Feeling a little philosophical. Let me pose some questions and share my thoughts, and I’d love to hear your rebuttals/alternate opinions!
So I never really tickle my friends at all. A few weeks ago a couple of my friends were tickling this girl and I did not join in or watch. For me, it’s an ethical issue. Tickling is a fetish of mine and seeing it turns me on. My friends don’t know this. Therefore, me tickling them would be me getting off to them without them knowing which is wrong in my opinion. This is different from just masturbating to the thought of them because there’s a physical aspect to it that they didn’t consent to. Imagining something shouldn’t require consent, but real life activity always requires consent. So here’s my question:
Is it right to tickle someone playfully if they don’t know about your fetish?
Here are a few others:
Is it right to watch someone get tickled if they don’t know about your fetish?
Is it right to tickle a significant other with whom you’re in a sexual relationship without them knowing about your fetish?
And here’s where it gets muddy.
Is it right to not fight back when someone tickles you if they don’t know it’s getting you off?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!
So I never really tickle my friends at all. A few weeks ago a couple of my friends were tickling this girl and I did not join in or watch. For me, it’s an ethical issue. Tickling is a fetish of mine and seeing it turns me on. My friends don’t know this. Therefore, me tickling them would be me getting off to them without them knowing which is wrong in my opinion. This is different from just masturbating to the thought of them because there’s a physical aspect to it that they didn’t consent to. Imagining something shouldn’t require consent, but real life activity always requires consent. So here’s my question:
Is it right to tickle someone playfully if they don’t know about your fetish?
Here are a few others:
Is it right to watch someone get tickled if they don’t know about your fetish?
Is it right to tickle a significant other with whom you’re in a sexual relationship without them knowing about your fetish?
And here’s where it gets muddy.
Is it right to not fight back when someone tickles you if they don’t know it’s getting you off?
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!