Unpleasant Tickles

[Wilson]

Vensu/Rose @};-----'----

HAHA! I guess you went back to post #1 and found it, huh?

Thanks for the reply. Of course the canoe works in both directions! I haven't really had a woman outright state what she's been into without pulling teeth. Also, so many women who do have semi-fetishes or fetishes kind of suppress them to try to fool themselves into not having them (this excludes all the women here!). They want their partner to somehow magically discover these things, and that's not fair.
Ladies, have you ever just come out and told your tickling fetish to a date or growing partner without the subject of desires being brought up prior? Do you ever initiate that flow?

 

[Venus51099]

I am blind in one eye and can't see out the other one! LOL


Yes, I didn't see the first one.....care to help me remove my size 7 1/2 foot out of my mouth! Ha haaaa haaaaa

And to answer the question about just coming out and asking...for myself I can yes. It wasn't pretty!!

Freaked the guy I was in a relationship with, and I freaked the poor man OUT! He thought that I was 🙁 well I dunno what he thought but the look I got wasn't a good sign.

For some reason his manhood was threastened? I know, it is crazy. But he said tickling and making love don't go together and should not be mixed.

Soooo with that said, I vowed to never keep a secret like that again, speak up as soon as possible, what I was afraid of happened. We broke up Now when if I find the person I feel I want to have a realationship with I will tell them all that way if they don't like it they can hit the road and no one gets hurt.
Wilson I agree with you about what you said about some women or men try to fool themselves...I try to tell themselves this is happening. I did it! At first when I first realized how tickles....tickling aroused me and the feelings it gave me.....I said WOW!! And when none of my girlfriends at school mentioned anything like what I had felt or had done to them. I felt like I was odd if you will. I just know I didn't feel that I fit in with them. Does that make sense?

Ok before I write a novel, I'll shut up now!

Venus/Rose @};---,-----'-----

 

[ericr]

areenactor's 11/14 reply

Since Areenactor was bold enough to discuss it, I will be too. He is not the only guy with this trait. Being tickled on my very ticklish phallus after organsm is not only unpleasant, it is down right painful.

 

[Wilson]

Hey Venus, trust me, I know what you mean. If you even thought about telling girlfriends about your tickling love, you're 40 steps ahead of any guy and his friends. I've never told a soul save for my woman. She accepts well, but isn't an enthusiastic tickler. She's taken a small liking to being casually tickled though.
I don't even think I'd FEEL like dealing with what people would say if I was just like "HEY EVERYBODY! I LOVE TICKLING!" Nah, won't happen. Mostly because any adult fixation with tickling will be associated with sex. But anyway, I think women would probably have an easier time individually telling a new partner that tickling is a turn on. Why? Because once you tell a man that something turns you on, 90% of those guys will be more than happy to do whatever that something is! Any guy will back me up on that one.

yes ericr, most any semi-heavy sensations on that spot after orgasm is simply too much. I won't say truly painful, but extremely uncomfortable. Ladies.......don't do it.

 

[Deleted member 2452]

hey wilson

my wife said afterwards that she was sorry, that she didn't realize it was not feeling good. she figured that since i remained in an erectile state, and was laughing, and screaming "oh my god please stop" that i must be enjoying it! lol well now she stops, and some times too soon! lol.
steve

 

[Wilson]

I'm sure she wouldn't mind sending you through the roof again on request! *L* Play it safe!!!!!😀

 

[Novus]

Reason to use safe words

Play it safe, use a safe word so your partner knows when stop really means stop.

 

[slave4tickles]

I am not sure why, but it does for me too!

Not really unpleasant, but the dentist makes me think.

You know there small electric toothbrushes... they really do tickle the gums when they brush!!! Seems weird... but true!

FT have you ever tried an electric tooth brush on your girlfriend, if so did she just melt! Tis very intense and feels awesome, extremely hits that tickle spot where it feels so good but you can't stand it any more. So you start begging ooooook thhhhthatsssssss aaaaah NUFFFFFFFFF! Katherine 🙂 BTW try it sometimes if you haven't already!

 

[jordan]

I had a couple of embarrasing moments when My secret was found out.

1) I was 17 and I was not very secretive about my tickling love, (I didn't tell anybody, but when I printed stuff out and saved pics to files I didn't hide it) my dad wasn't big with computers and when he used ours he only downloaded music. Well one day I found an awsome story that sent me through the roof in a matter of speaking. So I printed it out and carried it through the living room. Dad asked me waht it was so covering the title I showed him it was writing and I said it was a story I wrote. For some reason he was curious so he held out his hand and took it! Distinctivly I grabbed it away laughing and joking and told him it was a rough copy. I walked into the bathroom and tore it up and threw it in the trash. (My dad called my older brother) out of his room and told him to get in the trash and get the story. Now I ripped it into tiny bite sized pieces and they put it together again somehow and it was 5 pages long too! They saw a website and went to it and pictures came up of tickling. Thats how my secret was exposed to my Dad and Brother. Dad was furious, but my Brother was understanding (sorry he isn't one of us, he has another fetish that why.)

2) A couple years passed (a year before I left home) and I made a really good friend, (lets say his names Chris) Well I felt with all my heart that I could trust this guy, because my secret was really eating me up inside. Well while on the internet talking to him I told him that I had to tell him something. He made a small joke to lighten the mood and instead of just coming out and telling him I gave him the adress to my website. He went there and this is how the conversation went...

Chris: Where did you get those pics?
Jordan: The internet.
Chris: lol
Jordan: What?
Chris: Thats weride?
Jordan: What?
Chris: Those pics
Jordan: What about them.
Chris: Its pretty bad man.

Now this reaction pissed me off. My best friend calling me weride and saying this was bad. I got off the internet and didn't talk to him for a week. When I finally did he apoligized, but it did'nt stop. Everytime I talked to him he would say "hows you tickling?" or when I had to go he would say "going back to your tickling sites?" It totally pissed me off. Well he lives next to my mom and when I went to see her, he came over and we were about to go to town when my mom went to get ready. Well we started to talk and this is what happened... Now mind you I don't know how tickling got brought up so I'm proablly making the first line up.

Chris: So hows your tickling (mom just closed the door to her room.)
Jordan: Will you leave it alone! Mom could hear!
Chirs: I don't care.
Jordan: WELL I DO! THIS IS MY LIFE!

Exact words. First time I ever yelled at my friend. This was the time I would tell him to go, and I expected him to because he stood there looking surprised. But instead he never brought it up again. And were still friends.

3) Last story... I was in the blazer with Mom and this was the night last year when I made the topic (JUST BOUGHT THE GAMECUBE, BUT TOO TIRED TO PLAY) in the general disscussion board. After I got the cube we went to taco bell (thank God for taco bell 12:00 p.m. at night!) Well I was telling her about the time Chris found out about my secret. And she asked me "What secret?" And I swallowed some taco and told her. And this was embarrasing telling my Mom, and she said "Oh, well don't tell him anything else in the future." And that was it!

Well thanks for listening, bu-bye!

 

[sole seeker]

Hey Jordan,

God bless your mom.

I've never actually come out of the "tickling closet", but when I was a teenager I think my parents figured out what I was into. To this day I don't know how they did it.

One day my dad came up to me while I was sitting alone on the porch. Now he and I were not very good at communicating, but I knew he had something on his mind. He looked at me and clear out of the blue he said, "Listen, son. Everybody has something different they're interested in. Some people like asses, some like feet, some like leather and some are weirder than that. Just don't let it bother you, no matter what you're into."

You know what? He was right! With that in mind, I wonder what your friend is into...

 

[Wilson]

Man, an understanding dad! how old were you when he said that exaclty? would you ever ask how he knew or why he said it?

 

[sole seeker]

Wilson,

I was about fourteen when my dad said that to me. No, I never asked my dad about it. As I said, we didn't communicate very well when I was growing up, and he died of cancer before we were able to bridge the gap.

 

[Wilson]

my apologies and condolences. Didn't mean to bring up anything painful.

 

[TicklingIsLife]

Not really unpleasant, but the dentist makes me think.

You know there small electric toothbrushes... they really do tickle the gums when they brush!!! Seems weird... but true!

I would love to use some of those instruments when tickling...YIKES 😛

 

[Maria_Rose]

I must say Bella, when I read your post on this I could have thought it was my own story. It gave me chills how much your uncle "Will" reminded me of my father (except my father was more purposely abusive..or at least not considerate of my feelings)...and my father's name is Bill too lol which made it even stranger. It took me a long time to figure out what made it such a painful experience for me, and unfortunately when I did it only made me feel worse. But oh well, that's what therapy is for right? And at least it has good associations for me now, to balance the negative. I spent a lot of time being non-ticklish because of it, and now I am just starting to learn to express my reactions again with a very loving partner. Congrats Bella for your success in coping with this, and for your courage in making that post. Thank god for brave people like you, because I thought I was alone for so long.

 

[Wilson]

Thank you all. Wow, when I started this thread, I never knew that It'd get responses beyond "someone tickled me in public until I wet myself" or "I broke a limb falling off the bed when tickled once". These are pretty powerful stories and I appreciate everyone being brave enough to share these. Don't let me stop the flow.

 

[Novus]

Comments on Bella and Maria_Rose's stories

What was discribed in those stories maybe a fairly common thing in the in the larger world. When searching the picture archives of the vanilla world I have come across hundreds of pictures of such acts. To me this seems to be the darkest and most troubling aspect of this fetish. This is what closeted ticklers are reduced to. They fullfill their tickling needs by using children usually daughters or nieces as outlets. That is so unbeleivably wrong that it has become unmentionable. I should certianly hope that no one here ever does this.

 

[Wilson]

Well, I would hope no tickler would ever do such a thing. A non-tickle girl asked me the other day online whether or not I planned to tickle my kids like crazy when I have them. I told her that I'd never do it beyond the scope of what is considered by most to be normal. And that unless I had children who on their own desires requested to be tickled, anything beyond their comfort level as a form of play would just be sick.
Anyway, I won't say that any acts like previously mentioned are characteristic of "closeted" ticklers. I'd say they are characteristic of people who don't know how to conduct themselves in any fashion. After all, I'm what you'd consider to be closeted. I'm in no rush to proclaim to people I know or not that I love it. I'd say 90% of people on this thing are the same way, but would never harm a child. I'm sure there are a number (hopefully very small) of "out" ticklers who probably have a problem controlling tickling urges as well. That's bad either way.

 

[Novus]

The term closeted tickler

By closeted ticklers I am refering to people who like us are total ticklephiles yet they are in complete denial. They have no real outlet for their desires: they don't know about the TMF, the don't watch tickling videos, they don't read tickling stories, and they don't even have tickling pictures to look at. For some this is OK because they can totally controll themselves but for others they end up tickling the shit out young children because it is the only thing they know. I also think this ties in to why the vanila world thinks we are weird. To acknowledge us is to also realize what all those closeted ticklers have been doing for all these years and that makes a lot of people uncomfortable with the whole issue of tickling.

Just some of my thoughts.