your thoughts on "putting it out there..."

[steph]

So has anyone else noticed this, just like, in your every day life? I'm standing in line at the cafeteria in the hospital and my favorite cashier, Omar, is walking up behind me. I could see him out of the corner of my eye. He's a silly, playful guy and I thought he was going to yank on my ponytail or something like that. Instead, what does he do? Before I can do anything about it, he puts a hand on each side of my ribcage (and this almost NEVER works on me!) and gives me the perfect squeeze. I squealed so loud the 9 people who were standing in front of me all turned around to stare. He's jamming towards the kitchen so it looks like I'm some crazy employee who just randomly squealed for no apparent reason and I said, "I swear O, you are SO going to pay for that!" He's laughing and saying, "promises, promises."

Now this is someone I'd NEVER discuss the interest with in real life! Does anyone else think that somehow we MUST be subconsciously giving off some kind of "tickle me" vibe??
Discuss amongst yourselves friends...I'd love to hear your thoughts!
XOXO

 

[Oddjob0226]

I've noticed something like that, too. I've had people make comments, or throw things out there about fetishistic subjects I'm interested in, and wonder "how do they know"? even though they don't, and it was probabaly just a random thing.

However, it is indeed possible that we are, without knowing it or meaning to, putting out something subconsciously a signal of some kind, that most non-fetishistic people don't pick up on, but another perv like us might.... even though that person might also be unaware that they have abviously picked up on anything. I mean, even in the most repressive societies, gay people still manage to find each other and get together. It's like a sense that people who are into things different than the norm have, even though we don't even know it. Occassionally, we 'find' one another, without even realizing it how, or that someone else is even 'out there'.

And it's possible that Omar is here on the TMF and figured out who you are. Ain't like you're shy.

 

[milagros317]

Maybe it's just good luck, Steph.

 

[gr369]

Hmm..

You're the daring type, Steph, maybe you should go for it. The odds are if O has a computer he's seen this site, and if he really said 'promises...' then he's major flirting with you and is interested in being naughty. Besides, you probably provoked him with that magic 'tickling' scent you were exuding. If your eye contact and smile are as wonderfully suggestive as your online persona, then the cat has most likely been let out of the bag long ago 🙂

 

[steph]

Thanks guys!

Funny Oddjob!

Maybe Mil
Actually it's kind of funny, hospitals are famous for being such conservative places...I've had lots of little scenes like this one happen to me there in the last few months~weird.

Hee hee gr369~Well, he's the flirty type with every girl. Nice guy but I'm not interested in pursuing anything like THAT with him. Thanks for being so sweet though!
XOXO

 

[Dr. Bill Kobb]

I've had alotta weird coincidental type occurances like that, too, Steph!

The strangest happened quite awhile back, in the early `80's, when I was working in an import shop. I forget how it came up, but this cute blonde chick who was about my age at the time sez: "Maybe we should tie Bill up and tickle him with the ting-tings*".
I nearly fainted. I must've been red as a beet.
For a long time after that, I wanted to somehow approach her on the subject, but she was married to a total psychopath, and it seemed best to just leave it alone.




*Ting-tings were these long dried-leaf floral arrangement thingies.

 

[ticklkitten]

Happens to me pretty often in the hospital with people who I am relatively sure have NO idea.... Probably about once a week someone will sneak in a tickle!

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

Angela from work tickles me all the time, she usually starts with my ribs

 

[TickledToDeath]

Sounds like something to me!

Give it a shot. One never knows.............

 

[Brookie]

A guy who used to work for me was quite outgoing and friendly....some of the ladies, who he was, and still is today, most friendly with, found out he was ticklish and they attacked him any time they could. All they had to do is raise a single finger and approach his ribs and he smiles and backs up.

In this case tickling was for fun.... I think.

 

[fitnesstickle]

So has anyone else noticed this, just like, in your every day life? I'm standing in line at the cafeteria in the hospital and my favorite cashier, Omar, is walking up behind me. I could see him out of the corner of my eye. He's a silly, playful guy and I thought he was going to yank on my ponytail or something like that. Instead, what does he do? Before I can do anything about it, he puts a hand on each side of my ribcage (and this almost NEVER works on me!) and gives me the perfect squeeze. I squealed so loud the 9 people who were standing in front of me all turned around to stare. He's jamming towards the kitchen so it looks like I'm some crazy employee who just randomly squealed for no apparent reason and I said, "I swear O, you are SO going to pay for that!" He's laughing and saying, "promises, promises."

Now this is someone I'd NEVER discuss the interest with in real life! Does anyone else think that somehow we MUST be subconsciously giving off some kind of "tickle me" vibe??
Discuss amongst yourselves friends...I'd love to hear your thoughts!
XOXO

How could anyone resist the temptation to try to tickle that sexy body of yours my MUSE ? Your vivacious playfulness probably signals your need to be tickled.

 

[Feathery]

Your entry reminded me of an embarrassing experience I had years ago, although it's kind of funny to think back on it now. I was dating a girl, and we agreed to meet at a bar after work. Some of her friends were going to join us, and since we just started dating, I had not met them yet. So, I enter the establishment, and I see a young woman who I assumed was my date, standing at the bar talking to some people. She had her back to me, but looked exactly like my new girlfriend... same hair, figure, etc. I was feeling a bit randy, thinking I'd surprise her, and so I sneaked up behind her and goosed her ribs a little. She jumped a mile off the floor, shrieking! Well, my jaw completely dropped and I could feel myself turn beet red when she turned to me, revealing the fact that she was not my date at all... but a perfect stranger! At first she was a bit angry, but after explaining the situation and a million apologies, she calmed down. In fact she kind of smiled and seemed quite ok about it! Of course, then I thought...hmmmmmm!

So has anyone else noticed this, just like, in your every day life? I'm standing in line at the cafeteria in the hospital and my favorite cashier, Omar, is walking up behind me. I could see him out of the corner of my eye. He's a silly, playful guy and I thought he was going to yank on my ponytail or something like that. Instead, what does he do? Before I can do anything about it, he puts a hand on each side of my ribcage (and this almost NEVER works on me!) and gives me the perfect squeeze. I squealed so loud the 9 people who were standing in front of me all turned around to stare. He's jamming towards the kitchen so it looks like I'm some crazy employee who just randomly squealed for no apparent reason and I said, "I swear O, you are SO going to pay for that!" He's laughing and saying, "promises, promises."

Now this is someone I'd NEVER discuss the interest with in real life! Does anyone else think that somehow we MUST be subconsciously giving off some kind of "tickle me" vibe??
Discuss amongst yourselves friends...I'd love to hear your thoughts!
XOXO

 

[BigBrownEyes]

This is a good topic. But I think it should be called "do others just know...," or something like that.

There's a girl in the office, who seems to like me, but neither of us have pushed it too far. One day, she started talking about a big cop that she thought was sexy. She said "he can strip search me any time he wants. I even have my own handcuffs under my bed." Then he put her hands out like she was handcuffed and smiled at me. She added "and not the small ones, but the big heavy ones." The comment was out-of-the-blue because I sure never it brought the topic up before.

She has really pretty feet and wears sandles around the office in the summer. I was talking to her one day and she suddenly kicked off her sandles and started walking around barefoot right in front of me. She just about drove me nuts with that one!

She found a cartoon on the internet where the Pilsbury Dounghboy gets poked in the stomach, laughs hysterically, then has an accident. Afterwards, she brought it up repeatedly. That's about the only tickle reference that she's made. Not great, but still a reference.

But based on her actions, I've always wondered if she sensed something. Do we have something written all over our faces?

 

[Em Es]

Nonverbal communication

Steph, if most communication is nonverbal, perhaps Omar and you communicate better than you'd suspect. Any update since your first post?

Cool little story, I must add. Thanks!

 

[steph]

Hi Em~thanks, I shared it because I thought it was cute too~quick, playful, innocent. You know what? Similar incidents have happened there with several different guys, more than any place I've worked in my LIFE (hence the impetus for the question... 😀 )

Well, you may be right about O, but he (like all the other guys mentioned above) are just work pals, nobody I'd ever think of private sessioning with, so nope, no update...
XOXO

Steph, if most communication is nonverbal, perhaps Omar and you communicate better than you'd suspect. Any update since your first post?

Cool little story, I must add. Thanks!

 

[chrisheaven]

great topic, Steph
Most communication is indeed non verbal and I'm sure we give out these thoughts we have until someone who is also receptive to them just picks up on them and..............tickle!!