Why aren't more women into tickling?

[elaah]

Then again, I can think of a dozen women off the top of my head, (and I'm sure I've only encountered a fraction), who aren't "visible" online the way they were say 3 or 4 years ago. Of course, the are still very much into tickling.

I remember them Tero!!! 😉 Actually I was going to post something when this thread first appeared a couple days ago. Its something I wrote, thought about then decided to just hush up about! Imagine that me hushing up? lol

Ok here are my thoughts... Guys want to know how to meet these women that are sooooo into tickling that they can not find.

Q: "Who would you want to tickle if you could tickle anybody in the world?"
A: " (Fill in the blank with any woman that is famous, model, actress, etc.)

Guys - come on you have to realize there are gatherings all over the country now! Your chances of meeting women that are into tickling are out there more than ever! Posting the "famous" women here may be fun but if you choose from your audience, chances are you may just get to meet, know and possibly tickle them since they read the threads here. Look at the NEST - over 100 people interested. How about you browse member pics and put faces to names and personality type and read the threads and put some of the names you find frequently here in your replies. There are so many women here all shapes and sizes and personalities and ticklish degrees that I imagine you could have a good chance of finding someone you will be compatible with! Give it a try!! See what happens Your luck may be about to change!

What do you have to lose?????

Ok back to the originally scheduled thread nearest you...

::giggling::

All Ways ticklish,
Donna

 

[Krokus]

Well

I Found That Post Offensive Sunrise.....I Know You Were Not Talking About Me, But It Was Unfair. I Suggest That You Think Before You Post.

 

[blankpage]

Re: Well

I Found That Post Offensive Sunrise.....I Know You Were Not Talking About Me, But It Was Unfair. I Suggest That You Think Before You Post.

Actually it looks like her post took a great deal of thought.

Seriously, while I don't understand what could possibly be offensive about her post... a lot of people are offended by the truth, and that's pretty much what she's saying.

I have thoughts on this...but they're not very organized at this point, so I'll come up with them later.

 

[dvnc]

One can suspect that Krokus was being a sea fish... I mean facetious. Tongue firmly emplanted in cheek. Regardless, it was stated from his own perspective, and without insult. He just states a disagreement.

Mind you, I've heard proof contradicting him from nearly every woman involved in my gatherings, and all of the women with whom I share friendship in this community, in the MidWest NEST, NEST, Southern Gathering, etc.

If this ain't the way of the whole community, it IS the way of a great deal of the community.

Women online should be given the same social courtesy as they get in public. We'd see more of them. Until they get such, there'll be fewer of them visible than actually exist.

Glad I'm nice to folks in general. I'm involved with "one of us" from this forum, and from AMT. I'm damned glad I was wise enough to be kind and civil, 'cause the lady lights up my life.

I met her online. It's possible. You just have to be civil. I've heard more than once, from more than one person, that I'm such. Cracks me up, too, 'cause I don't think o' me as a nice boy.

Apparently, given what I've been told, over and over, there's just not that many of us folks that aren't givin' "wannas" to women, the moment we speak to 'em.

Get nice, and drop the "wanna" discussions, and see if I ain't dead right.

my $0.02,

dvnc

 

[TicklingIsLife]

I always say to myself, "I would imagine that any women would jump at the chance to torture a helpless man."😕 🙂

 

[magic fingers]

Hi. Remember me?! I was the one who started this post, a long time ago, and I'd like to respond to Sunrise Ticklee's comments. First of all, Sunrise, I was totally with you for the first half of your post. There's no reason for anybody on this forum, male, or female, to be treated w/disrespect, and I'm sorry you had to go through that.
However, for the second half of your post, I sort of have to agree w/Krokus(assuming he wasn't being "tongue in cheek", as someone suggested). I'm not so much offended, as I am confused. How is someone expressing their tickling prefences "scaring away women and minorities"? I've yet to find ANY post, or response in this forum that's even the slightest bit threatening to anybody. Let's face it, people are more interested in tickling partners that they are attracted to. As I mentioned on another post, guys in this forum are always going to be more interested in tickling an attractive lady, rather than Janet Reno. And, I'm sure you female ticklefiles, if given the chance, (and all things being equal)would rather tickle a good looking guy instead of a Gilbert Gottried look-a-like! So I don't see what's so wrong about TMF members inquiring about ticklee body types, and hair color, stating their preferences, and sharing these type of experiences.

 

[terorizer]

How is someone expressing their tickling prefences "scaring away women and minorities"? I've yet to find ANY post, or response in this forum that's even the slightest bit threatening to anybody.

I don't mean to speak for Sunrise, especially since it's pretty obvious she does well enough on her own, but I don't believe her intent was to disparage the expressions of tickling preferences. I believe it had more to do with the expression of preferences and personal (and oft-times fairly limited) experiences as absolute, infallable truth. Whether or not one agrees with HOW a person (or in this case, women/minorities), comes to feel what they feel, it is nonetheless what they feel, and it's valid. Like DVNC, I know and have spoken to at least a significant number of the female community, and I have to agree with him. Because they aren't necessarily visible, it doesn't mean they don't pay attention, or have thoughts and opinions.

magic fingers wrote As I mentioned on another post, guys in this forum are always going to be more interested in tickling an attractive lady, rather than Janet Reno. And, I'm sure you female ticklefiles, if given the chance, (and all things being equal)would rather tickle a good looking guy instead of a Gilbert Gottried look-a-like! So I don't see what's so wrong about TMF members inquiring about ticklee body types, and hair color, stating their preferences, and sharing these type of experiences.

Can you imagine if Janet Reno were one of us here? Or someone who looked like her? Or someone who didn't look like anybody on the "Top 3,5,10,20,25etc Ticklee List". I could see where that last comment might be at least borderline offensive, to say nothing of the fact, it doesn't exactly encourage them scream out "Hey, Janet Reno ticklephile lookalike here!" Especially if they have concerns about rejection...something more than a few visible female members here have spoken of.

 

[Dragon321]

sigh....

If i may lay devil's dvocate here...
it does seem that there are proportionally far fewer of the female sex than we males would have hped for... there seems to be a dearth of good poonani, if thou wilt pardon the negative aforesaid connotations.
ANYWAY
my hypothesis is basically conruent with the rest of the forum members expressed herein, in that our attitudes do not endear us to the women. am making abberant generalizations, but the truth is that many of us, when given an opening (such as an "im here, ticklish submissive woman! yoohoo) we are lead by the penis. TESTOSTERONE, gentlemen, TESTOSTERONE. however, although i have made very few contacts, was observant when the newbie ticklish female forum was opened. it was flooded with arm welcomes and good reply's. there were at least 10 revelations of females. how many more are skulking in the archives, frightened off by testoserone and aggressive tactics?
andhow many more are out there, caught between the grasp of an opressive society that does not understand, much less sympathise with our sexual tastes???
ANYWAY
you probably shouldnt take this post seriously, as it has no point. i just wanted to mock you all. but in a good way, a GOOD way!
heh heh... losers (did i say that?) 😀
just adding humour to a sober subject....

 

[Karen Pearson]

I like it

speaking from personal experience
I must say that I enjoy tickling and being tickled while bound and gagged
my girlfriend does also
it is great foreplay to sex
my former boyfriend felt that way also
to each his own I guess

 

[Blackrook]

Have to agree with Magic Fingers in principle

A male ticklephile or a female ticklephile has the prerogative of expressing his or her preference as long as it is done in a tactful manner. That is, you have to be mindful of the sensitivity of your audience. The individual who offended Mimi in the chatroom had a right to his preference. But he did not need to express himself in such a tactless manner. I suspect that things would run much smoother if a given ticklephile just took the time to express his or her preferences in a less blunt manner. And note that this isn't being PC, it's just being polite.

Rook

 

[JoBelle]

Re: Have to agree with Magic Fingers in principle

I suspect that things would run much smoother if a given ticklephile just took the time to express his or her preferences in a less blunt manner. And note that this isn't being PC, it's just being polite. Rook

Rook,
I think that is likely the most sane comment ever made by ANYONE on this forum next to the phrase, "I'm ticklish." 😉

There is NOTHING wrong with a preference, as well have them. It takes all kinds to make the world go 'round as my mother is fond of saying. She also says something else which I feel compelled to share thus reminding myself: CLASS SHOWS

Being polite makes all the difference in the world. For a tiny example, you could very well be talking to one person who isn't your "type." If you're a nice guy, she may very well tell her friend who IS your type just what a great guy you are.

It pays to be nice. It pays to be polite. Thanks for reminding us all of that!!!
Jo

 

[red indian]

I dont agree with Jo Belle

I think you are talking bollocks, being rude has always worked for me so f!&% off!!!

 

[GuitarPeteTklr]

Re: I like it

speaking from personal experience
I must say that I enjoy tickling and being tickled while bound and gagged
my girlfriend does also
it is great foreplay to sex
my former boyfriend felt that way also
to each his own I guess

Sorry I was about 2 posts too late to respond directly to this, Karen...but as to your sentiments, let it be known you are NOT alone in your preferences.

IMHO, amen to bondage (gagging? perhaps...), and tickling as foreplay! 😀

*GuitarPeteTklr shreds his way back into tickling oblivion*

 

[JoBelle]

Re: I dont agree with Jo Belle

I think you are talking bollocks, being rude has always worked for me so f!&% off!!!

You're evah so adorable when ya try to be manly like that. *Bless yer heart.*

With this comment I create my 300th post. How fitting that it be to the barking pup. Now go lay down, or I'll have to tie you up until you apologize. No, wait, scratch that....I forgot I was writing to you. 😉

Joby

 

[Destro]

First, I think that tickling has somewhat of a sexual conotation to it for most men. If you look at just about any site that involves sex or fetishes, you will find it to be overwhelmingly dominated with men. Does that mean that there aren't many women interested in sex? No. It's just a difference in genders. True, you have women that are interested in casual sex with just about anyone, but with most women, there must first be an emotional connection before they are willing to have sex. Once you get that, there are many women that will do just about anything in bed. How many stuck-up prudes in public turn out to be wild women in bed? I think the same principle is at work in tickling. The odds of engaging a strange girl in tickling is probably about the same as engaging her in casual sex. In the few long term intimate relationships that I had with a ticklish women, they all enjoyed being tickled. But I think it had more to do with the emotional connection than with the act of tickling itself. There are probably a lot of women out there that are into tickling. They are just discrimiating as to whom they do it with. Just like sex. That's just my opinion.