Would people be interested in a tickle party in NC?

[porcelaindoll2]

https://fetlife.com/groups/66610
You must attend a munch to get vetted before you can attend one of our general BDSM all kinks/fetishes welcomed parties. I have completely given up on the idea of a tickle party, but if anyone actually manages to round up people and needs a space contact me. I'm done dealing with you guys.

 

[VABelly_Tickler]

I would be interested. I am in Raleigh and would love to see something in the state tickling related.

 

[Tabby_Cat]

I would honestly be very interested, I'm in the coastal area. I wouldn't be able to travel, but it would still be fun to at least hear about. There are really only a few people around my town interested in anything tickling related that I have found (and they don't seem too nice--that is, not respecting limits or never replying), and it would be nice to meet other (nicer) people into the fetish.

 

[quietguy]

I would be very interested too! In SC, but don't mind driving, esp. on a weekend.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Okay here's what I'm not understanding I don't understand why tickle people feel that it has to be a tickle event or they're not going to show or don't want to show. I have already been hosting play parties for a while now and I've been posting about them in the past, but only one tickle guy has shown. I understand that people have to be vetted now, but when they first got started that wasn't a rule and no one showed up plus they were always usually on a Saturday. To the honest I may or may not try to start a tickle event anymore because a) I don't think there are enough people, b) I think we're too spread out, and c) There doesn't seem to be that many females either. Yes I know that a female commented on the thread, but she commented to let everyone know she can't make it, but would love to hear about it. Yes my parties are general BDSM parties, but what that means is all kinks and fetishes are welcomed plus I have constantly said over and over that I will make sure you will not be judged or feel uncomfortable for being into tickling. That being said if you're worried you're going to see something that's going to make you feel uncomfortable or turned off then I hate to break it to you, but I'm into way more than just tickling, so I can't guarantee that there won't be a possibility that even if it is a tickling event you might witness something else other than tickling. I'm sorry but I'm not going to be making my tickle events with a rule strictly enforcing that it has to be nothing but tickling.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Yeah if you would like to attend one of the House Parties I'm already throwing then you will have to attend a Mooresville area kinksters munch to get vetted.

 

[CapturedDoll]

At this point... I swear I'm going to start a pick up service and escort (capture...? 😉 ) people to the various places. I want to host as well. And have been looking into renting out "Club Kink" in Jacksonville for an evening. But I would need to crowdfund it first off. And... I don't see the point in even starting a thread about it because I don't see anyone really pushing to make it happen except you porcelaindoll and Tampa. So.. Idk... maybe I should just crowdfund for a used limosine or nice van... and just pick up every single one of you along 1-95!!! LOL!!!

I don't myself enjoy the thought of non ticklephiles watching but yet I'm already use to the BDSM crowd as having gone to BDSM nights once a month. I was into pain for a time and so... I know whats its like and... everyone was always very kind to each other for the most part (I put aside tickling for many years... on the far backburner. I never played live with Tickling.) . So... what I have come to realize to break out of my comfort zone, I have to look at it like... Other BDSM folk may learn something from us if their interest is peaked once they see it live. If they don't.... they WON'T be WATCHING at ALL. And doing their own thing. We have to give others in the BDSM community a bit more credit in the understanding and "cool with it" department. Or else... well... no play might indeed be the reality as it stands now. Or... we all crowdfund and rent space. We cannot have it both ways it seems to me on the face of it. So... I suggest everyone things about what they'll be doing with the Santa money you get... and next year... we all start figuring out what we can do to enjoy some tickle time. I NEED IT. Flat out. I'd be willing to drive to N.C at least once a year. And... if more locations like Cub Kink... maybe the Woodshed in Orlando... hell... beach meet ups at various beaches along the coast.. We have to explore different and MANY various locations. Different settings. And... we just need to all discuss it. And put our heads together. Like I said... I'll drive. Or... take a Greyhound. Whatever it takes but... to be safe.. to have the money... people need to understand how to plan ahead. And have more options to think about in ways of transportation, hotels, food etc. Pitching in etc. Building up comfort levels... etc.

So... N.C, S.C, and FL. Combined between all of us... think about what I said here over the holidays. And into next year. I know I'll be getting a car soon anyway. And traveling to different events is something I fully intend on doing.

 

[quietguy]

Well, I for one would be all for some kind of combined tickle meet up and absolutely willing to support that, Captured. I think it’s a great idea. I don’t know how many people there are, and I guess we’re a bit spread out (I’m in coastal SC), but hell, it’s not that far really to get to FL or NC or even GA. What’s a few hours lol.

Porcelain, appreciate you posting about the parties. I have no problem seeing other things and not really concerned about being judged either. But you know everyone has limited time, and for me at least if I am going to make a trip, I guess it would just be nice to know that tickling is on the menu so to speak, and more than just an appetizer or two. I mean yeah, I can go to a steakhouse and maybe find some seafood, but if I want seafood, I’d be much more inclined to go to a seafood restaurant, if you know what I’m saying. Otherwise it’s just kind of a tease. Sorry for all the food metaphors btw. I’m hungry 🙂

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Well, I for one would be all for some kind of combined tickle meet up and absolutely willing to support that, Captured. I think it’s a great idea. I don’t know how many people there are, and I guess we’re a bit spread out (I’m in coastal SC), but hell, it’s not that far really to get to FL or NC or even GA. What’s a few hours lol.

Porcelain, appreciate you posting about the parties. I have no problem seeing other things and not really concerned about being judged either. But you know everyone has limited time, and for me at least if I am going to make a trip, I guess it would just be nice to know that tickling is on the menu so to speak, and more than just an appetizer or two. I mean yeah, I can go to a steakhouse and maybe find some seafood, but if I want seafood, I’d be much more inclined to go to a seafood restaurant, if you know what I’m saying. Otherwise it’s just kind of a tease. Sorry for all the food metaphors btw. I’m hungry 🙂

Tell me what party you've attended where play was guaranteed? I feel in order for that to happen you would have to be paying for play. If you think play is guaranteed at regular play parties then your view point is really messed up.

*Edit* I may have jumped the gun on how I read what you wrote. I am assuming you're saying you'd not want to show unless it was a tickle only event because then at least you'll know everyone there will be into same thing, thus increasing your chances of tickle play. Even if it is a tickle only event that doesn't mean play will happen or that I or any other female in attendance has to feel forced to play. Part of the reason I'm pretty much shelving this idea is because I don't want to deal with a sausage fest of horny tickle deprived men and finding females into this fetish feels like finding a needle in a haystack sometimes.

 

[quietguy]

Tell me what party you've attended where play was guaranteed? I feel in order for that to happen you would have to be paying for play. If you think play is guaranteed at regular play parties then your view point is really messed up.

*Edit* I may have jumped the gun on how I read what you wrote. I am assuming you're saying you'd not want to show unless it was a tickle only event because then at least you'll know everyone there will be into same thing, thus increasing your chances of tickle play. Even if it is a tickle only event that doesn't mean play will happen or that I or any other female in attendance has to feel forced to play. Part of the reason I'm pretty much shelving this idea is because I don't want to deal with a sausage fest of horny tickle deprived men and finding females into this fetish feels like finding a needle in a haystack sometimes.

Thank you for the edit. Yes, I did not mean to imply I expected anything guaranteed. Basically I’m just interested in meeting other tickle people. And yes, ultimately I would be interested in play, but I realize that depends on a number of variables, on both sides of the equation. Certainly wouldn’t want anyone to feel forced or pressured. I guess the male-female ratios are a perpetual problem. Not really sure what the solution is there. That is less of a problem at more general bdsm gatherings I take it?

I guess my thinking was if it was broadened to more of a Southeast gathering and we could find some kind of location that was relatively easy for people, along the lines of what Captured was saying, maybe that would help. But of course there may just not be enough of us around and/or willing to actually make it happen. I don’t know. Anyway, was just trying to voice support for some version of that idea. Was not trying to be antagonistic. I’m sorry if it came off that way.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

Yeah something like NEST I guess for the South? Yeah if someone else wants to do that be my guest that's too much work. Anywho I'm pretty much done with the idea of having a tickle party. My parties will still be here if anyone ever wants to attend send me a private message. Or if anyone ever manages to get enough tickle people together and needs a place to host contact me as well.

To answer your question quietguy yes the ratio of male to female is way above and beyond better at general kink parties vs. fetish specific parties.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

If you would like to be vetted for a Mooresville Area Kinkster's party here is the info on our next munch.
https://fetlife.com/events/627247

 

[jonsmith]

You guys are super serious about this...this is pretty complicated. No wonder there seems to be such difficulty in creating these events.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

^ Yep