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Same sex tickling if you're not gay? Opposite-sex tickling if you are?

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Those who are not gay, might you still enjoy tickle play with someone of the same sex?

I'll go first. For me, the answer is yes. I'm a man, and sometimes men turn me on. I don't have any desire to have sex with a man, because the particular acts of oral and anal sex don't have any appeal for me, but I can easily picture myself having some casual soft-core S&M play with another man, including tickling and spanking. With tickling, I'd gladly be either top or bottom; with spanking, I'm more of a wimp and would only want to be the top--and with a man, I think I might be a merciless sadist with a paddle. (Spanking a woman would be harder for me.) Mind you, I've never done any of this, so I'm only imagining.

I ask one favor of people. In this particular thread, please agree that, as long as we're only talking about acts between consenting adults, there is no right or wrong answer, and everybody can learn something about how different we all are from reading everybody else's reply. And do feel free to take the thread off into other directions if you like; for instance, gay people might like to talk about how much they like opposite-sex tickle play Again: No Right Or Wrong Answers!!!
 
All I'll say is there is a double-standard when it comes to men tickling men. Why? I dunno, but I believe it's a macho thing, and ego thing. But I don't see a problem with men tickling men as long as there's no sex involved😀
 
Consenting adults?

anything goes, for me...
XOXO
 
When I was a kid I remember tickling other male friends and it was nothing but good clean fun. Then girls popped into my life and something popped up in my pants which changed everything for me.

I have no problem with consenting males tickling each other. I've said this before in a similar thread and I'll repeat it here: As long as there are consenting women available who enjoy having me tickle them, I see no need for me to seek male ticklees or lers. In fact, just a few weeks ago, a male member of TMF (who shall remain nameless) asked me if I'd like to get together with him for a tickling session. As much as I desire to be tickled, I declined his offer. That's just something I'm not into. A gay friend asked me years ago, "How do you know you won't like being with a man unless you try it?" I responded, "Do I have to use heroin to find out if it'll get me high? I just know." Hope I didn't go off on another one of my tangents.

Tickling between males? If they're consenting and having fun, why not? Other males tickling me... only if the entire female population vanished into thin air.
 
I like to participate in F/m and m/f. I like to watch f/f. I don't participate or watch m/m, but I have no problem at all that some people do. 😀
 
Just to clarify, not to constrain anybody from going in other directions, but what I'm really curious about is what you'd personally enjoy doing. It's a voyeuristic question, I'm the first to admit.
 
Mark: If I might inquire, would you also personally enjoy having tickle play with a woman? I ask that, because I'm curious to know if people enjoy tickle play that's different from whatever their sexual preference is.
 
bravo dude,, i admire your honesty,, this world has many cultures and is very diverse,, never let anyone make you feel " judged" just because some may be terrified by ideas that dont fit into thier idea of the " norm ",,,ive been approached by many guy ticklers online and allthough i am not gay im always flattered by thier interest in wanting to tickle me,,if the tickling were non sexual and at a gathering where tickling were the focus,, hell,, id give it a shot!
 
Anyone who judges you because you like m/m tickling is probably dealing with their own sexual identity problems. I've heard it said before... he who speaks the loudest against homosexuality is probably harboring latent feelings in that direction himself. He's bought into the 'machismo' BS and uses that as a mask to cover up his soft side. Hell, I've seen guys who I thought were handsome but that doesn't mean I'm gay. Would I tickle them? I guess it depends on how much we've been drinking that night.
 
As for other people, whatever floats your boat 🙂 Guys tickling guys, girls tickling girls, whatever..for me personally, I prefer to only get involved with men. I get along great with girls, but unless it's one of my friends I've known my whole life, I'm VERY uncomfortable being tickled by another girl. Guys on the other hand 😉 come one come all! LOL
 
Skipadeedoodah said:
LOL! I'm flattered! Didn't know anyone would get so excited about tickling *me* :happyfloa

I don't want to risk hijacking this thread so I'll PM you, okay?
 
I wouldnt personally engage in m/m tickling with another guy, as this is my personal preference, but nor do I judge anyone who does. Iam a very accepting person. Whatever it is that others enjoy is their right, and they have a right to persue their own happiness and sexual satisfaction. Iam a very open minded person, and respect others rights to persue any tickling combination or sexual satisfaction that they wish.
This being said, and this shouldnt be surprising, while seeing m/m tickling would not in any way be a turn on to me, seeing f/f tickling would be, whether it be two straight females going at it, or two bisexual or lesbian females. Myself tickling a woman is of course the ultimate turn on, but I will admit that I can also get turned on by seeing a woman be tickled by another man, or even another woman. Iam guessing that Iam not the only guy who feels this way.
So, those are my viewpoints. Sorry, I hope I didnt go off on a tangent here. Back to the original point: For me, it wouldnt be a turn on to either engage in m/m tickling, or watch such, but if it turns other guys on, more power to them, as Iam not in any position to judge anyone.

Mitch
 
When I was younger, M/M tickling was an anathema to me. I would retch at the thought of it. Now, I've found certain M/M scenes to be kind of cool. Would I participate? Eventually, I probably would. So far, there's only one or two guys I would consider raising my arms to. One of them is Yaqi.
 
I personally get nauseous at the thought of two men tickling. if thats what your into, more power to you. but for myself, you couldnt pay me enough to even come close to tickling a man. and id be pissed if another man attempted to tickle me.
 
I'm not gay, but I would be into tickling or being tickled by a girl if a guy were watching/joining in. I would also be into watching two guys. For me to personally enjoy it a guy would need to be in the situation even if it is just watching.
~Kat
 
I don't think I would mind being tickled by a guy, if I was blindfolded to not see the guy, and had my ears packed with something so as not to hear the guy... and maybe a rubber suit on ... but if you get passed that, it's all good. =P

Nothing wrong with you people that do it, I would just prefer to be tickled by girls. Having not tried either, I would prefer to try with a girl first. =)
 
Looks Like Mark..

And ElectricEye are hitting it off quite nicely. Well done Benedict.

Tron
 
I am not gay...but I have seen some male soles I would love to tickle torture......and..if it makes the guy horny...well...so be it!
 
Excellent, please keep them coming. It's really educational to see what a wide variety of responses this gets.

If I were fine-tuning the question, I think my wording now would be, "Would you enjoy tickle play that goes contrary to your actual sexual preference?"
 
Ok, well let's see...

I wouldn't be into tickling another guy. It's just not for me. It's not because tickling to me is a sexual activity or anything, because i tickle lil girls (not torture them or anything by it so don't get mad) and when I do it's just for fun, because i don't think tickling is always sexual. I mean it sometimes is but not always. I do it because it's fun/i'm bored/the girls hot or other reasons. But even tho it's not sexual always I don't like tickling other guys. I used to tickle my older brother but not my thing anymore. I guess it's how guys are raised. Like most guys don't hug other guys unless they're like family. Girls can hug other girls no matter what but to alot of people when a guy hugs another guy people think they're gay. Guys just aren't close to other guys like that and do things that might seem a little sexual, so i'm gonna have to say no to guys, just hell yes to girls...
 
i think its abit much

i dont have any inclination to tickle a male. I think that stuff is sick personally. I only tickle females, however I dont mind two females tickling eachother. I don't have a desire to see two woman having sex or kissing though. Im a true straight man lol.
 
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