Which is harder?

[Comfort Eagle]

Since this has kinda been brought up recently, I wanted to see what everyones thoughts are on the subject. Which is harder, telling someone you like tickling, or telling someone you like being tickled? For me, it's telling them I like being tickled. For me anyway, it's so simple to just start tickling a girl and tell her that I'm having fun, but it's a lot harder to to get the situation turned around and get tickled myself. It just seems like, trying to tickle someone else is no big deal, asking someone to tickle you just sounds like another way to ask for sex and sounding perverted...


Any thoughts?

 

[ttheocjones]

For the men it's probably harder to tell someone you like to be tickled that like to tickle. It's the whole macho thing i guess and not wanting to be submissive and all. But for me telling someone i like to tickle is hard. They look at you funny and i am easily embarrased.

 

[TKLVR181]

It was definitely harder for me to admit I like recieving. Granma didn't bat an eyelid about that part, of course, she's seen it between Senshi and I and it sorta was obvious😛 Guess it goes back to that whole 'liking the loss of control' thing...'weakness'.

 

[gilmourwaters]

i just say it all

 

[PurrBast]

I have told every boyfriend I have that I love to be tickled and it has always gone over well regardless if they like it or not. However, because it is not their interest, they do not know what I like nearly as much as someone who loves the same thing I do. The experience then tends not to be as good as it could have been. But if I had to pick, I would probably pick telling someone you like to be tickled harder because most who don't have it as a fetish view it as something that isn't pleasurable if done continuously over a long period of time.

 

[FT Genikit]

Telling someone that I like to tickle is way too hard for me. Even if I'm in a private room. You never know who will understand (or not) the feeling you have.