I can't let this thread go by without dropping in for a quick hi.
I grew up on horror movies. Kathy from TC, I understand what you're saying, and it makes perfect sense. You like the suspense, the Hitchcocks, etc. Completely different from horror, which frolics in death, carnage, and monsters. I would NEVER force a horror movie on anyone.
My parents got divorced when I was 8. As my father was leaving the house with his suitcase, I was focussing on the TV. By chance, The Wolfman was on, the old Universal one. I kid you not, the scene was Larry Talbot being chained up by some men before the moon comes up, to keep him from wreaking violence in the town. His young sun tries to run into the shed to see his Dad, but the men won't let him. "Why can't I see my Dad?" he cries. My eyes were glued to this scene while my ears listened to my Dad saying goodbye to my brothers.
I had plenty of dreams of werewolves throughout my childhood. Make any sense?
It became a language for me. I watched every horror movie I could get my hands on. I had a subscription to Fangoria for 5 years.
Okay, my favorites have already been mentioned here -- Nightmare on Elm Street, Wes Craven's New Nightmare, Phantasm, Creepshow, The Funhouse, Fright Night, Videodrome. . .
I could go on and on. But the gory ones have gotten old for me. They don't scare me. You know who makes the scariest movies these days?
David Lynch.
Fire Walk with Me
Lost Highway
Mulholland Drive
These are the scariest movies to have come out in the last several years. Check them out if you haven't seen them, they're sublime.
Boomblood