What triggers your safeword?

[TickledToDeath]

I have yet to use a safeword when I am the Lee. So I would not know what would bring it on if anything or how I would say it for that matter since I am a no mercy no limit ticklee!

TTD

 

[isabeau]

I have yet to use a safeword when I am the Lee. So I would not know what would bring it on if anything or how I would say it for that matter since I am a no mercy no limit ticklee!

TTD

you are a creep....lol..

i have yet to say a safe word either...

 

[TickledToDeath]

you are a creep....lol..

i have yet to say a safe word either...

LMAO
Keyword "YET". And why am I a creep? Just because I have been egging MP on to tickle torture you into insanity and telling him all the weak spots you told me that you have and how nibbling on your feet and toes drives you nuts and how MP could be devistating if he could rid himself of the arthritic fingers....

TTD

 

[isabeau]

LMAO
Keyword "YET". And why am I a creep? Just because I have been egging MP on to tickle torture you into insanity and telling him all the weak spots you told me that you have and how nibbling on your feet and toes drives you nuts and how MP could be devistating if he could rid himself of the arthritic fingers....

TTD

that just about sums it up....and also when i mean yet, i mean never...not ever..so there..

 

[TickledToDeath]

that just about sums it up....and also when i mean yet, i mean never...not ever..so there..

Never is not that far off in YOUR future! 😛

 

[ticklesenseless]

The safe word question is always an interesting one. A couple of times I have played with a safe word, most the time I don't. Normally it is the pro domme's that want me to have the safe word. Although the last one didn't offer one up, but then my profile does say I don't care to use a safe word when just being tickled. 😉

My problem with safe words is that you always know you can end the session. It is always in the back of your mind. I find it far more intense where there isn't a way to escape.

I have never been brought to the point when being tickled where I would use a safe word. Of course, I have never had a full bladder while being tickled or felt like I was going to pass out.

I did once challenge a tickler to try and bring me to the point where I would pass out 😉 However, we never got to have that second session. 🙁 Maybe I'll find another tickler interested in seeing if she can make me pass out at some point in the future.

 

[SlaverTickler]

But more often than not the reason I use one is because I've simply been pushed to my limits of tolerance. I have a few select areas that when tickled the right way for any length of time, I totally lose my mind and begin to panic. I'm just simply too ticklish there and it's completely unbearable for me to take. That does not happen TOO often when playing with others at gatherings and such as they are not as familiar with my body or the techniques required to drive me down that path, but with Laz it happens several times during each of our serious sessions.

Well Mimi I would only tap those spots when you are using bad language, I won't abid swearing from a lee. Other then that you'd have nothing to worry from me.

I do have one question though, whats a safe word?

 

[Tickler Bart]

I would only use a safeword when I feel that I am on the brink of DEATH!
I've only used a safeword ONCE in my life when I literrally could NOT breathe & I felt I was suffocating.
The tickler was relentless in her tickling & wouldn't let up.
After that she was a bit more cautious with me.

 

[Eternal Tomboy]

...But more often than not the reason I use one is because I've simply been pushed to my limits of tolerance. I have a few select areas that when tickled the right way for any length of time, I totally lose my mind and begin to panic. I'm just simply too ticklish there and it's completely unbearable for me to take....

Yeah, what SHE said! 😀 I'm definitely not a 'lee that loves being tickled into a panic. Like Mimi, there are a few key spots that drive me (very quickly) to the point of wanting it to stop. I don't mind those spots being tickled for a few seconds at a time as a change of pace, but any longer than that, and it stops being enjoyable for me and becomes torturous... and not in a good way either. I mean, there's torture and then there's TORTURE!! 😉

I don't have a set safeword with my husband, though he will generally make me say "I'm sorry" for all the ego deflating, curse-ridden, wiseass comments I spew out at him before he will leave the hyper-ticklsh spot alone and give me a break. Since I happen to be extremely stubborn, he knows that when I'm ready to apologize, I'm also pretty much ready to call it quits.

Maggie

 

[minerva]

I wouldn't play without a safeword, but I guess I would rather bite off my tongue than use it without any real issue like breathing problems or any kind of serious discomfort. Wouldn't want to end the fun if not absolutely necessary 🙂
But then again, I've never been taken to that point so far, so actually I don't really know what I'm talking about 😀

 

[isabeau]

Never is not that far off in YOUR future! 😛

hmm well i won't use my safe word so there..i don't even have a safe word..so nothing will trigger it...o btw had any accidents lately, you old goat? lol

 

[huskys]

This topic has always intrigued me. Simply because I am deathly ticklish in certain places, but have yet to be really pushed to my limits.
I would probably opt out of a safeword so as I could experience what it would be like to have to take the tickling unless the ler insisted.
Otherwise I would probably feel that because I could stop it at any time, it wouldn't be as intense.

 

[minerva]

This topic has always intrigued me. Simply because I am deathly ticklish in certain places, but have yet to be really pushed to my limits.
I would probably opt out of a safeword so as I could experience what it would be like to have to take the tickling unless the ler insisted.
Otherwise I would probably feel that because I could stop it at any time, it wouldn't be as intense.

I agree with you, that thinking about having no way of stopping the tickling IS intriguing in some way, but what IF you really can't take it anymore or something unforeseen happens?
Maybe if it was with someone you really know very very well, but even if they watch you very carefully they cannot feel what you feel.

 

[huskys]

I agree with you, that thinking about having no way of stopping the tickling IS intriguing in some way, but what IF you really can't take it anymore or something unforeseen happens?
Maybe if it was with someone you really know very very well, but even if they watch you very carefully they cannot feel what you feel.

I understand what your saying, I guess I'm just scared that I'll turn into a wuss if my really ticklish spots are hit and give up too quickly. lol
Thats what my dilemma is. How can you experience something more than just playful pokes if you can end it so easily. Maybe a time limit or something, I don't know?? 😕

 

[TickledToDeath]

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My problem with safe words is that you always know you can end the session. It is always in the back of your mind. I find it far more intense where there isn't a way to escape.



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I totally agree. That is indeed the downside of having a safeword...the LEE can always stop it and that takes away from the psychological aspect of it all. A Good experieinced LER will always KNOW when to break.

 

[TickledToDeath]

I agree with you, that thinking about having no way of stopping the tickling IS intriguing in some way, but what IF you really can't take it anymore or something unforeseen happens?
Maybe if it was with someone you really know very very well, but even if they watch you very carefully they cannot feel what you feel.

Something unforseen? Well, a good experienced ler who is paying attention to the lee, will see the unforseen or see it as it is happening and know what to do and when. You can also instead of a "safeword" use a back up to alert the ler to the problem....like..."AIR" or "Cramp"....the safeword is to END the session totally, not for a "break". Therein is the key.

 

[TickledToDeath]

hmm well i won't use my safe word so there..i don't even have a safe word..so nothing will trigger it...o btw had any accidents lately, you old goat? lol

No accidents ISA. I have no accidents so get on line for your meds old gal. The window closes soon.
As for that safeword....you will make one and indeed you will be using it.
The key and or the goal will be to make you say it so one will have to be created.

 

[isabeau]

No accidents ISA. I have no accidents so get on line for your meds old gal. The window closes soon.
As for that safeword....you will make one and indeed you will be using it.
The key and or the goal will be to make you say it so one will have to be created.

you are the old one...delusional...you will have an accident if ever i get my hands on you...

and i will not need a safeword...and i will thank you kindly to keep your mouth zipped as far as MP is concerned....he won't believe you anyway...

 

[TickledToDeath]

I understand what your saying, I guess I'm just scared that I'll turn into a wuss if my really ticklish spots are hit and give up too quickly. lol
Thats what my dilemma is. How can you experience something more than just playful pokes if you can end it so easily. Maybe a time limit or something, I don't know?? 😕

Play a progressive tickle game.

Start with 30 seconds of NON stop tickling. Period. No matter what.
Then after 30 secs the ler stops.
Then increase each tickle by 15 seconds, non stop no matter what and continue in this manner to see just how much you can take.
The tickling does not stop in each incriment of 15 seconds...45 to 60...then minute and 15...to minute and a half and so on. Each time the tickling does not stop until that time has elapsed.

 

[TickledToDeath]

you are the old one...delusional...you will have an accident if ever i get my hands on you...

and i will not need a safeword...and i will thank you kindly to keep your mouth zipped as far as MP is concerned....he won't believe you anyway...

He will indeeeed believe me deary.
Think not otherwise.

As far as that safeword...you will have one in place because it will be his goal to make you say it otherwise, the tickling will not stop, ever, until the time limit is done...which is, what, 4 or 6 hours?
Good luck.

Remember to take your Geritol!

 

[minerva]

I understand what your saying, I guess I'm just scared that I'll turn into a wuss if my really ticklish spots are hit and give up too quickly. lol
Thats what my dilemma is. How can you experience something more than just playful pokes if you can end it so easily. Maybe a time limit or something, I don't know?? 😕

Same dilemma here 🙂 Looks like we both need to find a real good experienced 'ler, one of the kind TickledToDeath is talking about 🙂

 

[TickledToDeath]

Same dilemma here 🙂 Looks like we both need to find a real good experienced 'ler, one of the kind TickledToDeath is talking about 🙂

Well, myself and my lovely yet evil of a ler wife are that kind.
Just so ya know.


There are indeed others.


TTD 😛oke3:

 

[minerva]

Well, myself and my lovely yet evil of a ler wife are that kind.
Just so ya know.


There are indeed others.


TTD 😛oke3:

Thanks for letting me know 🙂
I'm happy for you, that you have each other 🙂 and I don't envy you AT ALL 😀 🙄 😛

 

[Coffee]

Minerva I am a single and experienced Ler.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

When Tickleshotel and I met up for a tickle session I actually got her to say her safe word and it took about ten minutes of tickling her feet til she said it. I had used my high school class ring by gliding up and down the soles of her feet and it did the trick I've been tickled silly but "Nobody" has yet to get my safeword out