I'm going to start doing these if i have questions about sessions or play. Any experiences and people involved will remain anonymous
I have a question for Lers:
With hard tickling, do you use firm force? Or do you change how much pressure depending on the Lee?
Because I had a session with someone I met here on Fetlife (He's since been blocked) and well...
My tummy, ribs, hips, inner thighs, knees, arms & wrists were sore and severely bruised. To the point where I winced when I took a breath. It hurt to move in any way.
He tickled me hard and... it hurt. Like a lot. I didn't safeword. But I did verbally say "ow" or "not too hard." He would lighten up for like a minute or two, then he would go right back to the hard digging and squeezes.
Like deep tissue massage-like tickling. The nibbles weren't even tickly nibbles - painfully pinching bites.
The aftercare was no better. was just him rubbing my stomach and letting me breathe... his just sat there and stared down at me... I'm really sore, and it even hurts to breathe at times .
I told him prior to the session that hard tickles that causes bruising is a hard limit. He'd ask me if I was OK, I'd tell that it hurt. He lightened the pressure... for a few minutes. Then he'd go right back to tickling me hard
I have a question for Lers:
With hard tickling, do you use firm force? Or do you change how much pressure depending on the Lee?
Because I had a session with someone I met here on Fetlife (He's since been blocked) and well...
My tummy, ribs, hips, inner thighs, knees, arms & wrists were sore and severely bruised. To the point where I winced when I took a breath. It hurt to move in any way.
He tickled me hard and... it hurt. Like a lot. I didn't safeword. But I did verbally say "ow" or "not too hard." He would lighten up for like a minute or two, then he would go right back to the hard digging and squeezes.
Like deep tissue massage-like tickling. The nibbles weren't even tickly nibbles - painfully pinching bites.
The aftercare was no better. was just him rubbing my stomach and letting me breathe... his just sat there and stared down at me... I'm really sore, and it even hurts to breathe at times .
I told him prior to the session that hard tickles that causes bruising is a hard limit. He'd ask me if I was OK, I'd tell that it hurt. He lightened the pressure... for a few minutes. Then he'd go right back to tickling me hard
