which is better beein a lee or ler

[Luv2Tickle69]

I take as well as I give.....reciprocation is all part of the fun!!!

...if a gun were put to my head though....I'd say it's better to be the 'ler....only for the simple fact that I relish watching the reactions, as well as the feel of my fingers on the 'lee (female, of course)...and if her feet are especially nice, built much the way I like, and she's into having them tickled.....good Lord....that could be a weekend in the making....LOL!!!

 

[ticklkitten]

I'm with battlecat.... I love being a switch. I can jump from the sexy as hell bound-to-a-table lee to torturing some innocent soul into submission. Hey, it works for me!

 

[mabus]

It depends on if you want to laugh, or make someone laugh!
I think that's more to it than merely being dominant or dominated, sometimes you just want to make a girl laugh, and sometimes you need a good laugh.

 

[toneus79]

Better?
Both are fun!
XOXO

Steph I didn't knowyou were a Ler as well. Now I see you in a whole new light !

 

[aticklishguy]

I like both equally.

 

[tklfun]

Ticklekitten, I love that attitude!

 

[unit5610]

I'm with Steph. Both are good. Depends on the mood, the partner,a whole bunch of things as to which is best at any given moment.

lk, if we were in a tickle fight I would try hard to stay away from that "spot" until or unless I absolutely had to, unless of course it was your only spot. I wouldn't want the fun to end right away!
Otherwise, In theory I'm more of a 'ler than a 'lee and hearing a woman's helpless giggling and laughter from gentle but vigorous tickling (does that make sense?) is very exciting, though I haven't been able to do that in many years. Having someone actually allow me to do that has really never happened.
I must admit I'm intrigued by the thought of a lovely TMF'er having her way with my tickle spots, saying things like "tickle tickle!" and generally tormenting me that way...wow, could be lots of fun!

 

[steph]

Like that, do ya love?? 😀
Well, I'm mostly lee but I do have a lot of fun "getting them back" when I can, especially if I'm not tied down and they have a great reaction!
XOXO

Steph I didn't knowyou were a Ler as well. Now I see you in a whole new light !

 

[The Sean Man]

especially if I'm not tied down

Well, then, I guess it's a good thing I'm waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyy over here in Michigan

 

[The_Laugher]

For me I like to be both the lee and the ler. I think tickling is something to be shared with people so if I am tickling someone who also likes to tickle, then I should be able to allow them to experience the same sort of joy I do. When I hosted the Michigan parties, it had become a custom that thee was a session where I was on the table and all the ladies at the party ganged up and tickle the life out of me. They all loved it because none of the other guys there wanted to be a lee, just a ler. So I made the ultimate sacrifice (like it was really sacrifice) and became their subject. Let me tell you, nothing is more intense then the built up frustrations of a ler just looking for a lee to let lose on. Then it was thier turn and it was their choice to be gang tickled or just tickjled by me. It was a wonderful experience. So I recommend sharing the joy ane being both.

 

[theshire]

I am generally a Ler with a slight inclination towards Leedom, so I woild say Ler. But it depends what your bag is. Do you like tickling or being tickled the most? Whatever you answer is, that's what's better for you.

And if you like both equally then you're a flip-flopper. 😀

 

[TickledToDeath]

I too have to go with both. Hard to choose one over the other.
The more I tickle someone the more I want her to take evil revenge back on me and then the more I am tickled, the more I want to take revenge back on her!

Then again it also depends on the ler and the lee. The lee has to react wildly and be extremely ticklish and the ler has to be merciless and very into it!

 

[steph]

Hee hee!
Then get your little butt to Motown hon, I can vouch personally for sadistic Sadira's long nails (absolute murder!)
XOXO

Well, then, I guess it's a good thing I'm waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyy over here in Michigan

 

[TickledToDeath]

Hee hee!
Then get your little butt to Motown hon, I can vouch personally for sadistic Sadira's long nails (absolute murder!)
XOXO

If shy and I could we would be out there in a heartbeat!

You all will just have to attend one of OUR parties and bring what you claim to have!

I never surrender! Can't make me!

 

[pimpster85]

I can vouch for both neither and both. I like both, but get to do neither. For me, it is the sensation of my fingers on their ticklish skin, their wild torment and laughter, the domination over somebody else, and just the plain sexiness of the girl squirming. For being lee, it is basically the exact opposite of what I just said-the sensation of a strangers fingers invading my private ticklish spots, my mind and nerves going crazy, the helplessness and defenselessness of it all, and the wild, intense laughter it causes. BOTH feelings are amazing.

I'm not sure which I would rather do the majority of the time.

 

[steph]

I wish i could go too~gonna be a hell of a bash~I got to attend last one by phone~too much fun!

My nails are long too~I made Sadira scream out "NAILS!" when I tormented her feet. It was the funniest thing!

Oh, and I don't surrender either, Janipoo likes to call me Energizer bunny at our parties. Never used a safeword. 😀
XOXO

If shy and I could we would be out there in a heartbeat!

You all will just have to attend one of OUR parties and bring what you claim to have!

I never surrender! Can't make me!

 

[TickledToDeath]

I wish i could go too~gonna be a hell of a bash~I got to attend last one by phone~too much fun!

My nails are long too~I made Sadira scream out "NAILS!" when I tormented her feet. It was the funniest thing!

Oh, and I don't surrender either, Janipoo likes to call me Energizer bunny at our parties. Never used a safeword. 😀
XOXO

How about as the LER? Are you merciless or just playful?

You seem like you would be a fine addition to one of OUR parties here!

I think we could get you to say uncle!

TTD

 

[steph]

I'm more gentle, Goddess likes to say "more of a sensual tickler..."
I think my party mates would call me fun, I hope so anyhoo...

And nope, ya couldn't. No one ever does.
XOXO

How about as the LER? Are you merciless or just playful?

You seem like you would be a fine addition to one of OUR parties here!

I think we could get you to say uncle!

TTD

 

[natural tickler]

Never used a safeword. 😀
XOXO

that's because I haven't tickled ya yet. Wait until you feel "Natural' at work

 

[steph]

HA!
Like THAT will happen hon! Idle threats...

that's because I haven't tickled ya yet. Wait until you feel "Natural' at work

 

[natural tickler]

HA!
Like THAT will happen hon! Idle threats...

funny that is coming from a person who is too SCARED to come to Motown, then you could see for yourself.... 😛

 

[TickledToDeath]

I'm more gentle, Goddess likes to say "more of a sensual tickler..."
I think my party mates would call me fun, I hope so anyhoo...

And nope, ya couldn't. No one ever does.
XOXO

ahhhhhhh ....never say never my dear! You will surely cry uncle here!
Quite the merciless we are .
You will surely surrender!

 

[steph]

Beleive me NT~it's not that I'm too SCARED to come to Motown (you know better than that...)~if it were local, you couldn't keep me out...

And TTD, I never surrender~go head, ask round, if you dare....😉
XOXO

 

[Merciless1]

Definitely being the LER!
I am way to evil and merciless of a tickler and love it too much even though I am the LEE sometimes and can take it to the point of what I do to my victims! I still would rather be the tickler and tickle my victims into.......well, I am sure you know me by now. NO mercy. I cannot get enough being the tickler!

M1

 

[Merciless1]

Beleive me NT~it's not that I'm too SCARED to come to Motown (you know better than that...)~if it were local, you couldn't keep me out...

And TTD, I never surrender~go head, ask round, if you dare....😉
XOXO

From what I know of TTD and his GF by talking to TTD the past few months or so, as well as his posts and reading of him and his gf, they will tickle you into crying mercy and using that safeword! Do you dare calling their bluff and submitting to them? You should go to one of their parties!

M1