MrChippiesTMF
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As much as I hate to admit it but we ain't getting any younger or prettier (with the exception of maybe Chicago who seems to be doing the opposite). Most of the people I know IRL and on here are of a similar age where they are either in relationships, have kids, commitments, starting to grow out of this (if that's a correct way of putting it) and generally meet ups are becoming more difficult with both existing friends and potential new ones.
I feel a bit iffy about striking up conversations with a lot of the newer members. I'm a little old fashioned and think that an age gap is not necessarily an issue, but should be taken into account (e.g what possible stuff am I going to have in common with a 21 year old) and there is always the risk that depsite the best of intentions, coming across as "that creepy older dude" to someone 10 years younger than you.
Im curious as to other early/mid/late 30 somethings who havent had the amazing luck of ending up with a partner who is a lee feel about this? Does this aspect of your life still factor as a big deal or are you happy for it to exist as an online thing with the slim chance of occasional action some time. Those in relationships, would you still meet up with people for tickle fun given the chance?
for general information purposes I'm 31 and have been in a relationship for 6 years with someone who doesnt know about this aspect of me, i have no desire to involve in this kind of stuff and who I would not consider cheating on while at the same time do not see a tickle session with someone as being cheating so would not have a problem meeting up with others (I know others may not agree with this but for me, all sessions I have had so far have been clothed, no funny business and usually end up in a giggly mess with a pint at the local watering hole with a very very platonic mate at the end of it).
I feel a bit iffy about striking up conversations with a lot of the newer members. I'm a little old fashioned and think that an age gap is not necessarily an issue, but should be taken into account (e.g what possible stuff am I going to have in common with a 21 year old) and there is always the risk that depsite the best of intentions, coming across as "that creepy older dude" to someone 10 years younger than you.
Im curious as to other early/mid/late 30 somethings who havent had the amazing luck of ending up with a partner who is a lee feel about this? Does this aspect of your life still factor as a big deal or are you happy for it to exist as an online thing with the slim chance of occasional action some time. Those in relationships, would you still meet up with people for tickle fun given the chance?
for general information purposes I'm 31 and have been in a relationship for 6 years with someone who doesnt know about this aspect of me, i have no desire to involve in this kind of stuff and who I would not consider cheating on while at the same time do not see a tickle session with someone as being cheating so would not have a problem meeting up with others (I know others may not agree with this but for me, all sessions I have had so far have been clothed, no funny business and usually end up in a giggly mess with a pint at the local watering hole with a very very platonic mate at the end of it).