The Guys ask ALL your female related Questions to nessonite/Mistress Valerie Thread

[tummynavelboy]

I'll start off...


Dear nessonite

Why do you Girls like teasing us Guys? why o why!?

 

[nessonite1]

I know there isn't enough room in the subject header but we must not forget the other wonderful females on this forum who can answer your questions on the mysteries of the female.
It's a good idea though and I'd be happy to help if I can.
So Dear BellyButtonsRoc,
Girls like teasing guys because guys like being teased. Simple as that. Honestly would it be fun at all if every girl you saw jumped all over you and made your every fantasy come true? Sure it'd be fun for a little while but it would be like winning every game of cards you ever played. Getting what you want is not always what you really want. At least not every simgle time.
The other answer of course is that girls LIKE to do the teasing. There's nothing more fun than making a guy good and truly frustrated.
What I like to do is "just in case" teasing. I'll sit in a coffee shop, at the mall, wherever while I'm wearing a really cute pair of shoes that are easy to slip on and off (I have a ton of these). Then I just play around with them. "Just in case" one of you beautiful wonderful foot men is watching. And I know there are a lot of you out there. Next live show, Rockaway Townsquare Mall...
LOL

 

[michal1]

OK...Here is my question:

Why do girls fight so furiously when someone tries to tickle them (sometimes being a tickler can be very painful)?

 

[nessonite1]

Well if she really does NOT want to be tickled it can elicit a very violent responce. To be fair tickling is a very intimate thing and if you're doing it to someone who really doesn't want it it would be the same as if you came up to her and grabbed her boob or something.
Now even if she does enjoy it and she fights you violently then it's also possible that it's completely involuntary. As a general rule girls are more sensitive and less likely to try to hold back any reaction. It is more socially acceptable for girls to succumb to the tickling than it is for the guys since girls are not brought up to try to be overly macho.

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

ohhh.... I wanna answer a question...I wanna feel important.

 

[nessonite1]

Go for it! I'm sure these boys have enough questions to keep us all busy for a very long time!

 

[Jaynin]

I need to think of a good question, because I know I have them, just can't remember them right now. >.>

 

[alf1]

Hey that thread is a nice idea.........but why should we ask questions to those girls only Belly Button Roc ? Why ? Oh why ? Why it is like that ? What is that forum about ? Who are we really ? Why night is dark ? Why am i asking questions ?
Why my glass is........hey it's empty.....oh damn LOL.......oh i think i have digressed a little bit, but reasonably........i used the work "ask" from that thread.Not bad.

 

[MayDay1]

ohhh.... I wanna answer a question...I wanna feel important.

Here ya go:
What do you think when you go to forums like this and see that a vast majority of the content shows women as the ticklee? Do you enjoy seeing other females being tickled? Also do you think there might be some mysogeny in some of us guys who seem to enjoy talking about tickling someone until she screams/cries/begs/pees/faints/calls the cops/whatever?

 

[tummynavelboy]

Hey that thread is a nice idea.........but why should we ask questions to those girls only Belly Button Roc ? Why ? Oh why ? Why it is like that ? What is that forum about ? Who are we really ? Why night is dark ? Why am i asking questions ?
Why my glass is........hey it's empty.....oh damn LOL.......oh i think i have digressed a little bit, but reasonably........i used the work "ask" from that thread.Not bad.

Because i didn't think the space provided for the heading would allow me to include all Females on this wonderful forum

 

[nessonite1]

What do you think when you go to forums like this and see that a vast majority of the content shows women as the ticklee? Do you enjoy seeing other females being tickled?

The answer to this will vary a lot depending on who you ask but I'll give you my personal answer. When I came here I knew the majority of the content would be */f as it is on most tickling sites. I understand this is because most of the people who come online looking for fetish related material are male. Nothing wrong with that. Supply and demand.
Do I like to see women being tickled? That all depends. If it's real I'm all for it. If there is anything to suggest that it's fake then I'd pass it up in a heart beat. Same goes for */m. I don't much care for f/f because the majority of it seems to be super model fetish porn. I don't care for nudity really and I don't like substituting quality for eye candy.
m/f in general tends to be a bit more real and I do like the dynamic and the slight sexual overtones that exsist there. That and I enjoy watching male 'lers. I like men in general and seeing a man as part of the tickling (whether ler or lee) is better than watching two girls because frankly I'm not into women.

Also do you think there might be some mysogeny in some of us guys who seem to enjoy talking about tickling someone until she screams/cries/begs/pees/faints/calls the cops/whatever?

To be honest, not really. I know there are some guys out there who are freaky enough to be serious about it and maybe I have too much trust in human nature but I like to believe that for the most part you guys are very respectful and if you were to carry out your torturous fantasies that it would be consentual. When I see posts about merciless torturous tickling fantasies I know that the majority of it is just fantasy and you're not a bunch of fanatical tickle-rapists.
I don't believe that given the opportunity where you had a girl bound and at your mercy that you would really tickle her until she passes out or sustains massive physical or mental trauma.

 

[MistressValerie1]

Here ya go:
What do you think when you go to forums like this and see that a vast majority of the content shows women as the ticklee? Do you enjoy seeing other females being tickled? Also do you think there might be some mysogeny in some of us guys who seem to enjoy talking about tickling someone until she screams/cries/begs/pees/faints/calls the cops/whatever?

Honestly? It gives me the creeps, not only because I am a dominant female, but also because I don't care for non-consenting stuff, even if it were a female doing it to a male captive.

For me, it's the sub's voluntary submission that makes it a turn-on Likewise, it's the personal self-control and self-discipline that makes a true dominant, as opposed to a true sociopath.

Luv to all,

 

[MistressValerie1]

I'll start off...

Why do you Girls like teasing us Guys? why o why!?

I'm flattered to be included in the thread title; thanks

The real answer to that one from a tickle-mistress' point of view is that we girls get excited as we sense our own erotic power, and tickling is a form of "erotic keep-away," as one expert put it. We like to touch you guys in an intimate, but socially approved, way, making you laugh helplessly and turning you on at the same time It makes us feel very sexy

As much as I love tickling girls, tickling guys is a bigger turn-on for me because of the percieved greater strength of the male.

Luv,

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

Here ya go:
What do you think when you go to forums like this and see that a vast majority of the content shows women as the ticklee? Do you enjoy seeing other females being tickled? Also do you think there might be some mysogeny in some of us guys who seem to enjoy talking about tickling someone until she screams/cries/begs/pees/faints/calls the cops/whatever?

Well considering that I've been coming to this site since I was not old enough to be here....lol.... :happy: I knew from the start that this was a f/f site. I like seeing other females tickled only when it's not too sexual. I enjoy watching the playful side of the tickling. To answer your second question, maybe some slight mysogeny in some of the guys. I dont know any guys who ENJOY talking about other Males unless they were homosexual. (Although I dont agree with homosexuality, to each his own). Guys like being the dominant sex, and some are a little intimidated by women who like to be the dominant sex. So it's only natural to converse with other males about the female being dominated.

How did I do? Did I answer your question? If not, I'll never answer another question again ( for fear of embarassment).


And thanx to Nessie for stealing my only question :snob:

 

[nessonite1]

Sorry love! Nothing says there can't be 2 or 3 or 4 or more answers to one question. It's always best to get multiple points of view. The guys see the world in 2 dimentions enough as it is!
I can't help it though...I'm here like 24 hours a day.

 

[His Divine Shadow]

LOL, do you males truely want to know the answers to all questions?

 

[AphxA1]

some things are best left unknown

 

[Jaynin]

Amen to that. Besides, some things just are.

 

[MayDay1]

How did I do? Did I answer your question? If not, I'll never answer another question again ( for fear of embarassment).

You gave your honest answer and that's all I really ask for. Don't feel like you have to give an answer that everybody wants to hear. If someone gets torqued that's their own problem. Have a ginchy day!

 

[nessonite1]

Indeed. If anyone is just wanting us to say what they want to hear then they shouldn't be asking questions. If that made sense. C'mon boys, ask another. We're enjoying this

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

I got a question: Why do women make themselves so hard to read that guys do not know when to flirt and when to leave alone. Guys are pretty simple. we show signs like drooling and flowers when we like a girl, but yet women remain so cold and calculated that most males do not know when it is okay to flirt and ask for a date.

 

[nessonite1]

I assure you HB that it is not intentional. Women are by nature more complicated creatures. We give signs as well that we probably think are rather obvious but guys just dont seem to pick up on.
Also keep in mind that a lot of women are highly insecure. Whether it's true or not we feel like we are constantly being compared to the magazine girls that guys like to ogle. So we may be thinking "Yeah he's interested now but only as a cheap substitution to what he really wants" (ie 5'10" 110 lb blonde playboy bunny)
I will add further to me 'insecurity' theory by pointing out that the first thing I thought when I read your question was "How would I know? No guy has ever shown an interest in me for me to explain my reactions"
bahhh
Maybe Val ought to take this.

 

[Iluv2Btickled]

That question is out of my league. I dont have experience with guys ( who are mature enough) who show likeness to me in that manner :-((

 

[tummynavelboy]

Why do some Girls keep going back to there Ex boyfriends when thier Ex's cheat on them are mean to them etc...? This i do NOT for the life of me understand how Girls can do such a thing. its sad

 

[nessonite1]

It may sound lame but a lot of it can be atributed to the "I can change him" theory. Women who are attracted to abusive relationships tend to see their partners as the tragic misunderstood bad boy.
The other answer is that some women who can't seem to stay away from bad relationships grew up with an abulsive fatherstepfather/whatever and they quite simply can't imagine living any other way. They either don't think they are worthy of a decent relationship or they don't believe that they exist. This would be the "I deserve it" theory.
Or depending on the situation it could be any combination of the two.
Women who trap themselves in that sort of self destructive behavior usually have issues that run deeper than those of their abuse partners.