underage tickling

[poopies1]

To do it to your kid, even though they don't know whats going on, is even worse than doing it to a stranger. That may seem ironic, but its not.

If you have to make excuses for why you'd tickle your own kids, then its the same if you tickled anyone else- better to avoid it. You don't want to create something like that between your kids and you don't want to risk getting in trouble with a stranger.
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i did not in any way imply that tickling one's own kids in a sexual manner is ok. i was countering journia's post saying, to paraphrase: 'tickling kids is ok as long as its not sexual.' in that case it would fine for someone to tickle their own children. however tickling a stranger's kids should be a big no no and i'm having trouble understanding why anyone would want to, and even more trouble understanding how anyone could rationalize it. what's wrong with you people?

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

i did not in any way imply that tickling one's own kids in a sexual manner is ok. i was countering journia's post saying, to paraphrase: 'tickling kids is ok as long as its not sexual.' in that case it would fine for someone to tickle their own children. however tickling a stranger's kids should be a big no no and i'm having trouble understanding why anyone would want to, and even more trouble understanding how anyone could rationalize it. what's wrong with you people?

I don't think you understood what I meant. I wasn't refering to sexual touching. That's obviously wrong, immoral, and sick.

What I meant was that even if by regular, "innocent" touching of your kids, you still get turned on or you do it because you know it will turn you on is whats wrong. As I said, even if they don't realize their involvement in your feelings and to what extent you feel them, I don't think its proper to create something subtly perverse like that between your own children or anyone else's. If you can't tickle them without the fetish being a part of it, I also think thats wrong, because you're using your kids as a release, and though no harm is being done to them, morally speaking, you're commiting an unseen act against them. While you are the only one who would be witness to this, I think its far better to just avoid these occasions so you don't make a habit of them.

Thats all I was saying. Tickling your own children out of love or whatever is fine, so long as you know why you're doing it, and its completely void of your fetish.

It may not seem possible, but I believe fetishists, when tickling others, can choose whether their fetish has any motivation in it, or they are doing it purely as a spur of the moment thing. The planned scenerios, etc., are good for the bedroom with your lover, partner, or spouse, and the spur of the moment things are ok out side of that with the given considerations, I think.

As far as tickling underagers in public or private settings that are not your own, its best to just not do any more touching than you have to (ie- shaking hands, giving a short hug, a pat on the head, etc).

This is especially true if you're teacher. Teachers really need to make sure the physical touching is kept at a minimum and isn't anything the child could get you in trouble for.

 

[Journia]

Poopies, I just looked over the post that you were commenting on, as this is my first time getting on here in quite a while, and I found a typographical error in what I wrote. I meant to write a different KIND of tickling, not KID..

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

Don't you just hate it when a typo takes everything out of context?

 

[Journia]

Certainly.

 

[poopies1]

I don't think you understood what I meant. I wasn't refering to sexual touching. That's obviously wrong, immoral, and sick.

What I meant was that even if by regular, "innocent" touching of your kids, you still get turned on or you do it because you know it will turn you on is whats wrong....

Thats all I was saying. Tickling your own children out of love or whatever is fine, so long as you know why you're doing it, and its completely void of your fetish.

ok, that's a lot more clear, and in case it didn't come of as such in my previous posts, i feel the exact same way. however i still think its wrong to touch a stranger's child, regardless of the circumstances

 

[Betchass1]

What I meant was that even if by regular, "innocent" touching of your kids, you still get turned on or you do it because you know it will turn you on is whats wrong. As I said, even if they don't realize their involvement in your feelings and to what extent you feel them, I don't think its proper to create something subtly perverse like that between your own children or anyone else's. If you can't tickle them without the fetish being a part of it, I also think thats wrong, because you're using your kids as a release, and though no harm is being done to them, morally speaking, you're commiting an unseen act against them. While you are the only one who would be witness to this, I think its far better to just avoid these occasions so you don't make a habit of them.

Thats all I was saying. Tickling your own children out of love or whatever is fine, so long as you know why you're doing it, and its completely void of your fetish.

Elian Gonzalez's grandma in Miami bit his tongue and pulled his penis out of his pants in front of his guardians. She saw nothing wrong with this whatsoever, because it was intended playfully.

Why is the acting person's motivation the only consideration? "Well I did it out of love, so it couldn't possibly have a bad effect."

Children *are* traumatized all the time by adults who think what they're doing is innocent fun. When a child says stop you stop, period. Children are not asexual, and their feelings aren't controlled by the intentions of adults.

 

[poopies1]

of course betchass, that's just common sense. i hope i didn't imply it any other way.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

Elian Gonzalez's grandma in Miami bit his tongue and pulled his penis out of his pants in front of his guardians. She saw nothing wrong with this whatsoever, because it was intended playfully.

Why is the acting person's motivation the only consideration? "Well I did it out of love, so it couldn't possibly have a bad effect."

Children *are* traumatized all the time by adults who think what they're doing is innocent fun. When a child says stop you stop, period. Children are not asexual, and their feelings aren't controlled by the intentions of adults.

Yes, indeed. Which is why I continually said its better just to not do it. Theres never truely any justified reason to be tickling a minor, or anyone really, even adults.

I had also brought up earlier the matter of personal private space and not violating it. It should never be assumed its ok to touch someone evasively or forcefully. Some people really value their personal space and going out of your way to touch them may be serious to them.

 

[Timewarp]

Alright this thread needs to end now cause i'm just sick of all the bickering.

If you get your kicks for tickling children, even if you are realated, you are sick.
It's natural for parents to play with their children, just as long as it's not in a weird way kinda pleasure.
Same goes for brothers, sisters, cousins, nephews and nieces. Just don't take it too far.
There, Now someone please kill the thread before I get attacked by naysayers.

 

[nessonite1]

This thread does seem to be going in endless circles.

 

[Celtic_Emperor]

I'm bored with it, so it doesn't matter to me what happens or who repeats themselves. I think everyone has made their point. Now its just banter.

 

[aucklandtickler1]

Man! This thread is still current?!!?!?!

I haven't been on here in a while and when I was last here it was just getting established. Is there anything that has been added to the debate since I last visited?

 

[Yet_One_More_Idiot]

No. Circles may be very pretty, but are ultimately pointless. And this topic is going in donuts now, round and round with nothing in the middle. LOL, sorry.

Basically all of you, like me, who like tickling l'il kiddies, you're in the wrong place for that kinda stuff. 🙂 What else would you expect, this is an adult forum. 🙂

 

[Journia]

There, Now someone please kill the thread before I get attacked by naysayers.

Why so no one can reply to your coment? That is a very simplistic argument there.

 

[His Divine Shadow]

I agree. I see no point in allowing this issue to be rehashed cyclically, not when it always ends the same way. Thus, thread closed.