-filled day. The kind of session I described earlier works for me after an extra difficult day or week, because it's such a giant reminder that somebody bigger and stronger is totally in control at that moment; he's deciding what happens, not me. So I can let go completely. I need that from time to time 😉 It's very similar to beating the hell out of the body bag at the gym, but waaay sexier and there's a rubdown and dinner afterwards

Bella

 

[steph]

Oh Yeah!

(sends her a high-five...)
XOXO

That makes more sense to me than you'd think I teach preschool and do infant care, and I really, really need to not be in charge at the end of a loud, screaming and diaper-filled day. The kind of session I described earlier works for me after an extra difficult day or week, because it's such a giant reminder that somebody bigger and stronger is totally in control at that moment; he's deciding what happens, not me. So I can let go completely. I need that from time to time 😉 It's very similar to beating the hell out of the body bag at the gym, but waaay sexier and there's a rubdown and dinner afterwards

Bella

 

[Emishticklish]

Yes I have, it's a scary experience....but at the same time, I really enjoy myself- and my Girlfriend pays attention to my vital signs. She knows when she needs to let me break for a few. Problem is I'm so damn ticklish, I've been driven to tears after only a few minutes without pause.

 

[stockytickler]

My Arizona bear likes it when his lees are laughing so hard they tear up. I'm pretty sure it's not about pain -- nothing in our conversations has even hinted at that. I think it's probably a way to make sure he's /really/ getting to them and the guy is actually being tickled and not just laughing. People have laughed til they cried so it's not unheard of. All I need for them to do is laugh, myself (and if they get aroused that's also gratifying), but to each their own. 🙂

 

[Andy_D]

Whenever I laugh for a long long period I always let some tears go, it's hardly got anything to do with happy/sad just a weird thing I have. Funny jokes or tickling, it doesn't matter!

Embarassing...

 

[Vae]

Well, there's good crying and bad crying. I've been tickled to the point of crying on 3 occassions that were GOOD. I was thoroughly enjoying the session and the tears came as a result of laughing very hard and losing control a bit (same thing happens when I laugh too hard at something and I'm NOT being tickled...I think we've all been there and done that at some point). 🙂

But then there is crying due to being frightened or traumatized...when the tickling goes too far and the lee is NOT having fun in any way. Those types of tears are never cool.

If your lee is all for it though, and there's a good measure of trust between the two of you, then give it a shot...it just may be a lot of fun for you both!

Mimi said it all. I just want to add something to it.

I've never been tickled to the point of discomfort. My 'ler is very much aware of my body, my reactions and knows when to stop (even before I do!). But he didn't in the beginning. So what do you do? You must be able to communicate with your lee. If you're not paying attention to them and causing discomfort, you're doing a very bad job. Pay attention. Watch their face.

Tears or not, you'll be able to tell when it's good or bad. Watch their face. Talk to them (during if you can, but definitely afterwards). Know your limits before diving in.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I've been tickled to the point of tears many times by my husband/Dom. I love getting intensely tickled, so it doesn't bother me.