My farthest "playmate" flew all the way from Ohio (dtrell) to see me and it was GREAT. (I'm in California) I'm a big fan of taking really long time getting to know them first, ask for references from other ladies, etc. I've met a couple thru attending the local Munch, have you been to any? They're very fun and low pressure, really a nice way to get to know your local group. We had one on Sunday and the newest couple drove 2 1/2 hours, we have a play party scheduled and I thought they were smart to come check us out first.
I assume you're male? I won't lie to you, there's been a few losers, I THOUGHT I was getting to know them really well, at the 11th hour they pussied out, but it's rare. You dust yourself off and move on~LOTS of peole want to play out there. Since you're in NY, ever been to a dungeon? Just curious how you usually meet your "lees".
XOXO