Why do people make such a big deal over tickling? it's just part of intimacy....

[duderino84]

You know what? Too many people here try to engage or understand you. The reality is, you're a depressive personality who comes here posting is completely opaque and nonsensical ways, always loading everything you say because you can't or won't just come out and say it.

It's nobody's fault but your own that you're this way. It's nobody's fault that you struggle to deal with whatever your problems are. It's nobody's fault that you're wallow in your own misery and solipsism so much that you truly miss the entire plot.

Your self crucifixion and loathing martyring schtick is past old. You've been given advice and tools to better deal with and incorporate this into your life. Instead if doing anything with it, you whine, cry, and continue along with this act.

Personally, it pisses me off that not enough people simply ignore you at this point. You're like a bygone relic from the days of creeps who can't come to functional grips with your fetish.

For the love of god, look in the mirror and fix yourself.

Sooooo what are you trying to say?* Is it that time of the month again?* Lol

So are you saying that you want anyone interested in sex to go elsewhere or otherwise just not talk about it here ever?
Because if so, you're going to continue to remain as disappointed and sad as you've seemed as long as we've known you.

This is a site about tickling in all of it's facets, not just this narrow "purist" facet that you seem to prefer.
And we're all a part of it.
In fact, I daresay we outnumber you.

I'm not saying that to be smug, but you need to understand that if you're trying to say that you're the "real" ticklephile and you're hoping for the day that the rest of us non-"purist" knismos up and leave the site, you're in for a long wait dude.

And raging against us and running around acting depressed and dissatisfied isn't going to endear you to anyone.

I take offense at this subtle judgement you're throwing around.
Nobody here is judging you for being into tickling over sex.
How about you return the favor and stop judging people for being different than you?

Even the fact that you refer to yourself as a "purist" in itself points to this idea that the rest of us aren't, that we're not "real" or that this site is more for people like you than people like us.

I'm saying it's not exactly relevant to the forums and just suggesting "well if you fucked the ppl you want to tickle, you wouldn't have problems being normal" doesn't help anyone. It's not a panacea.

Relevance is based on looking at MTJPUB and magic tickling videos (tickling.ws or whatever it's called now). I don't see penetration materials there. But I guess from your perspective, the blowjob videos entitled "tickle time" on the Web are just as tied in.

What I'm saying is I don't doubt much if half the guys posting heard "honey, I love you, but I've always hated tickling, and don't want it anymore", they'd go "oh, ok" and the forum would empty out.

Say what you want, that's what I think.

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

I say we all go back to the actual question involved instead of arguing with someone who obviously is never gonna understand the points anyone has made here and I've seen many good points here.

 

[Wolf]

So, tickling is only relevant to the forum if it involves jacking off until your hand is translucent?

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

So, tickling is only relevant to the forum if it involves jacking off until your hand is translucent?

was that at me or the other guy wolf?

 

[Wolf]

was that at me or the other guy wolf?

The other guy.

 

[duderino84]

So, tickling is only relevant to the forum if it involves jacking off until your hand is translucent?

Actually it's related because arousal is a physical effect of tickling. Now, magically ending up in the missionary position because of tickling is pretty improbable.....

 

[duderino84]

The other guy.

Ya, that other guy Wolf 😀

 

[Wolf]

Actually it's related because arousal is a physical effect of tickling. Now, magically ending up in the missionary position because of tickling is pretty improbable.....

Wait... if you think arousal is a physical effect of tickling (I'm not arguing that), how is ending up having sex because of tickling improbable?
You realize a lot of people actually like sex, right?
That your view of other people as nothing more than masturbatory aids might not be the general consensus?

 

[duderino84]

Wait... if you think arousal is a physical effect of tickling (I'm not arguing that), how is ending up having sex because of tickling improbable?
You realize a lot of people actually like sex, right?
That your view of other people as nothing more than masturbatory aids might not be the general consensus?

Tickling in itself is not just a lead into sex unless you're doing it in the missionary position.

That's not what it's about. ...you keep missing the point. A socially awkward proposition like tickling is not simplified by interjectioning (that a word?) Sex.

Remember, you keep pushing that, not me. If it's acceptable, before I became "depressed" I thought people were a lot more insightful and intelligent. Frankly you come off like a troll at this point.

 

[Wolf]

Tickling in itself is not just a lead into sex unless you're doing it in the missionary position.
That's not what it's about. ...you keep missing the point. A socially awkward proposition like tickling is not simplified by interjectioning (that a word?) Sex.
Remember, you keep pushing that, not me. If it's acceptable, before I became "depressed" I thought people were a lot more insightful and intelligent. Frankly you come off like a troll at this point.

Interjecting may be the word you're looking for.
I'm not going to educate you on how tickling can be a "lead in" to sex in a number of positions, because the information would be wasted on you.
No one's pushing the idea of sex on you, we just find it odd (and a bit sad) that you're so far off on your end of the spectrum that you think ours is weird, or boring, or whatever the hell you think.
You found what works for you, great. But that "you must love tickling and hate sex in order to be a real fetishist" bullshit is tiresome.

 

[Myriads]

Newsflash just in!

People as a whole don't give two shits about tickling, and rarely if ever think about it. And when they do it's along the lines of "I don't like it", "It's annoying", or "I tease my SO with it sometimes."

It's a non factor in the lives of the vast majority of the population.

Here on the forum, because you are soaking in it, it takes on this weird warped perspective that comes from projection of ones own feelings about it onto every one in sight.

Bottom line? Most people don't care, or even think about it.

Myriads

 

[Wolf]

Newsflash just in!
People as a whole don't give two shits about tickling, and rarely if ever think about it. And when they do it's along the lines of "I don't like it", "It's annoying", or "I tease my SO with it sometimes."
It's a non factor in the lives of the vast majority of the population.
Here on the forum, because you are soaking in it, it takes on this weird warped perspective that comes from projection of ones own feelings about it onto every one in sight.
Bottom line? Most people don't care, or even think about it.
Myriads

Bing-freaking-GO.

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

Bing-freaking-GO.

Suck-freaking-UP.

 

[Rectangle]

Deleted own post for own sanity. Done interacting with this guy.

On another note.

TRUTH BOMB

Boom.

 

[duderino84]

Newsflash just in!

People as a whole don't give two shits about tickling, and rarely if ever think about it. And when they do it's along the lines of "I don't like it", "It's annoying", or "I tease my SO with it sometimes."

It's a non factor in the lives of the vast majority of the population.

Here on the forum, because you are soaking in it, it takes on this weird warped perspective that comes from projection of ones own feelings about it onto every one in sight.

Bottom line? Most people don't care, or even think about it.

Myriads

True but that's why this forum exists, unless it was first called the We Love Sex Forum and changed because the domain name was taken? Lol.

I came here at first because I got turned on by something and Google searched it to see if I was out of my mind, low and behold I wasn't some crazed alien.

Interjecting may be the word you're looking for.
I'm not going to educate you on how tickling can be a "lead in" to sex in a number of positions, because the information would be wasted on you.
No one's pushing the idea of sex on you, we just find it odd (and a bit sad) that you're so far off on your end of the spectrum that you think ours is weird, or boring, or whatever the hell you think.
You found what works for you, great. But that "you must love tickling and hate sex in order to be a real fetishist" bullshit is tiresome.

Dude, I've said my views on sex multiple times, you don't care to read, and really, just like I stated/predicted, you've been and still are defensive because I pointed out that sex isn't tickling. Take your education and shove it, it obviously isn't working out so well for you if you come around to argue with me in virtually every thread on the forum in a minimum of the last 6 months. Actually I like Meangry's method, private messaging me and cursing me off, that seems better for everyone. You're right, I've got some fucking baggage in my life and as a result I'm very partial to people, especially those that can't read on a public forum or let their assumptions take hold of their every impression of some fucking stranger on the Internet. But hey, there's another post wasted, yippee another ticker to empty ranks.

 

[duderino84]

Deleted own post for own sanity. Done interacting with this guy.

On another note.



Boom.

You sure? Party's just getting started.

 

[meangry]

True but that's why this forum exists, unless it was first called the We Love Sex Forum and changed because the domain name was taken? Lol.

I came here at first because I got turned on by something and Google searched it to see if I was out of my mind, low and behold I wasn't some crazed alien.



Dude, I've said my views on sex multiple times, you don't care to read, and really, just like I stated/predicted, you've been and still are defensive because I pointed out that sex isn't tickling. Take your education and shove it, it obviously isn't working out so well for you if you come around to argue with me in virtually every thread on the forum in a minimum of the last 6 months. Actually I like Meangry's method, private messaging me and cursing me off, that seems better for everyone. You're right, I've got some fucking baggage in my life and as a result I'm very partial to people, especially those that can't read on a public forum or let their assumptions take hold of their every impression of some fucking stranger on the Internet. But hey, there's another post wasted, yippee another ticker to empty ranks.

You're a troll at this point.

A forum gimmick.

 

[Wolf]

True but that's why this forum exists, unless it was first called the We Love Sex Forum and changed because the domain name was taken? Lol.

I came here at first because I got turned on by something and Google searched it to see if I was out of my mind, low and behold I wasn't some crazed alien.



Dude, I've said my views on sex multiple times, you don't care to read, and really, just like I stated/predicted, you've been and still are defensive because I pointed out that sex isn't tickling. Take your education and shove it, it obviously isn't working out so well for you if you come around to argue with me in virtually every thread on the forum in a minimum of the last 6 months. Actually I like Meangry's method, private messaging me and cursing me off, that seems better for everyone. You're right, I've got some fucking baggage in my life and as a result I'm very partial to people, especially those that can't read on a public forum or let their assumptions take hold of their every impression of some fucking stranger on the Internet. But hey, there's another post wasted, yippee another ticker to empty ranks.

A little education might give you some self-awareness, or something to back up all of those all-knowing proclamations you like to make about who's who and what's what.
Otherwise, you're just shitting on the floor and calling it a Jackson Pollock.
Everyone has baggage.

 

[TicklishBlackGuy]

dont' feed da trolllsssss

 

[duderino84]

A little education might give you some self-awareness, or something to back up all of those all-knowing proclamations you like to make about who's who and what's what.
Otherwise, you're just shitting on the floor and calling it a Jackson Pollock.
Everyone has baggage.

But you'll never get around to actually saying anything because you're more interested in arguing, so the point is moot.

You're a troll at this point.

A forum gimmick.

Gonna cry about it?

 

[meangry]

But you'll never get around to actually saying anything because you're more interested in arguing, so the point is moot.



Gonna cry about it?

Why do I need to cry about it?

Truth is, you bring nothing to the community. Nothing. Nothing of any value is created by you. You have no friends. You have nothing, save some really piss poor concepts of reality. You struggle each and every single day of your life because no woman will let you tickle them.

Everyone who has ever felt sorry for you shouldn't; you created your own circumstances. It's nobody else's fault you're just a bad person.

 

[duderino84]

Because you're so emotionally invested in trying to insult me. Something I'm missing here? Stranger danger incoming. ...

Or tell me some more. Can you sketch out your hatred of Duderino? Lol

 

[Wolf]

Because you're so emotionally invested in trying to insult me. Something I'm missing here? Stranger danger incoming. ...
Or tell me some more. Can you sketch out your hatred of Duderino? Lol

You can't keep losing your shit every time someone contradicts you and then play the ironic "above it all" routine.
It stretches the boundaries of credibility.

 

[Myriads]

Cut the off topic cross talk or moderation will happen.

Myriads

 

[Oddjob0226]

Do you really think there are people like that?

Yes. A couple where one person wants everything "normal" in a regular relationship, plus a fetish addressed (and, philosophically, having your needs met is part of a regular relationship) while the other half of the couple wants the "everything" but doesn't want the fetish part, even though they both connect on everything else. So someone would have to compromise, and since fetishes really don't go away on their own, at least one person will probably always have to deal with an emotionally fragile spot in the relationship. Either the fetish person going without, or having to go outside of the relationship to feel wholly normal; or the anti-fetish person giving in and indulging in something that individual is uncomfortable with, all the while the other partner is aware of that. Marriages have ended over this, and making it a simple "masterbation aid" argument ignores the complexities of humans, and the further complexities of their couplings.