That is why it is NOT wrong in EVERY SINGLE SITUATION.
You still seem to get that it is wrong to touch strangers period because you don't know how they will react! You don't know if they will be upset. So just don't touch them. That's all.
That is why it is NOT wrong in EVERY SINGLE SITUATION.
You still seem to get that it is wrong to touch strangers period because you don't know how they will react! You don't know if they will be upset. So just don't touch them. That's all.
Back to the subject. Not all touch is wrong. So if you are in a crowd and touching someone to help gesture them out the way would be considered wrong? And before you yammer that it is different, it is not. Read your words. "......it is wrong to TOUCH strangers...."
Rhiannon?? Where have you been? I was wondering what happened to you. A thread like this that went 14 pages and you are now just here? I hope you enjoyed your time away. Welcome back. I actually missed you. Got to love the back and forth battles.
Back to the subject. Not all touch is wrong. So if you are in a crowd and touching someone to help gesture them out the way would be considered wrong? And before you yammer that it is different, it is not. Read your words. "......it is wrong to TOUCH strangers...."
One thing I do a good bit is when I'm dealing with a woman I find very attractive, when I am handing her something I will let my hand touch hers. Yes, I'm touching her without consent. Yes I'm deriving pleasure from it. Is it wrong? Maybe a tiny bit.
Sure it's "different from sneaking up behind someone unsuspecting and tickling them." But not so different that it doesn't fall under the category of touching strangers to float one's boat, which you described not only as wrong, but especially wrong.This is a total different scenario though. A touch that happens out of interaction. Totally different from sneaking up behind someone unsuspecting and tickling them.
Did I miss something? If you touch a stranger in any kind of way, unless non intentionally without his permission it's bad. What's more to say on the topic?
...What amazes me is that people keep referencing the thread length as if intelectual discourse should be limited to a few scant points...
I manage a coffee shop/bakery that often gets really crowded. Last night, I was erasing a chalk board on the wall, you know the kind many restaurants and coffee shops use to display their menu specials? Right, so I'm erasing the chalk board with my back to the rest of the store, and I'm having to reach up kind of high. I guess I was in a vulnerable position because some creep thought it would be appropriate to come tickle my sides. I'm not joking. I felt, what was clearly two fingers tickling each of my sides, it wasn't incidental contact. When I turned around to see who it was, I saw a man quickly making his way to the door and out onto the street, his action clearly unnoticed by other customers in the shop.
Seriously, how does someone think this is acceptable? Some people might not consider this to be a big deal but I feel a bit violated. Has anyone else experienced anything like this?
Well... if you really want to debate this in a 'serious' way, it's fine by me. I am not a logician but being a mathematician, should be enough shouldn't it?For some people it may be that simple, to a logician I think it's more about the complexity of morals that tend to be infinatly deeper than "uh it's bad cause I said so.. Isn't that all that matters". What amazes me is that people keep referencing the thread length as if intelectual discourse should be limited to a few scant points. Sure some is silly and repetitive, but tens of thousands of pages have been written on some very obscure moral concepts. To think that we have exhausted human understanding of ... Well ANYTHING because we have reached page fifteen seems a bit odd to me.
Another morals expert layeth down the law!
No laws were broken.
Tickling is not against the law.
(show me a real law, not a flimsy interpretation)
The phrases "Right and wrong" are subjective.
The End.