While doing something romatic...

[P50]

Nice comments, everyone.

May I encourage a short review of "Conversational Tickling", introduced some time back ? Check it out here,,,

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?threadid=18716

It is uquestionably my favorite type of tickling, for many reaons,,, one of which is that it can be prolonged more than any other type I know.

Indeed, many here are probably conversational tickling enthusiasts themselves, just using different lingo.

 

[SillyMan]

My answer to the original question of this thread is definitely: yes!!! In a romantic setting tickling is in the air for me!
And opposite: after having a ticklefight I alså feel like hugging and kissing afterwards. How about you? Do you feel the same way?

 

[tommytikl]

And opposite: after having a ticklefight I also feel like hugging and kissing afterwards. How about you? Do you feel the same way?

Yes, I totally agree with the opposite too!
Good point!
There is definitly a connection with someone you tickle half out of their mind 🙂

 

[AffectionateDan]

Re: Same situation...

You're born with it. Period.

She even tried the embarrassment factor with me, and in front of me (before I had become comfortable with who I am and what I like), she asked my FATHER if he liked tickling....maybe thinking it was genetic, I don't know....

Even more embarrassing, he looked at her, smiled widely, and said...

" As a ticklee, or a tickler?"

I think there's still a pile sitting where I was standing, when he said that...

Truer words were never spoken, LazMastaFlash! 🙄 I have long maintained that not only is this something we're born with, that it IS genetickle 😉 , given the benefit of hindsight and looking back over childhood memories of my father and older brothers, not to mention my own son, an up & coming ticklemonster. Absolutely hereditary! Add to that the fact that you're a product of your environment, if you grew up in a family that's very physically demonstrative, tickling is probably no big deal, maybe even encouraged. Everyone has their own take on it, obviously, but I notice that most of us have been in the place in our lives where we're embarrassed/ashamed of it, thinking that it's weird or something. I thank all that is good and pure in the universe that I got paroled from a life sentence to a woman that, while simulataneously being one of the MOST ticklish people I've ever known in my life, hated HATED HATED to be tickled. And she knew of my love of it, so it made me feel even WORSE when I'd catch her looking at me if I indulged in some harmless horseplay tickling with friends or children, like I was getting my jollies that way since she wouldn't let me. Now that I know better, life is so sweet! Being able to share this with a lover, someone who enjoys it at least as much as you do, how freakin' cool is that!!! Somebody who WANTS you to tickle them... it STILL blows me away, prolly still will if I live to be a hundred. Chase her around with a feather on the end of my cane... 😉

Life is GOOD!

 

[JoseTickles]

Oh man! I'm always tickling her while we're kissing and making out. We would be deep in a French kiss and I would stick my finger in her belly button and start wiggling it. Then I would work my way out from there. She would be squirming the whole time and I would yell at her if she broke off the kiss.

 

[AffectionateDan]

Vanilla = Plain, bland, ordinary...

...and Meems is more of a Rocky-Road Hot Fudge Sundae With Whipped Cream kinda gal. 🙄

 

[Mimi]

LOL! Yes, Danimal more or less hit it on the head, there!

By vanilla partner, I mean a partner void of any sexual kinks. One who's version of sex is simply kiss mouths, kiss bodies, perhaps a little oral, and then intercourse. Nothing 'extra' outside of the standard sexual practice. And while that mellow, bland flavor does suit some people, my tastes are far too exotic for me to be happy with that selection for my whole life.

Lazarus is more of a chocolate, caramel, marshmallow swirl with cherries and pecans and sauce on top. And his recipe suits me just fine. 😀

Mimi

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

jus wonderin, is Mimi and Lazarus married ( that may be a stupid question but...) cuz if so. I would give my....uh...... left leg to be in your shoes. I wish I had someone like you do :-(
*walks away crying*

 

[Knox The Hatter]

They're engaged. Kinda like Hollywood, actually...even though Hollywood hasn't heard that Wisconsin exists yet.
Gotta be patient, and never settle. I firmly believe that everyone out there's got a match, but some people are too lazy or too scared to investigate. There is someone out there who loves tickling just as much as you do. You have to go out and FIND that person. Now, get going.

 

[Faramir]

in response to....

...Lazarus' post of 12/08:

my second wife was like that sort of. she allowed me to indulge, as long as the tickling was mostly oral (she actually got off on that, getting her feet and toes tongue tickled and sucked), and was just part of foreplay. any straight tickling sessions were verboten, and definitely no bondage, actual OR implied.

the first wife was a definite NO, but had a pair of feet to die for (wish I still had the pics of those beauties). luckily, she was a very deep sleeper *wicked chuckle emits from Storm_Cat*.

there is no more wife, not since '92...nor a girlfriend, hence the words I saw in other posts in this thread...intimacy...romance, etc., are very foreign to me now.

I wish I knew what that felt like again...especially this time of year...🙁