Aftercare after a session - whether it's soft or intense - is SERIOUSLY important!
I'm not just talking about having a conversation after it's over. I mean comforting! Cuddling, giving water to a Lee, massages, reassurance, asking how they are, what they enjoyed, what they didn't. What could the ler do differently so that they can enjoy it better next time, what the ler did that they liked and want them to continue.
Foot worship, Belly worship, body worship!
Giving a Lee a massage till they fall asleep.
Things like that gives so much to a Lee/sub. They don't feel that crash once everything is over.
Aftercare, in my opinion should be mandatory in all acts of play. At least in my sessions.
I'm not just talking about having a conversation after it's over. I mean comforting! Cuddling, giving water to a Lee, massages, reassurance, asking how they are, what they enjoyed, what they didn't. What could the ler do differently so that they can enjoy it better next time, what the ler did that they liked and want them to continue.
Foot worship, Belly worship, body worship!
Giving a Lee a massage till they fall asleep.
Things like that gives so much to a Lee/sub. They don't feel that crash once everything is over.
Aftercare, in my opinion should be mandatory in all acts of play. At least in my sessions.
