Usually how long before you can confess to her?

[tyler_d]

Just curious from some of the successful guys out there who've had good luck in getting feet ...as a general rule of thumb, how long would you suggest as a waiting period before you finally tell a new girlfriend that you wanna lick and smell her feet?

I've learned that asking too early can sometimes cause problems 🙁

 

[MrTicklefeet]

I've found the earlier the better. No surprises later. They weird out, no need to spend much time there. I told my ex some four five years after we've been living together, and she hit the roof. That affected the sexual performance afterwards, and things went gradually downhill after that, along with the trust. My currant friend loves it, so there's no problems what so ever, and it's helped build trust that we can say anything to each other knowing there will be no yelling and screaming going on.

 

[GuldenVleugel]

MrTickleFeet pretty much sums it up. You need to be open about sex as soon as it is possible. I am convinced sex just as important as the rest in a good relationship. It's no good if she cannot satisfy you. Better move on to the next in that case.

Of course you know you shouldn't tell her your passions in a way too literal. Just make these stuff clear to her in body language or through subtlety (and that doesn't mean harass-surprise her ^^)

 

[AgentSugar69]

Have found that it's best to wait a little bit, then be openly honest about it. Telling them right away might make it seem a bit sudden and extreme, but if they've warmed up to you a bit and have convinced themselves that they definitely like you, they'll probably be more accepting.

 

[cloudgazer2k]

when i was still dating, i basically had a disclaimer that i would tell potential girlfriends to see if they'd go running into the night. luckily, only 1 out of 3 would, and the rest were pretty allright with it, or even enjoyed it (often more than they had anticipated).

 

[LoveSoles81]

I usually ask around the 3rd or 4th date. All the girls i have been serious with have been cool with it. I asked my current girlfriend if we were out on our first date and I took your heels off and smelled your feet what would you do? She sayed she wouldn't have gone out on a second date, so I waited with her until we got a little close personally and sprung it on her, and now she comes home and shoves them in my face without asking!

 

[maniactickler]

I pretty much only meet women from the internet. so i always bring it up fairly quickly. i wont even meet a woman unless shes into feet.

 

[xoniboj]

I guess I was kind of lucky in a way cause I told my current girlfriend about it when we were just friends before anything happened, although when we first started going out she really hated it because she thought I was interested in her feet and not her. Now she rubs me with her feet when we are out to dinner, teases me, wants me to lick her feet and really really enjoys it.

Sure thing some people may be well weirded out about it but I'm quite sure it's just a fact of letting time go by and accomodating the fact that your partner might like something that is considered weird by others. My girlfriend likes some weird shit that at first I raised an eyebrow to but I do care about and her and love her lots so I don't mind doing it at all.

I feel horrible for the dude who lost his girlfriend to it but then again I guess it was just discovering something about her that is better he found out then than later.

 

[Red Jester]

Whenever you tell them its typically not polite to have a camera present recording their reaction. Its comes off as a little weird.

 

[jay jay]

Luckily you are in Los Angeles! the city of many beautiful women and much diversity when it comes to anything sexual. I live in San Diego and it is not that hard to find women who are into you liking their feet. Many girls i have met and dated were into it, tickling, toe sucking etc... It's just how it is out here. or maybe i have been getting all the luck. idk. The trick i found out is to talk about it like it is nothing. If you are all nervous about it then they seem to start to freak out. However, if you are more relaxed and make it seem like it is no big deal, then the more they become curious and want to try it. They always say to me after the fact they "they never knew how nice it was, or how they were into it until it happens." Seems to be the earlier you tell them the better. Happy Hunting! 😀

 

[tyler_d]

Whenever you tell them its typically not polite to have a camera present recording their reaction. Its comes off as a little weird.

LMAO!! best response I have seen to this question across a number of forums thus far!! thanks for the great laugh

...the pic was as staged as the question 😀

I appreciate all the answers though, but nothing I wasn't aware of and I do hope the advices serve well for some of the novices with who don't know how to icebreak w/women

thx

 

[Admiral Trouser]

After my current relationship became serious, we just started talking about each others' secrets and personal info that we didn't want to tell anyone else as a fairly natural course of events. She told me hers, I told her about "The Feet Thing". She didn't mind one bit, and now really enjoys it. So I'd say only go into it after you've made the relationship a regular, cast-iron thing, and then just come out with it in the way which feels most natural to you.

AT

 

[evilZ]

I've been in some situations where before I even had a chance to bring up the topic a girl would let me know that feet freak her out and such...So that saved the whole asking part.
With other girls, as the relationship gets serious the topic of what turns you on eventually comes up. I just be honest right then and there. I've had success with that.

 

[GuldenVleugel]

I've been in some situations where before I even had a chance to bring up the topic a girl would let me know that feet freak her out and such...So that saved the whole asking part.
With other girls, as the relationship gets serious the topic of what turns you on eventually comes up. I just be honest right then and there. I've had success with that.

It's not that I don't like the feet above the girl, but in that situation I try to get her into it anyway. Usually when we have had sex before I'll try again. When she knows me better and more intimately. Still, if she couldn't please me sexually, it'd be hard times keeping the relationship going.

In that case it'd be, NEXT AND BETTER PLEASE! Crude eh? 😛