mrlaskoskotacz
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- Joined
- Apr 29, 2011
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I must admit that I don't understand something about this chatroom, and what seems obvious for others, but not for me.
I know that there exist suggestion that you should ask first in main chatroom before you PM someone, but... I already almost everyday from month in chatroom and never saw that someone ask anyone in chatroom request to PM. So, what's going on?
I learned that and I don't PM anyone, because I don't want to be consider as creep or something, but sometimes someone PM me and never ask in main chatroom in the first place. But, of course, I don't scream on this people, because I am on chatroom, because I want to... chat...
It that really hard to just close the window, or say that you don't want to talk, or ignore person? We really must create this strange rule, what no one, as I see it, obey? Because, in my opinion, this rule only create image of creep people in someone's mind, just because someone say "hey". I don't see any benefits from this rule.
Of course, maybe I am wrong and from perspective of women this can look differently, but I genuinely don't know how.
I know that there exist suggestion that you should ask first in main chatroom before you PM someone, but... I already almost everyday from month in chatroom and never saw that someone ask anyone in chatroom request to PM. So, what's going on?
I learned that and I don't PM anyone, because I don't want to be consider as creep or something, but sometimes someone PM me and never ask in main chatroom in the first place. But, of course, I don't scream on this people, because I am on chatroom, because I want to... chat...
It that really hard to just close the window, or say that you don't want to talk, or ignore person? We really must create this strange rule, what no one, as I see it, obey? Because, in my opinion, this rule only create image of creep people in someone's mind, just because someone say "hey". I don't see any benefits from this rule.
Of course, maybe I am wrong and from perspective of women this can look differently, but I genuinely don't know how.