Hopefully today was the last straw, in a situation that will finally end soon.
This has nothing to do with my relatives as I like to call them, but it is truly sick, and goes back to last summer.
I posted last summer how someone who I thought was close to me, but have since learned otherwise, lost their mother.
I went to the funeral/wake/viewing and was there four days.
A decision whom a friend (Who of course I will not name) thought I was going out of my way because of Covid.
After that I helped this person clean out their parents house for a whole weekend.
Again, nothing big. I wanted to help.
After that, this person was either angry, depressed, etc. They started calling me names. I used to let it roll off my back, rather than escalating it.
Those who know me are aware of the terrifying health problems I had last summer and fall due to my colonoscopy.
Quite frankly, I had more important things to worry about than getting into it with this person.
I had to cancel an appointment with this person on New Years, due to a personal matter that I'm best off not posting the details of.
Since then.
This person has met a woman, and claims they are getting married.
Since New Years. this person has.
Canceled plans they had with me for my birthday, and not acknowledged it, after we had always given each other gifts.
Today I was informed I am being what he calls. "Cut" from his wedding, due to finances.
Trust me, this person does not need to cut me due to that reason., If I disclosed their situation.,
They are just looking for any reason.. to screw me over.
I understand that this person was upset and depressed after the passing of their mother.
However, it did not mean that I should be their punching bag due to it.
I was so upset about their behavior that I disclosed it to my neurologist about what was going on with them,
My neurologist advised me at that time to end it.
I felt badly because they had just lost their mother, and did not want to start friction at that time.
Their behavior since then has been intolerable.
My neurologist felt that I should make short drift of this person, and that eventually it would end.
Unfortunately, it bas not ended.
To be honest, I have so many more pressing things to worry about than this person, that it is not worth the energy to have it out with them.
I canceled a few times last summer due to their abuse, and my health issues.
These cancels by this person, just show a complete lack of thought, for anyone but themselves, and arrogance.
I'm hopeful that this will just die out.
At one time I had very fond and close feeling for this person.
Now I feel little but disappointment, betrayal and anger.
Maybe putting this down will make me feel better.
For now, I'm going to focus on myself and my life.
Chances are the situation with this person is going to end sooner rather than later,
This has nothing to do with my relatives as I like to call them, but it is truly sick, and goes back to last summer.
I posted last summer how someone who I thought was close to me, but have since learned otherwise, lost their mother.
I went to the funeral/wake/viewing and was there four days.
A decision whom a friend (Who of course I will not name) thought I was going out of my way because of Covid.
After that I helped this person clean out their parents house for a whole weekend.
Again, nothing big. I wanted to help.
After that, this person was either angry, depressed, etc. They started calling me names. I used to let it roll off my back, rather than escalating it.
Those who know me are aware of the terrifying health problems I had last summer and fall due to my colonoscopy.
Quite frankly, I had more important things to worry about than getting into it with this person.
I had to cancel an appointment with this person on New Years, due to a personal matter that I'm best off not posting the details of.
Since then.
This person has met a woman, and claims they are getting married.
Since New Years. this person has.
Canceled plans they had with me for my birthday, and not acknowledged it, after we had always given each other gifts.
Today I was informed I am being what he calls. "Cut" from his wedding, due to finances.
Trust me, this person does not need to cut me due to that reason., If I disclosed their situation.,
They are just looking for any reason.. to screw me over.
I understand that this person was upset and depressed after the passing of their mother.
However, it did not mean that I should be their punching bag due to it.
I was so upset about their behavior that I disclosed it to my neurologist about what was going on with them,
My neurologist advised me at that time to end it.
I felt badly because they had just lost their mother, and did not want to start friction at that time.
Their behavior since then has been intolerable.
My neurologist felt that I should make short drift of this person, and that eventually it would end.
Unfortunately, it bas not ended.
To be honest, I have so many more pressing things to worry about than this person, that it is not worth the energy to have it out with them.
I canceled a few times last summer due to their abuse, and my health issues.
These cancels by this person, just show a complete lack of thought, for anyone but themselves, and arrogance.
I'm hopeful that this will just die out.
At one time I had very fond and close feeling for this person.
Now I feel little but disappointment, betrayal and anger.
Maybe putting this down will make me feel better.
For now, I'm going to focus on myself and my life.
Chances are the situation with this person is going to end sooner rather than later,
