I put either way. Sometimes I like to see the feet try and get away... Others I like to keep the feet and toes from moving at all. So it all depends... =) I'll be glad to take them however I can get them. lol
i'll have to say either way, because....it sounds agonizingly horrible, but once you've got me bound how you like me, does it really matter whether or not i want my toes tied back? :scared i didn't think so!
Either way. I generally like to see a pair of feet frantically attempt to avoid my fingers (or whatever else I may be using), but every now and then, toe ties are an appropriately evil touch that amps up the torment and desperation factor.